Compared with Shi Ke, Gong Li's fame comes at a price.

Fame comes at a price. Will the scenery last forever? Comparing Gong Li and Shi Ke, the answers are all out.

1986, Shi Ke and Gong Li studied in the same college. When Zhang Yimou was preparing Red Sorghum, the original heroine was Shi Ke. Shi Ke was famous at that time, but Gong Li was also Zhang Yimou's favorite character.

Shi Ke and Gong Li are both students of the Central Academy of Drama, and they are classmates.

But I never imagined that because of a chance and a scene, the fate of two people had a turning point.

1986, Zhang Yimou saw the value of the novel Red Sorghum as a film. He went to the novelist Mo Yan to discuss the adaptation, and at the same time gave Mo Yan 800 yuan money. 800 yuan money in 1986.

After only ten minutes of discussion, the two men readily made a decision. Mo Yan felt that Zhang Yimou really understood the meaning of Red Sorghum, and was illuminated by this 800 yuan, because this was his eight-month salary, which showed the situation of literary and art people at that time.

After Zhang Yimou went back, after repeated comparisons, Shi Ke, a junior girl in Chinese opera, was drawn up, and she was the closest to the image of the novel.

Of course, Shi Ke is very excited, just waiting for the notice.

Who knows, Cheng came out halfway, or a classmate of Gong Li. She found Zhang Yimou through the teacher's relationship, trying to win the heroine.

Gong Li also took part in the audition. Look at her oval face, high forehead and more elegant head. Among the many actresses who auditioned. The old man was moved.

But the assistant director thinks Shi is more famous than Gong Li, and prefers Shi Ke.

Things are a little complicated.

When Gong Li returned to school, he learned something new from others. She never gave up and asked the teacher to call Zhang Yimou and explain the situation.

Zhang Yimou asked Gong Li to audition at the hotel.

Gong Li felt that things had changed for the better and hurried there. When he arrived, he put on his costume and auditioned directly.

Photographer Gu Changwei is taking pictures. Two hours later, Gong Li left.

Zhang Yimou is more tangled, Shi Ke's appearance is more consistent, and Gong Li is more aura.

At this time, Gu Changwei said, "Gong Li is more delicious."

This sentence, finally decided, the original history can be replaced by Gong Li.

The change of this angle has changed the fate of two people since then.

Let's start with Gong Li.

"Red Sorghum" starring Gong Li was a smash hit. Became famous, and later, the film continued to play the leading role

Probably Gong Li knew in his heart that his growth and breakthrough were hard-won, and he made full preparations before each performance, and his performance was excellent.

Later, he won the Golden Bear Award at the Berlin Film Festival, and his fame increased greatly.

And she and Zhang Yimou get along day and night, have a good impression.

Zhang Yimou loves her youth and beauty, and Gong Li is infatuated with Zhang Yimou's talent. At that time, they were engaged as boyfriend and girlfriend. On the set, the busy staff is called Sister-in-law Gong Li.

But at that time, Zhang Yimou was married and had a wife, but the marriage had existed in name only.

Gong Li is smooth sailing. He has won the Golden Rooster Award, Venice Award and Cannes Palme d 'Or Award. The film industry has reached its peak.

However, the good times did not last long. Ever since I met Zhang Yimou. This is a lifetime delay. Zhang is a married man, and their relationship can only be carried out underground, and they have not seen the light for several years.

Very not easy to wait until Zhang Yimou divorced, but Zhang turned and remarried, but the bride was not Gong Li.

Gong Li is heartbroken, has no expectation for marriage, and has no children so far.

Besides, Scott,

At that time, Shi Ke was very angry when he learned that red sorghum was changing horns. From then on, the friendship between classmates disappeared and became strangers.

The films that Shi Ke later appeared in were all small productions. Much worse luck. Visibility is lower.

Many people say that if Shi Ke appeared in Red Sorghum at that time, he would be very famous. This is absolutely certain.

Gong Li has to face another life.

At the beginning of 2000, in order to reward his efforts for many years, SmithKline took part in a trip to the Mediterranean organized by an international travel agency. I got to know Swiss old Ke and enthusiastically worked as a tour guide for Shi Ke.

Then Lao Ke took the initiative to contact Shi to go to Beijing.

As soon as they left, they fell in love.

In the face of Lao Ke's offensive, Shi Ke felt that this warm and steady foreigner was a good choice, so he established a love relationship with him.

At the end of 2000, after they met for 8 months, they entered the marriage hall hand in hand.

After marriage, Shi Ke, who lives in Switzerland, was not used to it, while Lao Ke gave up everything in Switzerland and followed Shi Ke to China.

When I arrived in Laoke, China, I made a lot of jokes because of my poor Chinese. People often asked Laoke, "How did you meet?"

Lao Ke: "We met in bed (on the boat)."

Everyone laughed, and he didn't know what was going on.

Today, Shi Ke and Lao Ke have gone through 2 1 year hand in hand.

With two sons, I often travel, and my family of four is warm and happy.

In contrast, Gong Li's experience is quite touching. Perhaps, this is the price of fame.

(2) the most comfortable relationship between people;

Hello, everyone. After repeated summary, I have come to the following four sentences:

Close without disturbing; Get along well with each other.

The two places are still paying attention; If something happens, you must make a contribution.

A short sentence is clear:

Be close without disturbing (this is called sympathy).

Two people you know, colleagues and classmates who have not become good friends, even close friends, can't get too close. Distance produces beauty, which can also be verified here. Don't interfere in each other's lives, leave a little space and a little mystery. This is the way to be a long-term friendly friend.

There is a good friend who talks about everything, feeling that the world is small, so we met; The world is so big, it's hard to find a separate one.

Have a tacit understanding (this is called getting along).

For example, in my circle of friends, two people are very close, but sometimes they have the opportunity to talk to each other. In crowded situations, adding atmosphere means laughing it off. The man who spoke plausibly watched everyone laugh, but the other one was there. In a short time, he occupied the leading role of the new topic, so laughter broke out one after another and the room was full of joy.

Only you will listen to my nonsense, and only you will understand my silence.

This tacit understanding is that everyone knows each other's proper discretion and position. But many years later, I brought old wine, and you are still my old friend.

The two places are still paying attention (this is called knowing each other).

My good friend Lao Zhai, although he bought a villa in his hometown, his wife and daughter are both working in Dongguan and plan to go for a while. Usually after two or three months, I will come back for a few days.

Usually in the same city as my hometown. Every weekend, we go hiking, take the greenway and have dinner. When he left, I lost a traveling companion and seldom went climbing. Far apart, occasionally contact with WeChat, mostly courtesy greetings. Or find good and useful articles and news to share with each other. It goes without saying that he was very happy to get together after he came back.

If you have something, you must contribute (this is called helping each other).

True good friends trust each other without any barriers and are willing to share weal and woe. If one party is in trouble and confused, a good friend will definitely help you, asking for nothing in return and sincerely comforting you.

Communication between people is a science.

Initiative and enthusiasm are prerequisites.

Honesty and trust are fundamental.

Credit and help are levers,

Respect and understanding are magic weapons.

A kind word warms three winters. Even if you are wrong, he will not give in, will not cover up his mistakes, and dare to point out and correct me bluntly. This is a very high-ranking friend type among friends, which is extremely rare.

Sometimes, more is to help you silently with actions, tacitly, making people warm as spring breeze.

Friend, do you have such a friend?