Yang Lijuan idolization incident (because idolization forced his father to commit suicide by jumping into the sea)

On March 26th, 2007, an old man named Yang jumped off the Star Ferry Pier. Reluctantly, he risked his life.

For the rest of his life, he has been running for one thing, and that is to let his daughter marry Andy Lau!

Instead, he and his daughter went to Beijing six times and Hong Kong twice, spent all their savings and even sold a kidney. However, the daughter's wish was not realized, but the family was heavily in debt, and he was no longer able to accompany him.

Now, he is empty-handed, leaving only this desperate effort. He hoped that he could help his daughter win the opportunity to meet Andy Lau in this decisive way.

Sure enough, Yang's jumping off a building caused a great sensation in Hongkong, and the "idolization event in Yang Lijuan" was pushed to a climax by the media.

But as a result, Andy Lau didn't show up. This woman who threatened not to marry him all over the country, gambled all her fortune and even lost her father's life, ended up with both money and people.

At that time, Andy Lau was branded as "fickle" and "cold-blooded".

This farce ended in "both sides lose".

There is a saying in "Phoenix Begging for Phoenix": There is a kind of beauty that I will never forget. If I don't see it for a day, I will think crazily. This poem was originally written for a woman, but it happened to be fulfilled on this woman named Yang Lijuan.

A dream, a sorrow.

1978, Yang Lijuan was born in Agan Town, Lanzhou.

Agan Town is a small town that made a fortune from coal. Almost everyone in the town lives on coal mines. People here are faced with a life that can see their fate at a glance, but resources will be exhausted one day. This small town that is rich because of coal will eventually return to poverty because of coal. For the people in the town, escaping has become their greatest wish.

Agan town

Yang and his wife Tao Juying, who is 14 years younger than himself, live a unchanging life here. At this time, the birth of Yang Lijuan brought a little life to this originally lifeless home.

Because he is an old woman, Yang is always ready to find his daughter. He devoted almost all his love to her, gave her everything she wanted, and even his colleagues around him couldn't stand this affection.

As everyone knows, it is precisely because of his bottomless love that after 20 years, his family was pushed into the abyss.

In the second grade of junior high school, wayward Yang Lijuan suddenly dropped out of school on the grounds that her hard-working homework was borrowed and copied by her classmates but ignored her. She thought, "They are all using me!" Although our class teacher did her ideological work repeatedly, Yang, who always obeyed her daughter, agreed to her request. He thinks that as long as his daughter is happy, it doesn't matter whether he has studied or not, or whether he has culture.

You know, Yang is a teacher himself. As an intellectual, in the face of her daughter's demands, doting trumps reason.

Just two years after Yang Lijuan dropped out of school, her parents divorced.

The reason for divorce is also because of an absurd reason-sharing an extra house. I never thought about it, but my wife made a fake play. After divorcing Yang, Tao Juying began to wander around the old song and dance troupe in Agan town all day, mixing with the young and strong boys here.

Ironically, she didn't abandon her daughter and "ex-husband" when playing with those men. After playing for a few days in a row, she will go back to her original home and clean up the house for her father and daughter. She said she was a "great mother and great wife", but she didn't know it was just cheating herself.

This year, Yang Lijuan had a dream.

It's just that no one thought that this dream actually changed the fate of the whole family.

In the dream, Yang Lijuan saw a picture of a man hanging on the wall. On both sides of the picture, it says: You approached me like this, and you met my true feelings.

This man is Andy Lau.

Andy Lau

After waking up, I told my father this dream. Yang, who has been following her daughter, even said that she had the same dream, which convinced me that this dream was a hint. From then on, she decided that only the man Andy Lau in the photo was the only one, so the family embarked on the road of no return in idolization.

In order to take better care of his daughter, Yang applied for early retirement, and his father's love for his daughter became more and more deformed.

Some people say that when she is an adult, Yang will help her bathe. When her daughter wants to drink an expensive drink, Yang will steal it. Even if she is found, she will break the curse of pain. As long as she sees her daughter's satisfied face, she feels that her efforts have not been in vain.

This family is amazing enough, but in order to satisfy her daughter's dream trip, Yang actually made another crazy move-selling the house.

Because my daughter firmly believes that as long as Andy Lau sees herself, she will "telepathize" with herself and then marry herself. But how to meet Andy Lau has become the obsession of this family.

