How to resolve embarrassment

When encountering embarrassment, "muddle through" is also a good way to reduce embarrassment.

For example, when we use the car window as a mirror to tidy up our appearance, we suddenly find that there seems to be a pair of eyes staring straight at us. What should we do at this time?

Pretend you don't know, and keep sorting! Say that finish, walk away calmly, as if that person doesn't exist.

The essence of this method is that you may not be able to deceive yourself, but as long as you can deceive others and reduce their embarrassment, you can in turn reduce your own embarrassment. If both sides show embarrassment, it will only make people more embarrassed.

② Humorous coping

Personally, I think humor is the best way to solve embarrassment Without it, we can even reverse other people's comments on us, but this method requires a certain improvisation ability.

Give me an example that I still remember. When I was a student, one of my classmates had a crush on a girl in my class. Every time he passes by her, he will pose as a model and walk solemnly.

Once, he accidentally kicked a chair, and one stumbled and almost fell.

The students next to me saw it, and the scene was a bit embarrassing. I didn't expect this product to play well. I imitated the characters in the idol drama and shook my hair. I said leisurely, "Is the chair not broken?"

As a result, the students next to him were amused by his witty response, which not only solved the embarrassment, but also won a lot of goodwill.

③ Self-mockery

When you are embarrassed, try to point out your mistakes or laugh at yourself. Giving yourself a step will often ease the atmosphere.

When taking the elevator, the laggards are always more embarrassed than the advanced ones, because the alarm suddenly sounds.

Once I took the elevator in a shopping mall, and the alarm went off when the last girl came in. When the girl saw it, she first said "Oh, it's embarrassing, it's time to lose weight" and then calmly walked out. The whole process doesn't look awkward at all.

④ Apologize

For those who are embarrassed because of their own mistakes, frankly apologizing to each other and asking for forgiveness can sometimes have the same effect.

For example, if you accidentally step on someone's heel and his shoes, apologize to the other party quickly, and you will probably get forgiveness from the other party, thus solving the embarrassment.

⑤ Self hypnosis

We have analyzed before that people are embarrassed largely because we have a good self-expectation, but there are no perfect people in the world, no one will make mistakes, and everything is going well.