My sister-in-law bought a car and borrowed 33 thousand yuan. Should I help?

Help if you can, and help to the end

On the second day of marriage, the sister-in-law family came to borrow money, and the mother-in-law said, "Daughter-in-law, you and my son are married, we are all a family. If you can help, you must help. Don't let outsiders be embarrassed." I said a word, and my mother-in-law and sister-in-law were ashamed.

I met Qin Junsheng when I was working. Qin Junsheng is a warm man who can do laundry and cook and take the initiative to do housework, and takes good care of me.

I grew up in a single-parent family, and my mother and I lived alone. My father left my mother and me because I was a girl and my mother couldn't continue to have children.

Maybe it's the influence of family of origin. I have a strong personality, because only in this way can I not be bullied and protect my mother.

We have complementary personalities, and each has advantages that the other can't. Soon we will be together.

Qin Junsheng took me home for the first time, and my mother-in-law was still warm to me.

After getting along for two years, Qin Junsheng and I are not young. My mother-in-law urged us to get married many times, and we also put marriage on the agenda.

My mother-in-law took the initiative to discuss the marriage with my mother, and talked about the bride price and the living problem after marriage.

The bride price was quickly agreed. My mother-in-law said that he was only one son, and he would live together after marriage, otherwise he would be laughed at. The bride price could be given more, and finally it was agreed that the bride price was 166, yuan.

My mother said that I was her only daughter, and her husband's family gave her a bride price, but she was embarrassed not to give her dowry. My mother said that her husband's family gave me a bride price of 166, yuan, and she also gave me a dowry of 166, yuan.

I have an agreement with Qin Junsheng that we will use the bride price and dowry to pay the down payment and buy a house in the city.

The wedding went smoothly, and Qin Junsheng and I were very happy to receive the blessings from our family and friends.

the next morning, my sister-in-law came to the door and said she wanted to borrow money.

Qin Junsheng and I were both a little angry, but we still patiently asked her what she borrowed money for and how much.

Sister-in-law said, "My family wants to buy a car, so I'll borrow 33, if I don't need it."

I'm really angry. What are these operations? My feelings are for my bride price and dowry.

this money must not be borrowed.

before I could say no, my mother-in-law said, "Daughter-in-law, you and my son are married. We are all family. If you can help, you must help. Don't let outsiders see the joke."

I understood this statement when my mother-in-law didn't say it was fine. My mother-in-law must have instigated my sister-in-law to do this, with the purpose of taking my money away and saying it was a loan.

I smiled and said to my sister-in-law, "Sister, what car do you like? Do you need so much money?"

Sister-in-law didn't expect me to ask this question, so she couldn't say why.

I'm not annoyed, so I went on to say, "Mom also said that after marriage, it will be a family. My sister and brother-in-law have been married for three years, and family matters always need to be discussed. If this money is really urgent, I, as a sister-in-law, have to borrow it. Why don't we go to your house to discuss it? My brother-in-law and your in-laws must know that such a large sum of money can't be paid by you alone in the future. "

When my sister-in-law heard that she was going to her house to discuss it, she was even more afraid of her in-laws' knowing, and she laughed and said to think again.

I said to my mother-in-law, "Mom, since you said we are a family, we should do what a family can do, instead of calculating me with this sentence."

My mother-in-law and sister-in-law bowed their heads.