Idolated feelings

The word idolization is almost a derogatory term in the eyes of others. Some people think that idolization, like a madman, likes an impossible person and gives everything for this impossible person.

In fact, the real idolization is just to set a goal for a person who he thinks is excellent, and then try to get close to it. The goal I set for myself seems to be the brightest star in the sky, since I set this goal. Then the purpose is naturally to get close to the shining and moving star. The stars will not run to you, nor will they approach you actively. If one day, the brightest star suddenly runs towards you, it is not a star.

For example, I like Karry. The reason I like him is because he persisted when everyone chose to give up. He used to be an unknown trainee, hated by many people and spurned by the company, thinking that he might never become a star, but he broke all this with his own strength, and I learned persistence from him.

And his younger brothers, all very powerful. The oldest, Ding, is 18 years old this year. He once said that my world doesn't need to be defined by others. The youngest member, Liu, 14 years old, said, either don't do it or do the best. Everyone wants him (her) to rolling in the deep, but I want him (her) to soar in Wan Li. Everyone is a spotlight. I can shine for myself. That's why I like and admire them.

Their quality, upbringing and gentleness are engraved in their bones. When touching the cup, the wall of the cup is lower than that of their elders. When eating, they wait for their elders, help themselves, and then pick up chopsticks. Use both hands when sending and receiving things. Always say "thank you" and "sorry". They taught me all these things.

Therefore, idolization is not a bad habit, but an effort to get close to the goals set by yourself. Some girls keep saying that they want to marry their idols. Maybe you think they are wishful thinking, but they know better than anyone that we are dream catchers, not from idolize. And I also clearly understand that if I really stay with Aidou, then his (her) efforts for so long will be in vain.

I came to idolize just to make myself a star with the same goal, and then use my dazzling light to illuminate those who are still looking for directions. Maybe idolized girls have this experience, parents' opposition and friends' dislike. However, I am chasing the shining stars. If there is no idol, then everyone will be trapped in their comfort zone and have no goal to travel.

Of course, idolization also wants to chase positive energy stars. If it's just the face value, then my advice is to give it up. Although the stars with negative energy are dazzling, how can we be sure whether there is a pure heart hidden under the glamorous appearance? A person can be judged by his or her actions, behaviors and manners. If he (she) becomes a negative energy person because of a negative energy idol, it is a joke.

There is a saying in Ten Deadly Sins that if you love too much, it will become a sin! Yes, the closest distance between us and our idol is on stage and off stage. They shine on the stage, and we give them a persistent idea. It is a crime for some irrational fans to buy itineraries by illegal means. According to Article 39 of the Criminal Law of People's Republic of China (PRC), "No one may use illegal means to search a citizen's house or illegally invade a citizen's house." In recent days, the Youth League of Times has been on the hot search and CCTV because of improper things. In the picture that broke out in the company, this illegitimate child had no quality at all, so he cursed when he opened his mouth, blocked in front of the company, and even sneaked into the company.

? Ding, one of the members, said: "When we went to the toilet, the illegitimate child was eavesdropping in the compartment, which made us very scared. If the person we meet is not an illegitimate child but a murderer, and I still think he is an illegitimate child, I won't take precautions. He suddenly rushed at me with a knife. What should I do? " This is what a teenager said. Now he can think of the murderer from the actions of these illegitimate children, which shows how much psychological shadow the illegitimate children have caused them. Another member, He said: "When we were in the dormitory, we were very afraid of having illegitimate children next door or across the street. They are everywhere. " This is the sad experience of a boy of 16 years old. 14-year-old Liu said that he always speaks carefully at home. He told his family to keep it down because he was afraid of illegitimate children nearby. This is a teenager who is only 14 years old. In the early days, he was illegally installed with a tracker and sent toxic substances. Presumably, idols have been extremely disappointed with their fans.

This kind of behavior born out of wedlock is the madman in the eyes of parents and friends, while we are just ordinary dream catchers in idolization, all working hard on the road of chasing dreams and getting closer to our goals bit by bit. So, in the future, we will come to you with glory, become a star, and make you regret what you said before.