My son was admitted to junior college at 260 points, and his parents held a banquet to ridicule him. Isn't going to college worth celebrating?

As a unified national talent selection examination, college entrance examination has attracted much attention from all walks of life over the years.

Many children are preparing for the college entrance examination three years later when they enter the first year of high school, and strive to be admitted to a favorite university.

In the eyes of many parents and children, a good university not only represents a bright future, but also is the glory of a family.

Therefore, after the results of the college entrance examination come out every year, if the children's scores are ideal, parents will happily set up several tables to celebrate.

Of course, the result of the college entrance examination is often that several families are happy and several families are worried, and they fail if they get what they want.

Generally speaking, if their children have not been admitted to a good university, or have not reached the undergraduate level, many parents will not be in the mood to hold a school banquet.

However, some parents, in order to appease and encourage their children, insisted on holding banquets to celebrate regardless of the results of the college entrance examination.

The son was admitted to junior college with 260 points, and his parents were humiliated by the banquet. He doesn't deserve to celebrate when he goes to college?

As a senior three student, Zhang Lin usually gets poor grades and has been in the bottom ranks.

In the second semester of Senior Two, Zhang Lin's class teacher called his parents to the school to have a talk with four people. From then on, Zhang Lin had a sense of urgency about the college entrance examination, stopped indulging in games, and began to attend classes seriously and take notes.

In the mock exam before the college entrance examination, his grades have improved a lot and he can barely reach the undergraduate admission line.

However, due to sudden illness, the college entrance examination did poorly, and only scored 260 points.

This score can only go to a junior college, and parents have gradually accepted this reality after asking his opinion that he is "unwilling to repeat".

Zhang Lin was in a bad mood because he failed to pass the undergraduate course, especially when he saw his parents attending other people's children's graduation parties everywhere these days.

Zhang Lin's parents saw that their son didn't smile all day. After discussion, they decided to hold a banquet for their children.

On the day of the banquet, 100 people called Lala. At the banquet, Zhang Lin's father got a toast at the dinner table. After a circuit, he heard many people talking in private:

"After taking this test, it is not shameful to have a school banquet."

"It's very kind of Lao zhang. My son went to the junior college and made such a big show. Everyone knows that it is a gift. "

"That is, my niece has to get more than 200 points, and I don't think I can face anyone."

Zhang Lin's father was very unhappy, but he calmed down and thought about it. He still silently walked onto the stage, walked up to the guests and said:

I know everyone must be surprised. Why do children have a school banquet when they go to college?

But what I want to say is that although my son didn't do well in the exam this time, his learning attitude is much better than before. We all see his progress and efforts.

Today, I want to take this opportunity to tell my son that failure is not failure, and life is a long way. As long as you keep moving forward, you are sure to succeed.

After that, thunderous applause broke out at the banquet, and Zhang Lin, who was hiding in the corner, was already in tears.

The college entrance examination "school banquet" attracted heated discussion. Is it worth celebrating being admitted to the college?

In many people's impression, specialized subject means failure and no effort.

Therefore, a child who goes to college is not qualified to let his parents go to great lengths to arrange banquets. Even if some parents hold banquets for reasons such as gift money, they will attract criticism and ridicule.

"There is no need to treat people in the final specialty. Parents have no face and children are embarrassed. "

"I won't celebrate. I don't deserve to be blessed if I don't work hard. If I want to hold a celebration dinner even if I go to college, my children will not work hard in the future. "

"Now in junior college, you can write papers casually. Are you sure this is a celebration? "

However, some parents insist on holding a school banquet for their children. No matter what their grades are, as long as they have worked hard in these three years, it is worth celebrating.

"The college entrance examination is not the only way to decide fate. If even your parents feel that their children are ashamed when they need comfort most, the road ahead will be even harder. "

"This will be a normal party. If nothing else, I want the children to know that we have not given up on him."

"The school banquet is also an encouragement to children. Some children are psychologically fragile. If parents make him feel wronged again, it is easy to go to extremes. "

How should parents comfort and encourage their children when they fail in the college entrance examination?

1, the college entrance examination can't decide the future, and learning skills well is also very popular.

The college entrance examination reflects a person's three-year study in high school, but it can't determine the future road and direction.

A person who wants to live what he wants depends not only on his diploma, but also on his personality, ability and emotional intelligence.

So don't take failing in the college entrance examination as a hurdle, it's just a small test on the road of life.

Entering junior college is not punishable by death. Now technical talents are also very popular. They can learn technology slowly and slowly, and they can get ahead in the future.

And earlier work practice can also accumulate social experience earlier, which will become intangible wealth in the future.

2、? Seize the opportunity firmly and don't give up your efforts.

Nowadays, many undergraduates are addicted to games and love. They lead a muddled life, and half of them spent four years in college here.

When you are in junior college, you can successfully show your advantages in three years as long as you are serious enough, pay attention to your professional skills and don't waste time.

This process requires you not to give up your efforts, to maintain self-discipline, to seize opportunities when you meet them, and to do this. Once you step out of the campus and enter the society, you will certainly find the way that suits you best.

Your parents will always be your biggest backing.

No matter what difficulties you encounter, your parents will always support you and provide you with help within their power.

As long as your decision is positive, we won't laugh at you, let alone blame you. When you fail, the door is always open for you, and when you are in trouble, you can also talk to us.

We want you to be happy more than success.