Human nature is a heavenly book, and the human heart is the eternal world: how can a person live alone until he grows old!

For some people, the better we treat him/her, the more confident the other person will be, to the point where they don’t know what the world is like.

Sincerity and kindness do require a certain cost. As human beings, we should never use our own foolishness and benevolence to please those white-eyed wolves who are never grateful!

1. Human nature, the eternal hot spot

When we encounter difficulties, it is a great favor for others to lend a helping hand to us. And if others don't help us, that's their duty as a human being.

In a cruel social life, it is really not easy to be a good person! Because not everyone can have a warm heart that treats others well!

It is stupid to stick your hot face to someone else's cold buttocks, and in the end it is nothing more than self-inflicted pain. Because not all people can understand how to write the word gratitude! There are some white-eyed wolves, no matter how well we treat him/her, others always feel that they deserve it.

Of course, all these consequences are ultimately directed and performed by ourselves, because others did not ask us to do anything. And all of this is always our own fault!

Wukong’s inner words:

Throughout life, others may not have the most basic courtesy, justice and shame, but we must have the most basic self-knowledge! When interacting with others, we must first see clearly the other person's personality and understand the other person's psychological motivations. Only then can we prescribe the right medicine and determine the size and method of interacting with the other person.

The ugliness of human nature, whether you call it greed or barbarism, is ultimately inseparable from selfishness. The complexity of human nature, whether you call it cunning or fickle, is ultimately inseparable from a person who takes advantage and behaves well.

There is a saying: good will be rewarded with good, and evil will be rewarded with evil. It’s not that I won’t report it, it’s just that the time has not come yet! God is open-minded after all, and He treats everyone equally.

The philosophy of sorting out interpersonal relationships and interacting with others is like a thick "wordless book". Only those who have personally experienced it will understand the complicated stakes and various truths hidden behind it!

Blind kindness is the greatest stupidity. Excessively digging your heart and lungs is tantamount to destroying your future. How can there be so much empathy in the world? Many people are just sweeping the snow in front of their own homes, and they don’t care about other people’s spring, summer, autumn and winter!

The human heart is the world, and the world is the rivers and lakes composed of the human heart. Being a good person certainly requires a certain cost, because everyone’s time, energy and endurance are limited! If our limited lives are given to giving without any consideration of reward, then how are we different from wooden humans and robots?

2. People don’t look for trouble, but trouble looks for people

People are in society and their hearts are in the world. It is by no means an easy task for us to truly emerge from the mire without being stained, to be clean without being tainted!

To live, one needs to interact with others. As long as we choose to join the WTO and live in real social life, we will definitely face all kinds of complicated contradictions and disputes. Sometimes people don't look for trouble, but trouble takes the initiative to find people. This ruthless world has broken our inner peace!

At this time, we need to compete with the villains around us. We can only be forced to build ourselves into a brave and resourceful person.

We must use "courage" to complete the many missions entrusted to us in life; we must also use "strategy" to resolve various complex contradictions and disputes in interpersonal relationships.

After all, courage and strategy always complement each other, and one is indispensable!

Wukong has something to say:

The level of quality and the quality of morality have nothing to do with studying! You see, some of those scholars who have received higher education have ended up in the grave of life!

As for ordinary people who have not read too many books by sages, some people are still diligent, down-to-earth, and fulfill their duties even if they live to the end of their lives.

Humanity is invisible, let alone invisible! Human nature is beyond words, let alone words! Suddenly I remembered these two sentences: 1. The night gave me black eyes, but I used them to look for light! 2. I came to this world to see the sun!

People who feel smarter are more likely to be pushy and clever. These people always think that they are superior, and even think that the whole world is not as smart as them!

As everyone knows, those who are truly smart always hide themselves. In front of others, they are not only inconspicuous and unrevealed, but also always act very stupid.

After all, there are always differences between people! Even those who study well may not be able to graduate successfully in the university of society. And some people who are poor at reading can still be successful!

If a person lives in a way that the whole world hates, then it must mean that there is something wrong with this person himself! If something goes wrong but you persist in correcting it, trouble will certainly follow.

Of course, everyone has their own way of living. There is a saying: the country is easy to change, but the nature is hard to change. Birds of a feather flock together and people divide into groups. That’s why we have different ambitions, inconsistent ways, and don’t work together!

Is society a society of one person? Of course it won’t work if you always apply what you do at home to society! The most valuable thing in life is that we can always have true self-knowledge and use the necessary strategies to achieve harmony with the world.

Written at the end:

When the selfishness of human nature is gradually dressed up as a gaudy and hypocritical coat, it is worn on people, and gradually becomes ingrained, and then becomes If we have lost an established belief in life, then at this time, do we still expect the world to empathize with our situation and experiences? That was such a big joke, I laughed so hard!

Nine times out of ten, life will be unsatisfactory. Not everyone can eventually reach the balance point of their own interests and psychological balance. Therefore, suffering losses is a common thing, and troubles and depression are also common things. This is an objective law and reality of life, and no one can change it!

Because of this, we must try our best to think clearly, see clearly, and understand thoroughly, and we must have our most precious thinking and understanding. Only in this way can we find a beautiful life that truly belongs to us!