Sometimes, is it more interesting to make a fool of yourself?

Once I went to play werewolf killing with a female friend. Werewolf killing has also appeared in many programs. This game needs everyone to say boldly that whoever has good logic can cheat everyone without changing his face and jumping, and whoever can achieve his goal. Sometimes a table can seat fifteen people. Although not everyone knows each other, everyone quickly enters the role and the atmosphere is very harmonious. However, when my friend and I went to the toilet together, they said, why do you always feel that you can't integrate into the game? I dare not say a lot in my heart. I don't know if I'm right or not, for fear of being laughed at.

"I'm embarrassed. Although I have participated in this game several times, I am still afraid that others will think that I am wrong and think that I am a garbage player. " She said that she was careful all night, so she didn't enjoy the game like others.

I didn't laugh at her, although she always advertised that she wanted to conquer Sanlitun Party. ......

But according to her current mental state, it should be impossible. Even playing board games with strangers is so afraid of making a fool of herself and making mistakes. How can she have fun?

I don't know if you feel that fear of making a fool of yourself and embarrassment is the biggest obstacle for us to enjoy life.

Just like when you were at school, you really wanted to be a monitor. Whether you think being a monitor is awesome or you think you can learn a lot in this position, you may even carefully plan what I would do if I were a monitor, but you are afraid to run for public office. You are afraid of being defeated and making a fool of yourself.

The school company held a party and everyone around it was very happy. Many people have signed up to perform on stage, and you really want to go, but after thinking about it for two days, I think I'd better forget it, for fear that others will think you love being there. Most importantly, if you are not good at performing on the stage, you will be timid.

Go out to play with friends, whether singing K or playing games, everyone has a good time and dares to sing and speak, but you are always embarrassed and don't even have the courage to sing a solo. You are afraid that you are out of tune, afraid that you can't sing well, and you will suppress the impulse to grab wheat all night.

The psychological burden is too heavy, as if making a little imperfection at this moment will ruin your life.

We don't have that many viewers. In fact, boldness is more natural and graceful, and it is more pleasing than holding it. I especially liked a Mongolian girl in our class when I was in college. Seeing her, I decided that all minority girls can sing and dance, and they are straightforward and generous.

At the Mid-Autumn Festival party of freshmen, 70 people in the class sat around the playground for the first time, which was considered as the first serious group building. The party is not so formal, and there is a talent show after everyone introduces themselves. All the girls are embarrassed to go forward, including myself. Everyone looks at me, and I look at you. The atmosphere is so embarrassing.

But the Mongolian girl danced and walked to the center. A Mongolian dance conquered everyone in the place, and then a jazz dance mobilized everyone's enthusiasm. The music is high. At this time, many students have let go. Of course, there are still many students whose left and right feet are fixed. We can see that they want to play and pretend to be calm.

Actually, don't be too restrained. Everyone is scrambling to circle with her. At this time, who will worry about whether the dance is in tune or not, and whether the action is enough?

What if you make a fool of yourself?

Sometimes what you think is "ugly" is also cute in the eyes of others.

My college roommate always sings out of tune, and she can lead everyone in a strange way, but every time she sings K, she never cares what she wants to sing. Will we laugh at her for being out of tune? Seriously, I will, tease her and run with her. If she sits there, she must resist the desire to play, and if she wants to play, she will feel uncomfortable. Anyway, it's not a singing contest, so it doesn't need so much. Exactly.

The more you grow up, the more shameless you are. I used to think that I should never destroy my image. If I can't dance well, I won't dance. If I can't sing well, I will shut up. I won't show up until I have practiced the game to the master level. But now, I'm tired of working and studying and being a serious adult. Why pursue perfection when it is time to relax and try?

So now I go out to play and like to be with people who can let go of themselves. Many people envy them for showing their truth and happiness. They can take you and make a spa for their mood together.

Why do some people dislike going out to socialize? It's not because socializing is ineffective, nor because the people you go with are unfamiliar, but because the problem lies with yourself. If you are the low pressure of the whole activity, it really doesn't make much sense to go or not.

We should have the courage to jump out of a nine-day Xuan Nv style, even if the people around us are professional dancers.

Of course, work and study are the same. I dare not speak in public, dare not speak as a representative, feel that my oral English is not good, I have never spoken in English class, I feel stiff, and I have never asked for sick leave in dance class. ......

Get rid of them all! Change it! Otherwise, you don't know how much you missed. Interesting. More often, don't set yourself too perfect, and don't ask too much of yourself. If you live too seriously, you can't enjoy it at all.

So, even if I am a pit in the pesticide king,

I'm so happy anyway.

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