Why did you remarry after the divorce?

I will remarry for my children for the following reasons.

First, give children a complete home.

After divorce, there is a question worthy of our deep thought, that is, can two people still be friends after divorce? Whether you can be friends or not, in fact, this question should be viewed in two aspects. If the relationship between husband and wife is not bad and the divorce impulse is peaceful, they have the opportunity to be friends, but if one of them is too strong, domestic violence and cheating, it is almost impossible for them to be friends.

Most of them become the most familiar strangers after divorce. Even some divorced couples take a detour when they meet again, and don't want to say hello or be polite. The purpose is to stay away from each other, do not want to see each other, do not want to hear any news about each other. After all, both of them are divorced. What does it matter whether they live well or not? The only thing that couples have to meet is the relationship between the middle children.

You know, when a family is broken, it is not men or women who are most hurt, but children. Therefore, the choice of remarriage is to give children a complete home.

A complete home.

Second, let children grow up healthily.

Liu Siyang divorced Hao Jiali in the TV series "The Distant Engagement". After the divorce, the two no longer lived together, and Hao Jiali moved back to her father's house. At this time, her daughter Sasha missed her mother and cried in front of Liu Siyang not to let her parents divorce, asking Liu Siyang to find her mother.

Looking at the crying face of the child, both the father and the mother will feel guilty and feel sorry for the child. Obviously, when a husband and wife divorce, the child will always be the one who gets hurt the most. After divorce, some couples regard their children as chips in order to win more property, regardless of their psychological feelings and who they like to be with. Some couples look at their children and are soft-hearted, and may say:

Children in single-parent families often lack love, which leads to problems in their growth, so the reason for choosing to remarry is to hope that their children will grow up healthily and happily.

Third, I hope my children can love their families when they grow up.

Frankly speaking, remarriage for children is the most commonly used reason for many couples, but there must be a premise for remarriage for children, that is, two people agree to "remarry." In addition, there are many reasons for remarriage, not only for children, but also for feelings, perhaps for the repentance of the other party, perhaps for the same interests and so on. These reasons for remarriage are often "for the sake of children"

But when you think about it, remarriage for children is actually the biggest lie and joke. Remarriage is for the sake of children, so push it forward. Before the divorce, when the husband and wife quarreled about family trifles, why didn't we think of the children and stop quarreling? Why not think about it when the husband and wife are about to divorce? For the sake of the children, let's not divorce.

So divorced couples should not remarry for their children. This answer is far from reliable. Moreover, it is difficult for divorced couples who remarry now to be happy again. The reason is that the previous divorce problem has not been fundamentally solved, and the problem continues after remarriage. The pain did not disappear because of divorce, but continued to grow because of remarriage.

It is precisely because I hope my child can love his small family when he grows up that I must remarry to let him feel the temperature at home.