How can I see something deep?

Doing things for change depends on eyesight and seeing deep things. As we know, everything has its other side, and it is often a big mistake to draw conclusions based on what you see on the surface. Usually, unexpected things may happen at any time, such as inexplicable quarrels and frictions between friends in the company, and the usual darling card accident becomes the center of the problem.

If we carefully observe the reasons for these things, we can find that we actually ignore the observation of many parties and simply think what kind of person someone is, and we are very surprised when there are problems.

In the future, everyone's values should be diversified, and it will become more and more difficult to judge what attitude to take to accept things is correct.

For example, in the company, there is a rumor about an important person. On an occasion like this, is this malicious slander useful? What are the motives of those rumors? Who will benefit from it? Who will suffer as a result? These problems must be analyzed in depth, and we can't simply believe rumors.

It's not just these factional battles. When we see any phenomenon, we should accept it completely without thinking, and we should also consider the reason or background.

If you don't think deeply, you will believe it on the simple surface, which will cause great mistakes.

We should also have a concept of what superiors say and predecessors do, that is, they also have two sides. With this concept, no matter what they say, they should explore their hearts. Consider the other side of the matter first, so that you won't panic when you encounter a situation, but you can come up with a good solution.

Everything in the world seems simple at first glance, but it is actually very complicated. It is very dangerous to believe everything others say. We must explore the negative side and determine his real intention.

The meaning here is not to ask you to be a suspicious person who doesn't trust others. It is necessary to trust others, but we can't accept them with straight and simple ideas. We should first explore the other side of things, and then trust those who trust.

In other words, trusting people on the surface, or jumping to conclusions about things on the surface, are all behaviors of people who are too simple and simple-minded. You should get rid of this linear thinking as soon as possible and know how to see through the inner layer of the phenomenon, so as to deal with more complicated problems in the future!

There are a lot of people who do things, and the reason why they accomplish nothing is because they don't know enough about things before they do things, and they make a common fault of having a little knowledge.

Knowing heaven and earth, knowing ourselves and knowing ourselves are the basic qualities necessary for ancient military commanders. As a winning skill, "knowledge" includes two aspects. First, we need to acquire all kinds of knowledge through hard study and in-depth observation. The process of learning and observation is the process of defeating the enemy. Therefore, many successful people are knowledgeable people who understand astronomy and geography and bypass literature, history, philosophy and mathematics. Their success is closely related to their own cultural literacy.

To be familiar with everything in the world, you must really study hard. There was a joke in ancient China that there was a rich man. Although he was rich, his family could not read for generations, so the rich man decided to let his son learn to read. He hired a teacher to teach his son. From the beginning, the teacher taught the children to use red strokes and practice writing. After painting a picture, the teacher told the child that it was a "one", two pictures were a "two" and three pictures were a "three". The child suddenly realized, dropped his pen and ran to his father happily, saying, "I learned to read, I learned to read." Don't bother your husband to teach, it will cost you a lot of money. Ask your husband to resign. "The rich man was very happy. After hearing this, the son politely sent the teacher away with money and gifts. Not long after, the rich man planned to invite a relative named Wan to drink at home, so he woke up his son in the morning to write an invitation. It's been a long time, and the invitation has not been finished. The rich man lost his temper and urged his son. The son was very angry and said to the rich man, "There are many surnames in the world. Why does he have to be surnamed Wan? I have only written 500 paintings since I finished writing this morning. "

The rich man's son in the joke above is really a clown, but after we laughed, we should think carefully about whether we also have this tendency of refusing to work hard, judging and being content with a little knowledge. Without a deep understanding of the goals pursued, it is impossible to achieve all success. In a sense, a little knowledge is as harmful as nothing, or even more harmful.

The second content of knowledge is to know people. That is, it has the ability to identify talents and understand opponents. This ability needs to be realized in practice.

