At the wedding, the bride's temporary price increase ruined her relationship for three years. What did the groom say to win the respect of the audience?

Many marriage customs in China actually hide its special significance. However, in modern times, the concept of marriage of the older generation has appeared some deviations, and even some deliberate destruction goes against its original intention.

Marriage symbolizes happiness and is the beginning of a beautiful life for young couples. However, many people do not hesitate to harm the interests of the other half in order to satisfy their own interests, and even take the emotional blackmail of "You don't agree, you don't love me" after the other party refuses.

I believe that when most people meet a greedy partner, they are pleasant on the surface, but in fact, they are already angry inside, but some people will choose to be patient and compromise because they want to get married smoothly.

and the persecutors have precisely grasped this mentality, so in most cases, the temporary fare increase on the wedding day is still tried and tested.

China people are proud of their faces, especially the old people. They are worried that they will not lose face in front of their relatives and friends when they get married, so if they have the money, they usually choose to give it.

But in this way, it encourages some people's "selfishness" and makes them more and more greedy. In fact, for a greedy person, no matter how much you give her, she will feel dissatisfied. So can feelings be measured by money?

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Chen Gang and his girlfriend, Tracy, have been in love for two years, and since they are both old, they began to discuss marriage. Chen Gang and Cece met on a blind date. When they first met, they already knew each other's situation through an intermediary.

Chen Gang is the only child in the family, and his family is ok. As early as when he was in college in Chen Gang, his parents had bought a house for him in his hometown. However, since Cece is a foreigner, and Chen Gang and his girlfriend Cece also work in other places, according to Cece's parents, Chen Gang needs to buy a house in the city where they work if she wants to marry her.

After selling the house in his hometown and buying a new house not far from their unit, Chen Gang has little money in his hand. However, he has to hold a wedding and give a bride price, which has made Chen Gang feel a little overwhelmed.

Fortunately, Chen Gang's parents secretly kept some. Originally, they kept them for their future pension, but when they saw that Chen Gang was poor in money when she got married, they took the initiative to take them out.

Chen Gang was embarrassed by what his parents had done for him, and secretly vowed to be filial to his parents in the future. Since Sissy's hometown is two hours' drive from Chen Gang's home, Sissy's parents said it would be better to arrange two weddings.

The first wedding was held in his girlfriend's hometown. Cece's parents said that they would pay for the money in their home. At that time, Chen Gang was very grateful to her parents-in-law for not giving herself a hard time.

however, he didn't expect that the really difficult thing was behind.

When Chen Gang was getting ready to pick up the bride, she received a message from Cece, meaning that she would have to pay a fare of 6, when she got off the bus later, so that Chen Gang could get ready in advance to avoid embarrassment.

Chen Gang suddenly lost his mind. He didn't say this expense before. Besides, 6, yuan is not small money. His money is clearly arranged, so there is no money left.

Chen Gang wanted to discuss with Cece, and called her, but she didn't answer. A few minutes later, Cece sent him a message again, meaning that the money was a lottery, and Cece also said that Chen Gang was unwilling to pay the money and didn't want to marry her at all.

Chen Gang was aggrieved and angry. Of course, he didn't want to pay the money, but he really didn't have any money. After some bargaining, the other party refused to let go. Finally, Chen Gang made a decision.

He sent a message to Cece: You stay at your home, and you won't get married.

After that, Chen Gang's mobile phone was turned off, and he went back to his hometown alone. When he turned it on, he received N missed calls and several short messages from Cece. At first, he was aggressive, and then he took the initiative to make peace. However, all this came too late.

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I believe that some people who temporarily raise their prices when they get married dare to be so "presumptuous" because they know each other's mentality, or because they love themselves. However, they have never considered a problem. A man may tolerate you for love, but even if he is patient, he must know clearly where the other person's bottom line is, otherwise it is very likely that a good love will be made by yourself.

Nowadays, men are just getting married. Even those who have been in love for several years intend to get married. When the other party touches their own interests and deliberately "embezzles money", they are also sober, and they turn their faces when they say they have turned their backs, even without giving the other party a chance to go back on their words.

in this way, it is actually a wake-up call for the "threat". Those feelings that we always think we are sure of winning, you will win because the other party is willing to lose to you.

Actually, in feelings, I personally think there is no shame in talking about money, and even there is nothing wrong with asking the other person for money, but the key posture should be good-looking. If the posture is not good-looking, it is no wonder that others have said it. For example, there is nothing wrong with the two families sitting together to discuss the bride price and dowry, a little more and a little less, and communicating with each other. After all, everyone will have some differences in their views on the issue of money, and mainly according to the actual situation.

But if it's something that is not explained in advance, it's not good to wait until the wedding day, so it's easy for the other person to stop trusting your character.

girls should not think that "it's just a little money, why don't you give it?" In fact, this is not a question of money at all, but a question of principle. When a person has no bottom line on the question of money and changes when he says it, there will be some doubts about the credibility of this relationship.