Why do men eat soft rice more and more?

(Text/Unintentional Listening to Flowers) At noon, the food in the company canteen was cooked soft. Colleagues say it's good to eat soft rice. No wonder more and more men eat soft rice. A joke tells the social reality that the phenomenon of "men eat soft rice" is indeed increasing. What is the reason? One of the reasons is that the society tends to be more and more neutral, and the identity of gender values tends to be blurred. Many men are becoming more and more feminine. Not only white and tender, but also words and deeds and even psychological characteristics are full of powder. Many women are becoming more and more masculine, not only in appearance, but also in heart. With the increasing enrichment of material life, the gradual expansion of the separation of brain and body, and the serious imbalance of gender ratio, people's growth process is almost surrounded by female atmosphere. When I was young, I was mostly a girl's playmate. At school, I was accompanied by female classmates, and my teachers were mostly women. After going to work, it is limited to the office life circle, which leads to the narrowing of the gap between men and women and tends to merge to a certain extent. This provides a nutritious living soil for "men eat soft rice". The second reason is the emergence of a large number of independent women and powerful women groups. With the progress of the times, the correlation between social division of labor and gender is becoming less and less obvious, and the characteristics of patriarchal society are no longer as obvious as feudal society. With the improvement of education and the awakening of feminist consciousness, the stage for women to display their talents in society is getting wider and wider, and more and more independent women are enterprising. Reality also proves that women, like men, can fully shoulder the burden of family and society, and "women hold up half the sky" has a solid economic foundation connotation. This provides a broad opportunity for "men eat soft rice". The third reason is the increasingly fierce social competition, and men no longer have absolute advantages. Not every man can realize his career dream, and some men even have difficulty supporting themselves. For a male individual, not everyone can be better than a woman or his woman. As a result, the traditional division of labor mode of "men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside" has been quietly reversed, and the dogma of "family chef male" has gradually emerged. In a broader sense, after social division of labor and role replacement, many men's economic status is far lower than that of women. This also gives people with traditional ideas an impression of "eating soft rice". Objectively speaking, whether a man "eats soft rice" can't be judged only by income comparison. Income is only a superficial indicator. Because of this, not all men who are regarded as "eating soft rice" should be attacked or even despised. Those men, they are not "eating soft rice", but the normal evolution of social role division. After all, the division of acquired roles no longer relies solely on innate gender differences, which is the progress of the times rather than retrogression. Only those men who are lazy and rely on women to support themselves are the real "soft meals". As for those so-called men who sell their bodies to please women, it is undoubtedly shameful. In fact, most of us may have a mentality similar to eating soft rice, both men and women. Many people don't eat soft rice, maybe just because they don't have the capital to eat soft rice, or maybe just because they haven't had the opportunity to eat soft rice yet. In the face of major setbacks or physical and mental fatigue, everyone may be convinced for the time being, and may even have the impulse to "eat soft rice". Men and women, in fact, there is no need to be better than anyone. Today, when men and women are more and more equal, it is the universal value of today's times to advocate individual independent mentality and cultivate individual independent ability. To be honest, it feels good to have a soft meal once in a while. Don't believe me, you also eat?