What about a middle-aged family with no sons but only daughters?

1. The neighbor just has no son and only one daughter.

Because they were born in an era of intense family planning,

Employees working in the unit can only have one child.

So they only have one daughter.

Now my daughter is in her twenties and is a graduate student in other places.

I only come back to see them on holidays.

I also talked about my boyfriend, from out of town.

I think the old couple's life is still chic.

My husband works in a public institution, and my wife does some small business.

Usually, if the husband is not too busy at work, he will also do something for his wife.

Earn as much as you can. Don't do anything that is too tiring. Ask someone to do it.

Wait until the off-season, the couple will go out for a trip to relax.

After dinner in the evening, the old couple went out for a walk, walked with the walkers and took a lesbian home.

3. Occasionally, when two people miss their daughter, they will go back to the city where their daughter goes to school to see her.

According to the couple, when a woman graduates and gets married,

They also resigned. I will buy a house near my daughter's house,

(Buy the place where your daughter lives)

Help your daughter take care of her grandchildren, go to the theatre,

Life is beautiful.

But I feel that in fact, at ordinary times, they are also relatively lonely.

Fortunately, both of them have something to do, so they are not so pitiful.

On the contrary, the two sons around me are now looking at their grandchildren.

After seeing the grandsons of the old people, let's look at the grandsons of the second family.

After seeing the second-child home, I found that the old people want a second child and have to look at their grandchildren. ,

In this cycle, I am so tired that I have no chance to breathe.

Otherwise, you are busy making money and helping two children find someone to marry.

After releasing boss, you have to take care of your penis.

I feel tired looking at it. At this age, I'm still running for my children.

I think I have the most say in this question, because I am a family of three sisters.

Our home is in the countryside around Nanning, Guangxi. There are three sisters at home. I'm the third child, with two older sisters. I was born in 1987. I am not a product of family planning. After my mother got pregnant, I went to menstruation's house to hide for several months before I escaped the birth of the family planning team. It is said that when my mother was pregnant, everyone thought I was a son, but after I was born, everyone was disappointed. My grandmother also said that she would throw me away. Otherwise I don't know where I am now. In those days, many girls were lost. My mother said that there is actually another girl in my neighbor who is about my age. She is also the third girl. She disappeared not long after she was born. She was probably lost.

My mother was going to have a fourth child and wanted to have a son, but because of the strict family planning, someone came to my house for ligation in ten days and a half, and the pressure behind it was unbearable. My mother had a semi-forced ligation, so she gave up the idea of having a fourth child, and I fined 650 yuan. In 1987, this money was a huge sum, and it started only after my family's furniture was almost ruined by the family planning team.

In this way, our family is one of the few daughters in the village, and my mother has been looked down upon by others. My mother's original words were that she was not confident when walking on the road, and many people looked down on our family. My mother has been in pain all her life because she has no son. What happened at home when I was a child, what my mother said the most, was that if I had a son, it would not be like this, and deep-rooted thoughts might be difficult to change all my life.

Although it is a pity, it does not hinder our parents' love for us. Our parents gave us the best, and our sisters lived up to expectations. They all went to college and are the only family in our village. People who used to tell my father that it was useless for girls to study now feel the perseverance and vision of our parents. We all jumped out of the countryside and didn't have to face the loess anymore. We all got married well and settled in Nanning. My mother helps my second sister take care of the children when she is free. My father will go fishing and do what he likes when he is free. When he is free, he goes to the city to see his grandson. On holidays, we all pack our bags and go home, and people in the village are envious.

Although neither of our sisters has become a rich or expensive family, we are filial to our parents, not divorced, and our parents are also very headache. We can all go home soon and often go home with our parents, which should be the greatest comfort to the elderly. It can be said that they are living well now.

But although we live a good life, I also know that not having a son is a lifelong regret of my parents, and it can't make up for their regrets anyway, but life is like this, and everything can't go smoothly. Just adjust your mentality. As children, we can only try our best to be kind to them and let them enjoy their old age happily.

I am an only child, born in 1992.

At that time, all the babies were born at home because I was too old. My mother said that I was born about 1 1 kg, which led to my mother's postpartum hemorrhage and uterine rupture, and she could not regenerate from then on.

