What did your parents beat you for when you were a child?

I was savage when I was a child. I broke the nose of a little boy in the same village and said something unpleasant. Then my grandmother came to me and my parents beat me up.

Growing up, my parents generally gave me oral education, and seldom started to do anything to me. I still remember these few beatings. One winter vacation, my parents and I went back to my grandmother's home for the Spring Festival and brought back a new set of game machines and game cards. Out of show off in an ostentatious manner, I called all the children of the same age in the village to play together. As you know, most children in rural areas are left-behind children. My grandparents don't have enough spare money to buy new models for them, so I am naturally very happy to invite them to play together. Originally, this is a very pleasant thing.

But just when they all went home, I found a game card missing when I was sorting it out. I was so anxious that I asked them who took my card, but no one admitted it. Another boy said that I corrected them on purpose and played for them with false kindness. I was so angry that I picked up a clod from the ground and hit him, accidentally hitting his nose. I was actually a little scared to see him with a nosebleed, but to hide my panic, I said they were: "Really!" " "

Of course, things will not end like this. Not long after, the boy who was hit by me with a nosebleed showed up at my house with his grandmother. His grandmother sarcastically said, "People who live in the city are just different, unlike us who live in poor ravines. We are all thieves. " There was quite a gesture of hitting me back to get even, and then my parents beat me up. They beat me for two main reasons. One is to explain to their family, otherwise my parents and I will go back to the city, but my grandparents live in the country and the villagers are embarrassed. Second, they can't really fight back. It's no big deal. I'm afraid it will really hurt me.

I felt embarrassed at that time, but now I think they meant well, and it was that beating that taught me a lesson, that I should not show off in an ostentatious manner, keep a low profile, be civilized, don't swear, and don't mess around. I should consider the consequences when I do things. Using that lost game card is also a life experience! Therefore, I think that if you beat your child properly and let the child know the pain, the lesson will naturally be remembered. However, if you don't beat your child often, your child will be immune and lose the original intention of your education. Therefore, you should give priority to oral education.