I am struggling with one thing. My friend and I had a very good relationship when we were young, but we had a falling out over a small matter.

Do you still keep friends like this for the New Year?

Although friends are the most friendly or reliable communication partners in the social circle, human nature is complicated. When communicating with friends, you must be thoughtful and cautious, and distinguish between closeness and distance. According to common sense, people who become friends usually have similar tastes and personalities, some have similar interests, some have similar cultural levels, some have noble personalities, have similar minds, etc.

In terms of the reasons for communication, there are acquaintances who have cut each other's throats, acquaintances who have never been against each other, acquaintances in times of need, gentlemen's acquaintances, acquaintances who have forgotten their years, casual acquaintances, business acquaintances, family friends, old friends, etc.

No matter what the reason is for you to be friends, after a period of dating, you should make a choice, whether you are close or distant. For example, some friends are sincere and innocent, so they can naturally have a sincere and deep friendship; but there are also friends who come to you for some utilitarian purpose. Once the benefits are not achieved or when you are poor and have no use value to them, they will leave. As long as you leave, you can't make friends like this deeply. What's more, it's better to keep a certain distance.

There are no two identical leaves in the world. Although your friend has a similar temperament, similar interests, and congenial temperament to you, your friend is still a living person after all.