Four brothers and four fathers. The other three families all have boys, but my family doesn't. Although grandparents prefer boys to girls, it's not that serious, and it's ok for me, because my family was also a big family at that time, and my grandfather was quite powerful, and no one in the village dared to say anything publicly.

Grandparents prefer boys to girls. My mother is a brother, two sisters and one sister. They all have boys, and there are two boys in my second aunt's house who are about my age. I remember going to my grandmother's house every time, because my second aunt's house is very close to my grandmother's house, and I often go there. Every time I go to their house, my grandmother always chats with them or something. As far as I'm concerned, my grandfather has ignored me, and he won't go much when he is older.

/kloc-when I was 0/3 years old, my grandfather left. When grandpa left, my aunt refused to let my mother go to the grave, saying that there were no boys in my family, and going to the grave would affect my future. My mother hanged herself in a rage. My mother is also famous for her kindness in the village. She is very kind to her uncle and their children. It was then that I realized that people were not good to her, and it was then that she knew that it was good.

Then my parents took me out to work. I go to school in other places. It was not very good to go to school in other places at that time. I didn't go to junior high school. Later, I worked and did business. It was not until two years ago that my parents went back to their hometown to build a house that they began to be kind again.

Let me talk about my three relatives. One of them gave birth to two sons, one gave birth to three sons and one gave birth to three daughters. Those two families with sons have always looked down on the one without sons, and often said that they bullied the one without sons, saying that I have sons and you have no sons. Now an old couple with two sons had quarreled with their daughter-in-law several times and moved out to rent a house alone. They have no contact with their son. Families with three sons don't want to take care of the elderly alone, so they take turns to take care of the elderly. Three sons don't live in the same city, so that people in their eighties go to one place every month. Three sons and daughter-in-law often have conflicts because of caring for the elderly. Now, three sons, the one who gave birth to three daughters, live the best life now. They follow the richest daughter, and the other two daughters always care about their parents. The daughter dressed the old lady in gold and silver, and the old man went fishing and playing cards when he was free. Life is very comfortable. Every time my parents talk about these relatives, they will sigh that it is better to have a daughter.

I am also an only daughter, and I am an only daughter of a single-parent family!

My mother didn't give birth to me until she was 35. In the countryside where the girl got married and had children when she was almost 20 years old, my mother finally got married and gave birth to me after 20 years of dedication to the family!

My father died unexpectedly when I was five years old. Since then, it's just me and my mother in our family. We have lived together for 20 years!

I was very sensible since I was a child, and I felt the indifference of my loved ones all the way. When I was a teenager, I knew that I wanted to make my mother proud and let people know that it was worthwhile for my mother to be alone for 20 years (my mother didn't want to remarry, in fact, I wanted her to remarry, but she liked living alone. It is estimated that many women in marriage understand that if they can stand on their own feet, two people are not as good as one! Therefore, I have been studying hegemony for many years. Although I missed two books in the college entrance examination, I went to Beijing alone after graduation, and my salary was very high!

Two years after graduation, I married my boyfriend in college, and then bought a suite for my mother with my new husband in my hometown! Neighbors envy my mother and live in the building my daughter bought! I didn't have a wedding for fear that my mother would be sad. I don't want her to feel lost when her daughter marries someone else!

Then, I immigrated to Australia. Two years later, I paid 300,000 RMB for my mother to immigrate to her parents. My mother lives with me in Australia now. Our family of three, plus my mother, live happily!

Although my mother never said that she liked her son, I gave birth to a son. My mother said someone could help me. I know she wants me to be a boy-but I know in my heart that having a son is very important for some families, but having a daughter is definitely more intimate for parents! !

Influenced by traditional ideas, most families in China think that they must have a son to continue the incense. However, there are also families with only daughters around them, and life is very easy. Give two examples:

1. One is my college classmate, and she is the only daughter in the family. Her hometown is Hunan. Now my daughter has a family and children and settled in Shenzhen. The old couple are still young and in good health. Dad works outside alone, but according to his ability, there is no pressure to work hard for his children in middle age. Mom has no job. She just plays mahjong in her hometown. With nothing to do, she went out to travel with her friends and lived a comfortable life. If I miss my daughter occasionally, I will go to Shenzhen to live with my daughter for a while. Compared with those families with grandchildren after retirement, their lives are much more comfortable and they have more time to enjoy life.

