Why do some people remarry after divorce (most women choose to remarry)

Even though the divorce rate is rising, it is undeniable that for ordinary women, having a marriage history is a disadvantage.

A really good man, if he has good conditions, is likely to choose an unmarried woman as his life partner. Divorced women are likely to form a new family with the same divorced men.

But as the saying goes, half a husband and wife, each leave one hand. Because they were hurt in their feelings, they instinctively built a heart wall for each other. Because each has his own children, it is impossible for people to be impartial.

Therefore, many women will choose to remarry under the persuasion of relatives and friends, compared with those couples who are not deeply affectionate and not deeply calculated.

So, is it wise to remarry? Let's take a look at the following three respondents.

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Miss Qin, 28 years old, divorced for one year and remarried for half a year.

My husband and I are in love on campus, and we got a card as soon as we graduated from college. I didn't think too much at that time, because we had never been in love for four years and felt that the feelings were deep, and no matter how big the storm, it was impossible to blow away our marriage.

But none of us expected that the marriage would end in failure in less than two years. Before our marriage had time to encounter violent storms, it was defeated in daily trivial stumbling.

When I was in love, I always said that I would cook a lot of delicious food in the future and make me fat in vain. But after he got married, he didn't even want to wash dishes, let alone cook. Every time I lose my temper, he doesn't want to wash it.

Also, when I was in love, he said that everything I bought was really suitable for me, and when I got married, he said that I wasted money.

When we are in love, we hardly quarrel. After marriage, I feel something is wrong without quarreling. He doesn't give in to me as before, and he seldom coaxes me humbly.

So, on a trivial matter about who should take out the garbage, we were all tired of quarreling and reached a divorce understanding calmly.

In the year of divorce, I lost sleep almost every day, and my mind was full of beautiful pictures when we were together, and my mind was full of his goodness. Occasionally, I received a greeting call from him, always crying first and then saying.

A year later, I hurt my leg in an accident. He came to take care of me when he knew, and we naturally remarried.

After this ordeal, we are all mature, because we all know how to cherish what we have lost. Although I occasionally cook for people and drag my feet, I will get up and do it when I quarrel. I still like to brush Taobao, but I won't waste any more money.

Many times, I think remarriage is happier than marriage.

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32-year-old Ms. Zhang remarried for one year and is going to divorce again.

He and I were introduced by friends, and it was love at first sight. We talked about getting married for about two years. I had a good time after marriage, but when I was actively pregnant, I found an unopened condom in his pocket.

He was honest, too, and immediately admitted to cheating, but he said that he had no feelings for the woman who was having an affair. He begged me to forgive him and give him another chance.

I didn't forgive him and decided to divorce. Although he had to agree to divorce, he still called me every day to send messages, knocked on my door whenever he was free, and sometimes blocked me downstairs.

Later, under the persuasion of parents and his repeated assurances, we remarried. When he first remarried, he really changed. He stuck to me all day and all social accounts were open to me.

But it didn't last long. When I was eight months pregnant, I saw him hug a girl, talking and laughing, and kissed her in public.

Now that I have sued for divorce, I want to strive for the best interests for myself and my children. So this divorce may be ugly and may make many people laugh.

It is false to say that I don't care at all, but I still want to tell all my sisters with my own experience that there are really only zero and countless infidelities. Don't expect the prodigal son to come back unless he is at the end of his rope.

Otherwise, with the wind, waves will continue to exist.

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Ms. Sun, 40 years old, remarried for four years, and never thought about getting divorced again, but she just didn't divorce.

My child's father and I quietly went through the divorce formalities in the tenth year of marriage. There was no cheating, no cheating or even a big fight.

Suddenly one day, he asked me for a divorce, and I found that our marriage was really like a stagnant pool, and it was already lifeless. I feel a little sad, a little sad, but also a little relieved.

We underestimated the reaction of our teenage daughter. For the fact that we have divorced, she first cried and gave us cold words. Later, I skipped class and fell in love, and my grades plummeted.

For our daughter's future, we chose to remarry. Marriage certificate for divorce certificate and marriage certificate, after some tossing, our marriage has returned to the original point and has not changed at all.

Neither getting better nor getting worse, but as before, marriage is only an empty shell, and people in marriage may never live again.

To some extent, remarriage is actually the same as marriage. The right person, the right person, will only get better and better after having the certificate.

And two people who are wrong and inappropriate, even if they insist on remarriage, will make the same mistake again.

Where to go, no matter how good a psychological counselor or emotional analyst, can point out a clear path. Because the most correct answer is in your heart.