Teachers' words 11. Students don't like to say hello to their teachers. What should the teachers say?

? Why don't students like to greet their teachers? To sum up, there are nothing but the following four points:

? 1. Timid, shy, nervous when I see the teacher, afraid to say hello to the teacher.

? 2. I have been hurt by the teacher, and I am still angry with the teacher and disdain to say hello to the teacher.

? 3. Born in cool thin, I have no attachment to my teacher, no respect, and I am too lazy to say hello to my teacher.

? 4. I don't know human etiquette, I don't have social awareness, and I don't know how to say hello to the teacher.

No matter what reason students don't say hello to the teacher, as a teacher, there is no need to insist, let alone judge the value of students' behavior of not saying hello.

? In fact, in the world of adults, people who like to say hello are more popular, because in the eyes of the person being greeted, the other person's greeting is to release goodwill and express good feelings to him.

? The students we tolerate will grow up sooner or later. If they are not trained to be adults when they are minors, they will be "beaten" by society. When they are over-understood and respected by teachers at school, they will think that all this is right. When they entered the society, they found that all the rules were not their own decisions. They saw a real world, and the psychological gap was particularly large. Some children will quickly adjust their mentality, from what should be to what should be, and become mature. Some children can't go ashore when they are immersed, and they will become a person who is out of tune with their surroundings.

? Therefore, even if I don't care whether the students greet me or not, I will try my best to ask the students who don't greet me. How to do it specifically?

? 1. Be cheeky and ask students to say hello to me. For the kind of students who are born in cool thin and don't know manners, they don't say hello when they come face to face with me. I will definitely stop him, then hold his shoulders, look into his eyes, and say with a smile, I am so embarrassed that I don't say hello when I see him. My master is so embarrassed, I will be so angry that I can't eat and sleep well. Just say hello to me, just say hello, call the teacher. I asked, of course, students can't refuse, so they have to call me embarrassed, hello teacher! I deliberately listened and said, the voice is too small, the tone is too weak, and the sincerity is insufficient. I want to hear you call again! The students had no choice but to let go of the volume and call again. If the students' voices are still relatively small and the state is somewhat awkward, I will beg them to call for the third time. I won't let them go until they can scream easily and smoothly. When I let go, I will still talk to you. Next time you meet me, you must say hello to me, or I will be sad. From then on, such students will take the initiative to say hello to me when they see me.

? A colleague said, this is your greeting, fall in price. I said, I'm not asking for a greeting from a student. I don't care whether they greet me or not. What I ask is that students can form the habit of greeting people and realize that greeting people is a social etiquette and a very important social life.

? 2. Take the initiative to greet the students, in exchange for their greetings. Some students are timid and want to say hello to the teacher, but they just don't have the courage to speak. So I will take the initiative to greet such students, and the content of greeting must be meaningful. For example, XXX, you arrived in class early today, and I like you! So-and-so, your schoolbag is so beautiful. Where did you buy it? So-and-so, the color of your shoelaces is really nice, which matches your shoes well ...

? After I finish greeting, I will say to the students: Come and don't be rude. Say hello to me, too. You won't owe me anything unless you say hello to me. Students naturally dare not owe me, so they say hello to me with their lips mumbled. As long as this kind of students say hello for the first time, they are not afraid to say hello for the second time. Slowly, in my begging, the children say hello louder.

? As for the students who are dissatisfied with the teacher and disdain to say hello to the teacher, they should not rush to ask him to say hello, but talk openly with the students. If the teacher is wrong, they can make a sincere apology without finding any reason or making any excuse. If students misunderstand, just explain it sincerely. If all the mistakes are made by the students, after analysis and explanation, they are still determined to be dissatisfied with the teacher and see that the teacher refuses to say hello, so be it. When he grows up, the social university will help the teacher to give him the most accurate education!

? Since this article talks about greeting, I'll say it again by the way. As a teacher, how to guide students to say hello correctly is also very important.

? One day, when I came out of the bathroom, a boy greeted me warmly, but his greeting made me extremely embarrassed and uncomfortable. He said, Teacher, were you taking a shit just now? I said nothing, pretended to be deaf and left quickly.

? It is better not to say hello like this!

? What's the proper way to greet people when they meet at the toilet like this? Naturally, the simpler the better, just three words: hello teacher!

? The word "good teacher" is a universal version. You can greet your teacher with "good teacher" whenever and wherever, and you are not embarrassed at any time.

? Go home from home, say hello to your parents, just say, dad/mom, I'm leaving; Mom/Dad, I'm back. The method is simple, the meaning is clear and the effect is good.

? As for greeting classmates, the pressure and scruples between peers are relatively small, just say hello, of course, the content of greeting should make the other party feel happy.

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