They raised us and let us accompany them until we grow old.

I don’t know since when, my parents are no longer the omnipotent supermen.

Some of them don't know how to do it, or don't understand it. They begin to rely on you subconsciously, but they are cautious, fearing that you will be unhappy.

I watched a video earlier. It was very short, but very heart-wrenching.

It opens with an interview. An old man with graying hair sat in front of two young girls for an interview.

The two interviewers were very surprised. Why did an old man with extraordinary conversation and retirement want to apply for a job as an intern doing errands and doing odd jobs?

The reasons given by this father are heartbreaking:

It turns out that he just wanted not to be abandoned by the times, and wanted to learn more so that he could take care of his daughter more.

Behind this, his daughter has grown up and he is no longer needed.

He saw the bill on the table while eating. He wanted to help his daughter pay the bill, but her daughter said she "can pay it herself."

Confused, he secretly ran to the business hall to help his daughter pay the bill, but was laughed at by the people in the business hall, because it was already the era of automatic online payment.

It was raining heavily and his daughter did not bring an umbrella. He was worried that her daughter would get wet, so he took a long bus ride to bring her an umbrella.

But in fact, her daughter planned to take a taxi home directly, but his appearance only added to the chaos. She had to take a taxi to take him home a long way.

I secretly went to my daughter’s house and wanted to cook a delicious meal for her, but unexpectedly I broke the bowl. Seeing the mess, the daughter's tone was inevitably harsh: "I'm not a child anymore, I can take care of myself!"

He fell silent, turned around and left in embarrassment.

The father looked at his daughter's face and was at a loss.

He wanted to help, but he always couldn't. He wanted to learn new things, but he didn't dare bother his daughter to teach him.

When I was a child, she always praised me as a superman. Now, I am outdated and always causing trouble. When my daughter grows up, she no longer needs my dad, an outdated superman.

It makes people sad to see what this father said, and why is he not our parent?

It is said that the one who loves deeply is the humble one.

The same applies to the relationship between parents and children.

It’s just that unlike love, the humbleness of family affection is often as low as the bones.

Faced with aging parents, many times, the children are as "arrogant" as they were before:

"How come you haven't learned it after teaching you so many times? Yes!"

"If you don't know how to do it, don't touch it!"

"Why can't you do such a small thing?"

"Tell you. How many times have I done this..."

Many times, as we grow older, we may become more impatient with our parents, feeling that they are nagging and annoying, and that they cannot do many things well.

This made them start to be afraid, hiding in their own small circle, and trembling with fear.

Looking at your face carefully, for fear of making you unhappy.

There is even a hint of "hesitation" and "pleasure" in his words and actions.

The relationship between parents and children begins to undergo a qualitative reversal as the children grow up.

The once weak party has become strong, and the strong party has also become cautious.

This home is yours from now on.

Children often become strong and impatient unconsciously.

But in fact, the reason why children can be so unscrupulous is because they know that their parents’ love will never go out of style?

From being strict "for your own good" when I was a child, to being cautious when getting along with you when I get older.

From beginning to end, they never forgot to love you.

They are just old, there is nothing wrong with that.

I want to say:

If one day, your parents start to look at your face;

If one day, your parents start to be careful with you Speak;

If one day, faced with your bad temper, your parents start to become silent;

If one day, your parents start to do what you ask .

Please be kind to them.

Because this indicates that they are getting older.

Please be kind to them.

As much as they love you.

Be more patient with them, care more about them, rely more on them, and help them more.

Help them integrate into this new world and let them be your superman for the rest of their lives.

They raised us and let us accompany them until we grow old.