In feelings, what is the best way to punish men for cheating?

Marriage is not the end. Doesn't mean that two people live happily ever after. On the contrary, this is just the beginning of a new way of life and a series of challenges.

The biggest constant in this world is change itself. It is true that I once loved you, but now betrayal is also true. You don't want to accept it, you dare not accept it, and there is nothing you can do. Some readers asked me how my husband betrayed himself and failed himself. How should he retaliate?

Indeed, no one wants to suffer the pain of betrayal. People who haven't experienced that feeling can't have the same feeling. Only those who have really tasted that kind of sadness will understand the taste of heartache.

Especially when you give everything in your marriage and want to be with a man forever, but this happens in the middle, which directly destroys your trust in feelings and marriage, and you become unable to trust anyone anymore.

I had no regrets, full of joy, but finally I was ruthlessly betrayed. My heart will be full of resentment and scars. I want revenge and make that man pay the price. But the person who betrayed you is not worth wasting your time. No matter how uncomfortable I feel, I will keep my head and not do anything thankless.

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Stella in Perfect Relationship is facing the betrayal of her husband Cui Yingjun. What she did was appealed by many people? Textbook style? She didn't scream at the top of her lungs, didn't argue with Cui Yingjun, and didn't secretly collect relevant evidence to protect her rights and interests to the greatest extent.

In her dictionary, there is no idea of revenge, because as a vice president of a media company, her vision and pattern will not be limited to a marriage, even if she is maliciously slandered by Cui Yingjun? She just wants to get rid of this problem as soon as possible, and will not delay her future for a bad person.

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A really smart woman will not think about revenge in the face of a man's infidelity. If there is, she will resolve her differences and make herself better off.

Rationality faces the change of feelings and ends with that person as soon as possible.

It must be very uncomfortable emotionally to meet a man's betrayal. For a time, the sense of security and trust were greatly destroyed. I want revenge, I want to destroy that person, but doing so will also destroy myself. I will be obsessed with a rotten person and a rotten thing, and I will only let myself fall behind in the end.

Stella kept her head when she changed her mind. The only embarrassment was that she drank wine all night and was taken to the emergency room the next day. Instead of indulging herself in pain, she strengthened her determination to divorce. When this person does that, it is no longer worth his nostalgia. Why take revenge?

The reality is often helpless. Even if you rack your brains to get revenge, the other party may not have any harm. On the contrary, when you do this, your mind is full of hatred, you have lost your mind, and you won't have any happiness.

Instead, you might as well turn around smartly, don't waste time on someone who is no longer worth your nostalgia, and remember that you still have a future. What you have to do now is to finish with that person and get your life back on track.

To the greatest extent, strive for your own interests.

Although money can't heal your inner wounds, revenge will only make you lose both sides, which will not help your real life. Instead, you might as well see the reality clearly, look at the situation rationally and strive for your due rights and interests to the maximum extent.

You should know that he made a mistake. If you cry, make noise or hang yourself, it will only make that person hate you more, and it may even have the opposite effect. It is useless to make trouble and make trouble in disguise. What you should do is to protect your own interests and make plans for your future life.

The world of adults is realistic, and having enough economic foundation can make you feel safe enough, so you don't have to rush about in life. Since a man betrayed you, it is better to get more money for himself, which is another kind of compensation.

Don't be soft-hearted, he is on the wrong side of this matter. You should make use of all available contacts and resources to strive for the greatest benefits for yourself, so that you will be more confident when facing the future.

Break the past and start a new life.

People should learn to look forward. After divorce, if you are unhappy and have a bad life, you will not only treat yourself badly, but also make people who fail you look at jokes. Don't think he will feel guilty. If he really loves you, he won't betray you.

Don't have any thoughts about the person who hurt you, and don't worry about revenge all the time, watching him end up. If so, even after divorce, your attention is still on that person, and you are not living for yourself.

People sometimes need to push themselves, be cruel, cut off their worries about the past and start a new life. After divorce, you are more free and have a lot of time to do what you want.

Work harder, dress beautifully every day, and do everything possible to add value to yourself. Don't let go when you meet the right person. Maybe you will be reborn. When I think of the past, I only feel that the clouds are light and the wind is light.

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Without other people's experience, we are really not qualified to say that others can forgive us, because there is no way to feel the real pain, to be betrayed emotionally, and it is extremely normal to want revenge when our hearts are unbalanced.

However, revenge is also about strength and methods. If this kind of revenge requires you to pay a higher price and you are more unhappy in the process, forget it. Sometimes it is wise to stop in time.

Instead of pestering a rotten person, it is better to let go of your hands and feet, do your own thing and improve your strength. When you cross this stage, your vision and strength will be improved. Looking back, you just smiled and disdained revenge.

In fact, the best revenge in feelings is to let yourself live well. After you left that person, you went up a storey still higher and lived your own life. That person is far behind you, and you won't care about people much lower than you, because it's not worth it.