Those scars will eventually grow into your indestructible armor

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A friend has been having a hard time recently. The company originally decided to promote him, but because his family has opened a store in the past few months, he is busy with the store every day. I was late for work every day, and my place was taken by others.

The house leaked and it rained all night, and the business of the store was not good. After operating for half a year, it closed down. The worst thing is that my wife ran away with someone else.

Suddenly it felt like my heart had been ripped out. Emotional emptiness and career failure all hit home deeply and left invisible scars. The surface is complete, but the inside is scarred.

My friend's mood plummeted, and he was immersed in gloom all day long, drinking, picking up girls, and looking sad all day long. He could no longer see the shadow of his former excellence.

In the long journey of life, everyone will encounter some heartbreaking things. Those people and things that have hurt themselves will be deeply or shallowly embedded in the heart, forming an invisible scar.

There are two types of injuries, one is on the surface and the other is invisible. In the lungs, superficial injuries heal easily, but internal injuries are difficult to heal.

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Su Shi has this sentence in "Qian Chibi Fu", "Only the cool breeze on the river and the bright moon in the mountains can be heard by the ears and heard by the eyes." It is the infinite treasure of the Creator, and it is the perfect one for me and my son."

It is difficult to feel sad when facing a major change in life. To understand, Su Shi chose to forget himself, return to nature, and integrate his limited life into nature, in exchange for freedom and happiness in life. Change your state of mind and live in the present.

There is a story that on a farm near Beulah County, Michigan, USA, the farmer put an iron ring on an elm tree on the property to facilitate tying cattle.

As the elm tree grew, the iron ring slowly embedded itself into the tree, leaving a deep scar on the tree's skin.

One year, a strange plant fungal disease occurred in the local area. All the elm trees within dozens of kilometers died, but the elm tree with the iron ring survived.

Why did this elm tree survive? Botanists became interested in this and organized people to conduct research. It turns out that it was the iron ring that scarred the elm tree that saved it. Because it absorbs a large amount of iron from the rusted iron ring, the elm tree has developed special immunity to the fungus.

Not only trees, but people too. We may have suffered various injuries in life, but these injuries will eventually become the nourishment of life, making life more resolute and stronger. At the same time, let the injury become a wake-up call, allowing us to get rid of confusion in time.

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There is a pair of sisters who went to the city to work from 9 to 5, but received meager wages. After much hesitation, they decided to start their own business and achieve economic success. free.

So I went to study under a teacher and opened a breakfast shop based on local living habits. Within a few months, the breakfast shop couldn't continue to operate, so I had to close it and run away.

They believed that the reason for the failure was not that they were not good at their studies, but that the store was too remote. But their master's business is very booming.

My sister was unwilling to give up and planned to find another busy street to open a store. Even if you reopen a store, it will take time and money to recover. Maybe it's because I'm destined to have nothing to do with money. Just like this, success once again passed by.

Two years have passed, and the master has made a lot of money, bought a house and a car. The villagers were laughing at them for not making any money. They smiled calmly.

On the same journey, some people laugh, some cry, some lose, and some win.

When people almost forgot about this incident, the owners of the booming shop were sick and hospitalized one after another because they added a special condiment to the breakfast condiment. , this is the main reason for good taste and good business, and it is also the root cause of their illness.

Although the sisters did not make any money, they made themselves alive and healthy. The lack of money has brought about a healthy body. This is not a kind of gain.

Money is an external thing. You are exhausted from running around for it every day, but you have forgotten your original intention. What is lost is harvested in the east.

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A fisherman went out to fish and encountered a storm. He only managed to save his life. The fishing boat and fishing gear were all lost in the sea.

After coming back, everyone laughed when they saw the fisherman's embarrassment. Some people deliberately teased the fisherman, oh, what a big bad thing happened to him when he went to sea.

Faced with everyone’s ridicule, the fisherman remained calm. He lost the tools to make a living and had no other skills. He was worried for a few days, not knowing what to do.

Hearing that the local army was recruiting, he went to try it out, and was successfully recruited and joined the army. Because of his excellent navigation ability, he made many meritorious service and became a local naval colonel.

I am born with talents that will be useful, and a fisherman can survive from a desperate situation. There is no way out in the mountains and rivers, but there is another village with dark willows and bright flowers. What will you encounter at the next intersection?

Unhappiness abounds in life. It is never smooth sailing. Everyone will encounter all kinds of troubles and troubles. This is normal. It is also life, as the saying goes, "Heaven and earth are the reverse journey of all things, time is the passerby of generations." What you have to do is not to worry about it and wallow in it.

"Zhuangzi: The World" said: "Fluorene is invisible and unpredictable." Life will not remain the same, and the years will never be quiet.