There is a doorman named Beiguo Sister-in-law at the north gate of Qi State. He weaves fishing nets, binds grass targets and weaves Ma Xie in exchange for money to support his old mother. But it's still not enough. He came to Yanzi barefoot and said something to feed his old mother. Yan Zi's servant said to Yan Zi, "This man is a saint of Qi. He never wanted to be a minister of the son of heaven, nor did he want to be a friend of princes and monarchs. He never takes advantage and is not afraid of danger. I am begging here today to feed my mother, and at the same time, I teach you to do just things and must give him something. " Yan Zi asked his servant to give him his own food and money, and Mrs. Northland accepted the food and paid back the money.

After a period of time, the monarch of Qi did not trust Yan Zi, so Yan Zi had to leave the capital of Qi State, pass by the North Gate and bid farewell to the northern poets. Sister-in-law of Northland specially took a bath, and then met Yan Zi and said, "What are you doing, sir?" Yan Zi said, "Qi Jun suspects that I am unfaithful, so I have to leave here." Sister-in-law of Northland said, "Please take care, sir!" Yan Zi got on the bus and sighed, "Shouldn't I leave?" Why can't I be so ignorant? "

After Yanzi left, Sister-in-law in the North called her friends and told them, "I once asked Yanzi to uphold justice, so I asked him to give me the cost of raising a relative." I heard:' People help you support your loved ones, so you should help them.' Now that Yan Zi is suspected by Qi Jun, I will prove Yan Zi's loyalty to Qi Jun with my life. Then, Northland Sao put on his clothes and hat, and asked his friends to follow him with swords and bamboo baskets. He came to the front of Qi Jun Palace and asked the doorman to convey his opinion to Qi Jun: "Yan Zi is a saint in the world. If he leaves the State of Qi, the State of Qi is bound to perish. It is better to die first than to watch Qi die. I testify with my head that Yanzi is loyal to Qi. " He turned to his friend and said, "Put my head in a bamboo basket and give it to the doorman so that he can give it to the Qi army." Then he drew his sword and committed suicide. Sister-in-law's friend cut off his head and put it in a bamboo basket and gave it to the doorman. Then he said to the onlookers, "Mr. Northland died for the safety of Qi, and I will accompany him to die for Mr. Northland's loyalty." Pulled out his sword and committed suicide. The monarch of Qi was frightened to disgrace. He quickly jumped on the post office bus and went after Yan Zi himself. He chased all the way to the border before catching up with Yan Zi and asking for forgiveness for his return to the capital of Qi. Yan Zi had no choice but to come back. When Yanzi returned to Qidu, she heard that the northern poet proved Yanzi's loyalty at the cost of his own life, and said, "I should go this time, because I can't recognize people at all."

The ability to recognize people mentioned above includes not only knowing friends, but also knowing the state of enemies and opponents. Only in this way can we be in an invincible position.

Li Yuanying, the son of Tang Gaozu Tang Gaozu, was made King Teng. He is bohemian, and the wives of many officials around him have been defiled by him. His most common trick is to pretend to be a princess and call her a lady, and then people are forced to be rude when they go to the palace. One day, Cui Jian's wife Zheng was summoned. She didn't expect it, but she was afraid of arrogance. If you go, you will be insulted. Zheng finally said to her husband, "It doesn't matter, I have an idea." Zheng went to the attic outside Tengzhong Gate. Wang Teng is in the attic. When Zheng came in, he wanted to force her. Zheng Da cried, "How can a king do such a thing? He must be a slave! " With that, he broke Wang Teng's head with the sole of his shoe and scratched his face with his fingers. When the princess heard the sound, Zheng could go home. Wang Teng was ashamed and didn't pay attention to politics for ten days. Later, Wang Teng went out to find a seat and Cui Jian went to apologize. Wang Teng was so ashamed that he had to transfer Mr. and Mrs. Cui Jian out of the palace. In contrast, the wives of officials who have been insulted by Wang Teng are ashamed.

Faced with arrogance, Zheng did not give in. But out of reality, we can't directly expose Wang Teng's shameless face. So according to the measures that Wang Teng may take, he came up with a plan to kill two birds with one stone, which can not only keep his chastity, but also give Wang Teng a step back and successfully deal with this thorny matter.

It can be seen that knowing people is the first step in the integration of knowledge and action.