How to reply with high emotional intelligence when eating?

Remember the high emotional intelligence reply of the dinner?

Scene 1: I can't see it. You can drink well.

At this time, don't be silly and say, "Oh, just so-so, not so delicious." This statement seems modest, but there is no room for the other party to reply. The scene can only be embarrassing.

Let's put it another way: "Teacher Chen, you flatter me. You really can't drink at ordinary times. Aren't you happy to eat with you today? This happiness led to an increase in alcohol consumption, so I drank a few more drinks.

Scene 2: It's very kind of you to order so many dishes.

Don't say, "Not much, not much, not enough." In this way, others will only think that you are an idiot, and even there are some real villains. If you take the opportunity to beat you, you can only suffer dumb losses.

Put it another way: "Teacher Chen, you are usually so busy that it is really not easy to ask you out once. It's rare for you to come here a little more, and I don't know if it's to your taste. Please forgive me for the poor hospitality.

Scene 3: I spent your money today.

At this time, don't say, "There's not much money to do this." This tone is contemptuous and makes the other person feel disrespected. You are not sincere, and he will not take the value of this meal to heart.

Put it another way: "Mr. Fish, I am honored to have dinner with you. Today's meal is just a token of our gratitude. Let's get together more in the future. I can ask you more questions, can't I? "