How difficult is it for an adult to be emotionally stable when Lulu falls in love and cries?

In life, the more successful and outstanding people are, the better they can manage their emotions. When you manage your emotions, your heart will become stronger and stronger. Napoleon said, "A man who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can win an ideal city."

Writer Li Xiaoyi told her story in The Woman in Full Bloom. She once paid a particularly high price for losing control of her emotions in public. A female customer who is acknowledged to be difficult to deal with is still dissatisfied with the repeated revisions of the plan. After more than a dozen rounds of contract negotiations, she still can't sign it, but this is her most important customer, accounting for more than 50% of the total business. Thinking of her hard and ineffective efforts and the bleak impact of not signing this contract, she was wronged and helpless, sad and angry from the heart.

Say loudly to the female client on the phone: "Your request is particularly unreasonable, and you are particularly abnormal. Don't think that Party A is great, I won't wait! " After that, I slammed the phone and burst into tears at my desk. It was not until a colleague handed her a tissue that she remembered that this was a public place. As a 26-year-old adult lady, her emotions were out of control. Soon, everyone knew that she was angry with important customers, and the leaders above also talked to her directly. Female customers also vividly passed on their confrontation jokes to their peers. She became a representative with no skill and low emotional intelligence, and became a joke in the industry.

She lost control of her emotions, which can neither advance her work nor change the arrogance of her customers. Instead, she threw herself into the pit. Therefore, what can defeat a person is often not external pressure, but one's own emotions.