My mother-in-law borrowed 60,000 yuan from her daughter-in-law, and now she needs 1 thousand yuan pension every month. What did her daughter-in-law respond to?

I wonder why women always fight with their daughters-in-law. If the man caught in the middle is always timid, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will certainly not be handled well. How the daughter-in-law answers is nothing more than a calculation between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

When Ying Yu and her husband first got married, the two families were unhappy because of the bride price and dowry. I dare not say that there is any hatred between the two families, but there is a knot in each other's heart, and we will be more or less biased when we get along in the future.

After that, the mother-in-law asked for a monthly pension of 1000 yuan, and the children had the obligation to support the elderly. It should have been like this, but Yu Ying was not happy. She not only resolutely refused, but also gave a bunch of reasons to make her mother-in-law speechless. But this time, I support Yu Ying's approach. My mother-in-law really pushes her luck and my husband has nothing to say. Yu Ying finally stopped vomiting, and she was out of breath.

First, the mother-in-law plays tricks. Cheating? Sixty thousand sons and daughters-in-law.

When Ying Yu married her husband, her mother-in-law said that she wanted100000 bride price and a wedding room, not a penny less, not a penny more, and asked her to marry100000.

When it comes to the wedding room, others say that the wedding room is a newly bought house, but what my mother-in-law said is actually to redecorate the house where I used to live, and it didn't cost much. She actually used this as a bargaining chip and asked my family to pay100000 to get married. Finally, I have to live with my in-laws.

Yu Ying's parents were very angry and said they didn't agree to get married, which reassured her mother-in-law. As long as she marries 50 thousand, she can treat her mother-in-law like a human being. As the saying goes, whether a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can live in harmony depends on whether she cares about marriage. Before her daughter-in-law entered the house, she began to make things difficult for others. What kind of good mother-in-law can she be with such strength and rules?

After a few days of marriage, my mother-in-law took Yu Ying's 50,000 dowry as the reason for losing money in her small business, saying it was urgent, and then it never happened again.

A few days after marriage, my mother-in-law came to collect the money. Yu Ying knows what she's thinking. She took the 50 thousand yuan, which is equivalent to her son getting married. She only spent 50 thousand yuan. Yu Ying also complained about her husband, but her husband comforted her by saying that we are all family and we still care so much. My mother must be in trouble. Please understand. ?

My mother-in-law is playing shameless games again. After the grandson's one-hundred-day banquet, her mother-in-law as a grandmother wrapped a big red envelope for her grandson in front of relatives and friends, with 10 thousand yuan in it. But that night, I came over and my son wanted to go back. He said he borrowed it. Yu Ying called her mother-in-law a monkey, but she didn't spend money and earned face. Yu Ying put up with it, but her mother-in-law didn't give it to her, and it wasn't her own money anyway.

Second, the mother-in-law raises alimony, and the daughter-in-law: either pay back the money or deduct it every month.

When a girl gets married, it depends on her mother-in-law. It is one thing for a boyfriend to be kind to you, but it depends on her ability to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But in life, too many girls just think about their lover wholeheartedly, and so does Yu Ying.

But after these things, Yu Ying asked her husband for economic power. Yu Ying knew that her husband gave her mother-in-law money on weekdays. Now, according to the management of money, it is not so easy for her husband to spend money, and it is not so easy for her mother-in-law to reach out for money.

However, the mother-in-law thought of a trick, that is, asking her son and daughter-in-law for alimony. One day, my mother-in-law said in front of Yu Ying and her son. My small business is getting harder and harder. Starting from tomorrow, you will give me 1000 yuan in alimony every month. ?

Although Ying Yu and her husband's salary is not high, they add up to tens of thousands. Take out a thousand dollars. No problem. However, at the thought of Qian Qian's money in her mother-in-law's heart, Yu Ying only knew how to plan her son and daughter-in-law. She can't stand it this time.

Mom, it's no problem to give you 1000 yuan a month for old-age care, but you borrowed 50,000 yuan from me after you got married, and your son borrowed 1 10,000 yuan after the centennial dinner, totaling 60,000 yuan, and I didn't urge you to pay it back. You can pay me back now. If I deduct it monthly, I won't give you money for the next five years, and I'll give it to you after deducting alimony. ?

My mother-in-law didn't expect her daughter-in-law Ying Yu to make such a move. She guessed that she was a crafty woman at heart. She looked at her son without saying a word or folding for a moment. She left angrily. I don't know where Yu Ying's confidence came from this time, but her husband knows very well that he is not on his mother's side.

Third, family members should not threaten their families, and be a person with a bottom line.

A family doesn't have to care too much about money, but if it keeps taking money to test the bottom line of the family, it will not only affect family harmony, but also become an enemy. In fact, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not related by blood. They are family only because of the same man. Only when you face each other sincerely will you get sincerity.

Ying Yu's handling of this matter did not cause family disputes, which is largely due to her husband. Filial piety is proper, but everything is measured. Men should also love their wives and children, but all the prerequisites should be to have their own position and treat them in the right way, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be harmonious and the family can be happy.