Giraffe communication method

Before the age of 30, when talking and communicating with people, I always advocated that I am who I am, that is, direct and frank, and never thought about how much harm I would do to others. Recently, I began to reflect on my communication style and learn how to communicate with others. I learned a giraffe communication method here.

First of all, giraffes are characterized by "high height, big heart and slow response", which can be skillfully applied to our communication. When he is old, he doesn't care, 2. He never feels that everything will hurt him when he is slow. Plus, he stands tall and sees far, and won't haggle over trifles in front of people.

We can communicate with giraffes. He can let us communicate without deviating from the track and forgetting to a great extent. The first characteristic of giraffes is that they stand tall and see far. People who are good at giraffes are communicators. They won't pester people endlessly because of a little thing. They will see a longer-term problem. They know what their communication purpose is and will not be taken away by emotions. Just like when we are cultivating children, we must not deny their future just because they made a mistake today. This is neither objective nor fair. We must take a long-term view.

The second characteristic of giraffes is that most people who are slow to respond will face the contusion and pain in their lives calmly and move forward in their own direction. On the contrary, they are very sensitive, always haggle over every ounce, and especially care about other people's comments. Such people are particularly emotional, which leads to communication deadlock.

The third characteristic of giraffes is their big heart. Giraffes are tall, so their hearts are big, so they can lose blood. The bigger the heart, the more careless. Some people think that there are fewer people with big hearts. But a big heart is a kind of wisdom in life, because many times too much care about gains and losses and success or failure can't change the present. It's better to look farther and learn to be indifferent and let go.