In order to realize this crazy fantasy, the old father can be said to have done everything. With all his savings and money from selling his house, Yang Lijuan began to rush about on the road to realize his dream.

The dream of idolization was shattered and she was crazy about love.

Regrettably, whether going to a concert in Andy Lau or waiting for him at Andy Lau's door, Yang Lijuan never saw Meng Lang.

In order to get attention, these media began to report Yang Lijuan's madness. For a time, a girl's obsession with Andy Lau became a national joke.

Everyone says that Yang Lijuan is crazy, but only Yang Lijuan and his father think that people don't know themselves.

A farce is a farce after all, and people forget it after being talked about for a while. Going around and returning to the starting point, Yang refused to give up, but now he has no family, so he once again made a crazy move-selling kidneys.

Before leaving, Yang borrowed 1 1 000 yuan from a usurer, and gave all his "treasures": his daughter's childhood photos, documents and his own documents to his friends for safekeeping.

In his view, this is the honor of his life.

This trip can be said to be their last straw. If it is not for happiness, it is doomed.

After chasing Andy Lau/KLOC-0 for more than 0 years, Yang Lijuan finally got his wish and met his idol on March 25th, 2007. She thought she had at least one close contact with Andy Lau, but she was just arranged to take a group photo with Andy Lau in a hurry, and the whole process took less than 2 minutes.

Suddenly hurt, Yang Gengsheng was angry. That night, father and daughter wept bitterly. This unprincipled doting father finally chose to commit suicide by jumping into the sea, leaving a suicide note "Andy Lau, who do you think you are?".

Yang's suicide note

At the end of his tether, his old father hoped to force Andy Lau to meet his daughter by means of moral kidnapping.

Her father left her before her dream came true, and she couldn't accept such an ending when she was sad. As a result, Yang Lijuan began to curse Andy Lau's ruthlessness in front of the media, which seriously affected Andy Lau's work. Every day, a large number of fans call Andy Lau to ask for a meeting, and even threaten to die.

This brought great pressure and trouble to Andy Lau, who wrote in his diary:

You won't understand my sadness.

During that time, Andy Lau was afraid when he heard the phone ring, and even suffered from depression. He saw a psychiatrist many times before he got better.

Nevertheless, Andy Lau anonymously helped Yang Lijuan pay off the loan sharks his father had previously owed.

However, Yang Lijuan knew nothing about this, because Andy Lau had already changed from a dream lover to an enemy who killed his father.

Dreams fail.

All kinds of calculation results are empty. Crazy for so many years, and finally become like this. Yang Lijuan was unwilling, so she filed a complaint against Andy Lau and asked him to compensate her for the loss of 300,000 yuan. The result can be imagined.

After the prosecution failed, the angry Yang Lijuan was desperate. She once again took the media who spread the matter to court and asked them to compensate her for mental damage in the name of damaging her reputation, but was finally judged by the court as a "voluntary public figure" and lost the case.

Many years later, Yang Lijuan returned to his hometown in Gansu and almost disappeared.

I just don't know if there will be Andy Lau in her dream.

It was not until 20 19 that Yang Lijuan was interviewed by Lu Yu and returned to the public eye, and people realized that Yang Lijuan today was so down and out.

She and her mother rented a low-rent house with one room and one living room. It is no exaggeration to use the word "home has a wall" on her. Besides, she has a low education and it is difficult to find a job. At present, she has found the best job in her mind-shopping guide with a monthly salary of 2000 yuan.

As you can see, at this time, she has hated Andy Lau from love. In her heart, she still felt that Andy Lau had caused her father's death.

She said that if she had the chance to see Andy Lau again, she would tell him in person: "It was wrong of you to treat us like that."

It turned out that after so many years, her heart was still untied.

Among Yang's relics, there is a notebook that remembers this sentence:

It is precisely because we are wise that we persist today. We are not as crazy or irrational as they say, and we will not pay 12 years.

In his mind, he always thinks that his behavior is not wrong. He is just helping his beloved daughter realize a dream, and the innocent daughter just falls in love with the man who is regarded as a star by everyone.

Actually, there is nothing wrong with idolization, but it is wrong. He shouldn't go to the point of ruin, let alone impose his obsession on Andy Lau who was involved in this farce for no reason. Isn't he innocent

I hope that the current groupies can take a warning, and the bitter experience they experienced before will not be repeated. * * * Encourage!