I am from Shanghai, but I am a girl. Generally speaking, Shanghai men are very gentle and careful with the girls they like. If he doesn't really like you, he's just playing, so it's normal to ignore you after playing enough. Shanghai men or not, most men should be proud of you. I think you should find your own reasons. I can't believe he is so proud of every woman. There's always someone he can't control, right? You act like you care about him? Don't let him think that you are dead set on him. Once a man sees you eating him to death and loving him to death, you take the initiative. Which man is not proud of you? This is a man's poor self-esteem and pride. Think about your attitude towards him. Girls have to be reserved sometimes. If they are cold to him and he wants to see you, you can say that they are not available. If he really likes you, he will not give up on you because of your indifference, but will only be more interested in you. If he really has no feelings for you and wants to break up with you, then be free and easy. Women should also have the backbone of women. Be confident, don't be too clingy to men, and say something that may make many men angry. Men can be mean sometimes. The nicer you are to him, the more he puts on airs. Seeing you, he said he was bored. The more you ignore him, the tighter he chases, and duplicity is also a man's specialty. He said that if you are not white, you will not be ignored. Don't listen to him. There are many people with white skin. I believe. Then why did he choose you? How nice it is for a single man to be chased by a girl. This just satisfies his vanity. If he is cold to you and you are still persistent, you will be happier. What man won't be proud in front of this woman? I believe you have been showing love and initiative to him for some time. I suggest you take it and go out to play with your friends every day. Don't think about him all day. It's time for him to think of you. If you don't look for him, he won't look for you, so the result should be clear. Some men are more and more comfortable, while others are more and more pretentious. You might as well take it and let it go. Don't always treat a person in one form, everyone will get bored. Actually, as a Shanghai woman, I want to speak for Shanghai men. When you are in love, Shanghai men are really careful and gentle. Of course, most of them can't say everything, so you feel so proud. First of all, you may not understand his way of speaking. Because of the geographical differences, I think he won't talk to you if you are not white. It should be a joke. Boyfriends often say similar things. He always said that he was tired of seeing me. In the words of Shanghai, I feel annoyed and angry when I see it, with a cigarette in my mouth. I look helpless and miserable. Sometimes I don't know if it's true or not. If I don't know, I'll let him go. Sometimes when I ignore him, I will know whether what he said is true or not. He is still with me! Every time he says this, he wants me to look sad and depressed, so he will be very proud. Men also like to see their women jealous and sad for him, and their vanity will be satisfied, and so will girls. You should understand this. Whenever he says this, I will tease him when I am in a good mood, deliberately make myself sad, pout, play some hooligans, pay attention to my own discretion, and don't joke too much; Sometimes I just ignore it, just say that I am hungry, what to eat at night, you go to buy something to eat, and so on, and change the subject. Instead, he always takes me with him and can't satisfy him. The same result will be boring if I play too much, otherwise the two will lose interest again! You can either satisfy his vanity and act very concerned and sad, or ignore it and act indifferent, so I think you should first find out whether he is joking or serious, which needs you to feel for yourself, because even if he is joking, a man is serious, and you should be able to understand what he means. If you always take jokes seriously, there will be a generation gap in your communication. He might get bored, too. After all, the north and Shanghai are different in many ways. Some jokes may be beyond your comprehension. It seems that this kind of joke is quite common in Shanghai. Some people act like a joke, others are not so obvious, but we all know whether this is a joke or not. If you don't play like this there, you might take it seriously.
Besides, I think falling in love with men is sometimes like playing games with children. They will be very simple, just a child who has not grown up, and sometimes they will make themselves very mature. If you ask me, men before the age of 30 are generally children, so treat them as children! A child's mood will change greatly one second before and the next. If you are around him all the time, you will only feel pain, mentally tortured and jump out to be self-centered, but this will not make you selfish. Ignore him. This discretion is up to you. It's hard to explain this scale to you. Let him feel that you have him in your heart, but sometimes it is a little cold on the surface. When you should care, you must care about him and always be yourself. You can't just be a blind road. You need each other's space and constraints. You can master this degree by yourself according to your communication. Many men like women with personality, but I also know that once a woman with personality faces the man she loves, it seems to become mediocre. Me, too. It's enough to get lost for a while. He already knows that you like him very much. Now it's time to find yourself and show your personality and characteristics. This is what makes him feel attractive. Don't tell a man how much you like and admire him all day. If he has you in his heart, you should show him what he likes and appreciates, right? I wish you a good result with him. I quite like northern girls, straightforward and careless, which many southern girls don't have. This is also your advantage. If you are not a northern girl with this personality, then you should know where your personality and characteristics are and show them. Only a woman with a bright spot can attract a man's attention, but I still want to say that if this man is not sincere to you, he is just playing, you must not indulge in it again. Appreciation is ok, but stop appreciating him and keep your distance. We women should be able to afford it, right? Waiting for your good news!