I am a man. I always shy around others. What should I do if others think I am too girly?

I am a man. I always shy around others. What should I do if others think I am a girl?

You have to be confident and don’t be shy. Everyone is just like you, they are all human beings. , what is there to be shy about? You can't shrink yourself into a small circle. It's no big deal to hold your head high and straighten your back. If you want to change other people's evaluation of you, change yourself first. So what if others laugh at you? Just be yourself, I hope you can become more confident. What should you do if you don’t have confidence? It’s always unnatural when facing others?

1. Adjust your life goals. If the goal is too high, it is easy to have low self-esteem and irritability. .

2. Develop a mentality of letting everything take its course, pay attention to the process of life, do not put too much pressure on yourself, and center everything on health and happiness.

3. Find yourself, know yourself, understand your own strengths and weaknesses, use your strengths and avoid weaknesses; seek a way of living, working, and learning that suits you; be down-to-earth and do things in a down-to-earth manner.

4. Cultivate love. A life with love is the happiest and most meaningful.

5. Insist on proper exercise, develop regular life, and good positive habits.

6. Always listen to relaxing and pleasant music, and often watch healthy and uplifting movies, books, and information.

As long as you stick to these six points and adjust for a period of time, you will get better.

I wish you happiness, joy and all the best! Why do I always feel awkward when facing others?

Overcome this state through exercise! Make more friends and communicate with people more often. Most of the communication between people is done through language. You should learn to use language to communicate with others. To open the language valve, you need to talk about topics that concern the other party. You can talk to the other person about his or her work or study. You will find that he talks endlessly. As for you, you can also talk about your own affairs. Of course you can talk a lot about yourself. What should I do if I always say something wrong with others and then always run away because I don’t dare to face others?

It is wrong to say something bad about others. It is disrespectful to the other person and also very impolite. Please pay more attention in the future. Why do you always have nothing to say when facing others?

Social issues cannot be explained clearly in a few simple sentences!

The ancients said it very well: When we have shortcomings in any aspect, we must strengthen training in that aspect!

Therefore, the more we are with others and cannot find any topics to talk about, the more we need to find opportunities to get along with others. We can start to observe what others do, and gradually we will adapt!

How to strike up a conversation with others? I'm a man

Picking up a conversation depends on the occasion. Different occasions have different ways to strike up a conversation. It depends on what kind of occasion you are in. What should you do if you always treat others hot or cold?

Try to adjust your mentality, put yourself in someone else’s shoes and change your taste. My taste will be better. I am a man, but what should I do if I am ugly? People always laugh at me! I also have poor popularity. I am very good at dealing with people, but others always play tricks on me. What should I do?

Many powerful figures in history were short and ugly. Napoleon, Yan Zi, ***, Yuan Longping... Not to mention these people, look at the thin, short and ugly young people on the street. Many of them are very confident. What is beauty and what is handsome is not just having a pretty face. You can pay attention to the popular people around you. They are all people with personality and not very good-looking people. The face is just a piece of skin. If you tear it off, it is just a skeleton. Who knows whether it is a sheep or a wolf. If you look at those celebrities that everyone likes, many of them are not very good-looking, or even vulgar, but they are very open-minded, so we mainly pay attention to their inner beauty and ignore their appearance. At this time, we feel that they are not ugly. In fact, no one thinks you are ugly, and no one criticizes you. It’s just that you think you are ugly, and you look down on yourself. Let go, don’t always pity yourself in front of the mirror, spend more time with strangers, and you will find out. They don't pay attention to your appearance, let alone call you ugly.

I think those who really pay attention to their appearance are those who are ignorant. In order to make money, the entertainment industry exaggerates their appearance, which affects the aesthetics of little girls. However, people will always grow old, and no matter how beautiful they are, they will become Skeleton. Even if someone says you are ugly, it is because they are too naive and thoughtless. Why should you be the same as these people? You are young and strong, and it is the time when you are determined to make a career. Life is short. When you pity yourself, you don't know how much time has passed. Don't let these negative emotions hold you back, go out and explore more, and you will change. In this world, there is no river that cannot be crossed. Now look in the mirror and say: "I'm not ugly, I'm a man, I will make a difference soon!" Men are not afraid of being ugly, they are afraid of not having the courage and self-confidence. Sometimes you have to go all out and don’t be afraid of anything! I believe you will make your way into the world. I'm waiting for you at the finish line, brother! What should I do if I feel aggressive towards others?

People are like this, especially Chinese people, who are soft-hearted and not hard-hearted. If you are more aggressive than him, he will naturally not dare to be cruel to you. So this society is all about competing to see who is the most vicious, and whoever is the most vicious can stand up straight. I actually bumped into someone else and walked recklessly, 5555555, I am a girl, will others say that I am naughty and act coyly, what should I do?

Big girls are very cute. Just be yourself. People who know you will like you. People who don’t know you don’t care what they do, right? The more you interact with people, the more outgoing you will become