I feel sorry for Chen Ruoyi, she is sensible and considerate but cannot win the respect of her mother-in-law. Why doesn't Jimmy Lin dare to say anything?

In "Mother-in-Law and Mom", I was really frightened by Chen Ruoyi's mother-in-law. The way Lin Zhiying's mother and daughter-in-law Chen Ruoyi interacted was really breathtaking. It turns out that in 2020, there are still mothers-in-law who use the family management method How to educate your daughter-in-law, Chen Ruoyi, who has always been willing to compromise, is inevitably heartbreaking!

When Lin Zhiying’s mother saw Chen Ruoyi, she immediately raised a question, "Why don’t you zip up the zipper? It’s rude for you to wear jeans like that and you don’t respect the elderly." Chen Ruoyi quickly said that the temperature was too hot and the clothes were too hot. It's just a design.

She guided Chen Ruoyi to learn cooking at the dinner table, "You have already learned how to cook. How old am I and how old are you? How can I be so powerful? You are so young and you have to learn." Chen Ruoyi has a humble and gentle attitude Shunli, while praising his mother's cooking skills, said that he would study hard to cook.

After not seeing her mother-in-law for a long time, Chen Ruoyi decided to buy a few sets of clothes for her mother-in-law. Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law disliked them all. Every piece was satisfactory, and she emphasized the problem of clothes without mercy.

After the meal, Chen Ruoyi was busy in the kitchen, and her mother-in-law asked: "Ruoyi, do you want to eat the pineapple first, or wipe the window first?" The gentle daughter-in-law Chen Ruoyi immediately went to clean the window, and Lin Zhiying The heartbroken daughter-in-law wanted to help, but her mother refused: "You can just take a rest."

Chen Ruoyi was not used to using the mop at her mother-in-law's house and her mother-in-law grabbed it tightly, and she was precise at every key point. Point, all the problems of left and right hands and postures have to be solved, and I know Chen Ruoyi will definitely not understand the end.

In just ten minutes, the relationship between Chen Ruoyi and her mother-in-law has been beyond imagination, and the trailer also updated the audience's cognitive abilities. Chen Ruoyi was picked on by her mother-in-law's friends in every possible way, and was used like a nanny. She was scolded even if she made any mistakes. In the trailer, we saw Chen Ruoyi helplessly breaking down and crying.

It was originally an entertainment program full of positive social energy, but the relationship between Lin Zhiying’s mother and Chen Ruoyi was nothing like the evil mother-in-law embarrassing the ugly daughter-in-law in the TV series. The mother-in-law was mean and arrogant. The irrationality and toughness are completely different from Chen Ruoyi's intelligence, obedience and respect for the elderly.

What I want to say after seeing Chen Ruoyi's situation is that you should never try to gain anyone's attention by being obedient and reasonable. Being obedient and kind-hearted can only be effective when used on the same people. Different groups must follow the trend, abide by the rules, and have a clear point of view, even if the person sitting directly opposite is your mother-in-law.

Chen Ruoyi’s difficulty lies in the establishment of a strong relationship. She is her husband’s mother. I need to take care of my mother’s mentality and not make her unhappy. From an emotional and moral perspective, there is nothing wrong with it, but from a human rights, fairness and respect basis, the mother-in-law's behavior has gone beyond the norm. Compromising and pleasing one person cannot solve the fundamental problem, but instead makes the other party suffer. Pushing the envelope.

Perhaps like many friends with a please personality, Chen Ruoyi does not know how to refuse, and is difficult to violate the wishes of the elderly and do "putting too much weight" on her. Most of the time, she gives up herself in order to avoid conflicts. standards and original intentions.

Everyone knows the truth. It is difficult to take the first step, but you must understand that even if you kill a good person with your tail between your legs, others may not give you face. They are always greedy and thinking about what to do. Carrying out the next round of emotional or verbal violence.

Your so-called integrity, gentleness, courtesy and frugality will never be exchanged for the same salary and benefits. It can be said that the more investment, the greater the disappointment. Our respect and understanding should be given to people who understand and care about us. Cherish what should be cherished and give up what should be given up, and maybe your life will be much easier.

Take the first step bravely and believe in yourself. There will be no great side effects. Maybe you will feel great!