More and more grandmothers are taking care of their babies: Mom gave birth! Grandma raises you! Grandparents come to enjoy

Nowadays, many young people will leave the children to their parents to raise them after giving birth. In the traditional concept, the children will be raised by their grandmothers. But what we see around us is that more and more grandmothers are taking care of their children.

After the neighbor Xiao Li gave birth to her child, her mother took care of her. The child’s grandmother was almost nowhere to be seen. Outsiders asked, "Why don't you leave the child to grandma?" Xiao Li replied with a wry smile: Isn't the current environment that mom takes care of the child, grandma takes care of it, and grandparents are only responsible for admiring it?

Although this statement is a joke, it is enough to reflect the current reality: there are more cases where grandma takes care of her grandson than grandma takes care of her grandson.

What causes this situation?

1. The elderly just help to take care of their babies

With the gradual improvement of educational concepts, many mothers will choose to take care of their babies by themselves. Therefore, the role of the elderly is only a supporting role, and more often they take care of the daily life of the mother and children. Grandma assists in raising the baby, and can better understand her daughter's habits. Mother and daughter will get along more happily, which will help the mother and child maintain the same mental health.

2. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a century-old problem

Every family has sutras that are difficult to recite, but one of the difficult sutras must be: dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When a grandma comes to take care of a baby, she will inevitably have more or less conflicts with her mother about her life philosophy and marriage philosophy. Due to her status, conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can easily escalate. Therefore, the mother psychologically does not want her grandma to take care of the baby, and the grandma does not want to delay her later life because of the baby.

More and more people choose grandma to take care of their children, which shows that the benefits of having their children outweigh the disadvantages, and it is a rule of raising children that is more suitable for the development of the times.

1. It is easier to communicate with grandma about parenting issues

Due to the generation gap, the parenting concepts of elders and their own children will be different. But as we all live together, the child's grandmother and the child's mother are related by blood after all, so they feel more sorry for each other, and it is easier to understand each other's personalities. Communication is easier, and the exchange of educational concepts is easier.

2. The family environment is more harmonious, which is conducive to the growth and development of the child

The relationship between grandma and the mother of the child is harmonious and the communication is pleasant, so it is conducive to establishing an effective family environment and making the family more harmonious. Children who grow up in such an environment will develop healthily both physically and mentally.

Conclusion: Whether it is grandma or grandma who helps take care of the children, it is out of concern for their children that they sacrifice their own life to help in their later years. Therefore, parents must be grateful and use A grateful heart repays parents. When there are differences in parenting concepts, don't rush to complain. You should calmly think of solutions and think more about the difficulties of the elderly.

If it were you, would you choose grandma to take care of your baby or grandma to take care of your baby?