What does your husband do to be a good husband when you are in the delivery room?

I encountered such a plot when I watched TV dramas. My husband stood outside the delivery room and waited anxiously. The parturient in the delivery room is hysterical. When the parturient comes out safely, the husband will hold his wife's hand and say: Thank you for your hard work. ?

But in fact, is it really so sweet? Giving birth to a child must be the clearest thing a mother has ever experienced. Let's take a look at what husbands outside the delivery room are doing in the real world.

It can be seen that beauty only stays in TV dramas. In reality, prospective fathers either play games, smoke or make trouble during the delivery, or they are not present at all. Few people can handle everything after their wives enter the delivery room. I want to be a qualified prospective father. What should the prospective father do after the pregnant mother enters the delivery room?

1, use the time before entering the delivery room to chat with your wife to distract your attention.

When a woman gives birth to a child, especially a woman who gives birth for the first time, she is very nervous, fearful and anxious during the labor process, and a bad mood will affect the production progress. As a prospective father, we should first adjust our mentality, try to avoid showing nervousness and fear to aggravate the pregnant mother's bad mood, and at the same time find ways to help the pregnant mother divert her attention, such as telling jokes and saying some happy things, so as to appropriately reduce the psychological pressure and discomfort of the pregnant mother.

2. Prepare the items that may be needed in advance and stand by outside the delivery room.

Maternal sanitary napkins, energy snacks, baby clothes and other items may be used in the process of giving birth to a baby. It is necessary for prospective fathers to prepare in advance. It's best to classify related items in a bag so that they can't be found when needed. In addition, the prospective father should not walk around after his wife enters the delivery room. It is best to sit outside the delivery room and wait patiently. In case the delivery room needs anything, the prospective father can provide it in time.

3. After the parturient enters the delivery room, go through the relevant formalities and notify the family members.

It is often quite sudden for a woman to give birth to a child. After being pushed into the delivery room, there may be some follow-up work to be done, such as going through various procedures and notifying the families of both parties. At this time, it is time to show a man's sense of responsibility. A well-prepared prospective father must calmly help his wife do related things outside the delivery room, so that he will feel more at ease when his wife is born.

Therefore, giving birth to a child is not a matter for pregnant mothers alone. Although the husband can't help outside the delivery room, he should also give the pregnant mother the company she deserves.