2. It's my neighbor, three daughters, two of whom are married. The younger daughter has a good marriage partner, but she is not married yet. A month ago, my neighbor suddenly fell ill while working outside and died in a foreign land. According to our custom, an old man died at home and the eldest son had to sail in Dai Xiao. There is only a daughter's house at home, and so will the eldest daughter. The funeral arranged by the three daughters also gave the father a good burial.

At present, many families, including rural areas, basically have at most two children. There are still some differences between families with only daughters and families with sons:

1. The cost of raising children is not as high as before. Parents don't want their children to lose at the starting line. They not only pursue their children to eat and wear well, but also hope that their children will develop in an all-round way. Invisibly, the cost of raising children will become a big expense for a family.

As we all know, marrying a daughter-in-law is a headache for many families. The man's family has to face great economic pressure. Buying a house and a car is already a huge expense, which does not include other expenses. If a family has one or more sons, the pressure is much greater than that of a family with only one daughter.

3. It is said that my daughter is my father's lover in my last life and my mother's intimate little cotton-padded jacket. Girls are delicate in mind and care more about the elderly than their sons. In the process of growing up, daughters are more clever and sensible, and parents worry less. Generally only daughters have a good family atmosphere.

With the continuous progress of society, people's ideas have already changed dramatically, and there is no difference between boys and girls. In fact, the key to a family's life and happiness is not whether the child is male or female, but whether the parents' hearts are in the child, whether they are properly educated, and whether the child is filial and considerate when he grows up.

What about a middle-aged family with no sons but only daughters? Sure.

I am an only child. It should be a little regrettable that my father was born, but there was nothing I could do about it at that time, otherwise everyone would be laid off. My parents were also rehired after retirement. When they have a rest, I will give them a tour group to travel and buy them birthday presents. Talk to mom and dad often, mainly to relax them. Health is the most important thing. Now they open it every day, exercise every morning, and my mother goes to have a beauty treatment when she is free, which is very relaxing. Some relatives looked after my family when they were children, but now they are busy to death every day, subsidizing their sons and taking care of their grandchildren. They have no life of their own. They are obviously five years younger than my mother, but they look much older. Sometimes they can't even have a rest.

I think: in middle age, there is no son, only the woman's family is happy.

My home is an example. I am a daughter, but because I am married thousands of miles away, my parents can't take care of many things. Let's share my family story.

My parents are also middle-aged. As a daughter, I can't stay with them. In fact, my parents are lonely, but they are also very happy. Although we are far apart, we have never broken contact. A video every day, let's pay attention to each other every day. In the video, my mother told us through the Internet that she missed us and even pointed us out. For example, I can't cook or want to eat my mother's pickled side dishes or spring cakes. The video taught me how to do it step by step. Although the distance is far away, through the medium of network, the relatives separated by thousands of miles are getting closer and closer.

But the distance, sometimes there are many inconveniences. For example, old people can't get together on birthdays, and they can't get together on Mid-Autumn Festival. Our family rotates every two years. There must be loneliness if there is happiness of reunion. At this time, the children are not around, which is a lot lonely for middle-aged parents. In addition, the reality of my family, because there is a 90-year-old grandmother, my parents can't come to my side and are still working hard. Parents often say: take care of yourself as much as possible, don't drag your children down, and then reunite with them. ......

This is a true portrayal of middle-aged people without children around. There are old people in the world and old people in the world. Although they are lonely, they are still happy and still working hard.

In short, when people reach middle age, families with no sons and only women are occasionally lonely, but they understand each other and live happily, don't you think?

My grandmother's five sons. My grandfather died young. My grandmother didn't live a comfortable life until her death. My mother's four daughters, I am 50 years old, and I think it is very painful to be my mother. I don't know why, others and uncles bullied our family without a son. At that time, we were poor, and the four sisters had no education. But my mother has been hemiplegic for six years, and we still take care of her. The people who bullied my parents were envious. My husband is a door-to-door son-in-law Although my parents are ugly, my husband never talks about them. And life is ok. The funny thing is that I only have one daughter, who works in Shenzhen China Merchants Bank after graduating from college. My daughter said that she would buy a house for my husband and me in the city before marriage. Do you think it's better to raise a daughter or a son? I think there are three generations in our family. I don't regret having no son. hahaha