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What should I do if my girlfriend and best friend have conflicts?

It's best not to interfere in the contradiction between them and let them solve it by themselves. You just need to comfort your girlfriend at the right time.

Let her tell you the whole embarrassing process, analyze whether she has any problems, comfort her more and tell her that you support her unconditionally. Tell her not to be angry with herself. Anger is harmful to her health. Just chatting. If you are good girlfriends, you will still be good girlfriends in the future, but now you have different views on some things. So you'd better not interfere too much, lest her best friend's impression of you be greatly reduced.

When she is angry, you should calm her down first, then analyze the reasons for quarreling with her, and then encourage her to get back together with her best friend. At this time, you can constantly comfort her, tell her that you are still with her, analyze the reasons for her quarrel with her best friend, then help mediate as a middleman, and then try to help them ease their relationship.

No matter what you say or do, the principle is that you must make sure that you are on your girlfriend's side under any circumstances. Whatever the reason, your girlfriend must be right. Even if she is wrong, she certainly didn't mean it. With this basic principle, how to persuade depends on your own emotional intelligence.

If the emotional intelligence is not high, don't say a few words, just buy something delicious and fun to make her happy. It may not solve the problem fundamentally, but your girlfriend will be very pleased and give her a feeling that there is at least you in the world. If you speak with high emotional intelligence, you can persuade her to reconcile with reason, and then sweet talk, considerate and gentle, so that she feels that you are her safe haven, solid backing, think tank and mentor of life.

In fact, there are some contradictions between girls, and it's no big deal to be awkward. It will be fine in a few days. I'm in a bad mood these days at most. As long as you make her feel that you don't talk to her, the contradiction between her and her best friend will be even greater, and all her grievances will be vented on you, and then there will be contradictions between you. So how to comfort your girlfriend is really a test of emotional intelligence.