I always listen to my girlfriend. What if my girlfriend is too headstrong? What if people say I'm afraid of my wife?

First ask yourself, do you really love your girlfriend? Is it because you love her that you always obey her? Do you like his waywardness towards you? What's your girlfriend's personality? What kind of boy does she like? In addition, I also tell you clearly that your girlfriend is spoiled in front of you because she trusts you and depends on you. Of course, if you are too headstrong and unreasonable, it is probably your long-term indulgence. You should review yourself first.

You are told by your friends that you are afraid of your wife, which hurts your man's self-esteem, indicating that you are a very manly person at heart. That's good. In fact, girls prefer men who are masculine enough. In addition, correct a misunderstanding, in fact, you are not afraid of your wife, but love and spoil your wife. It is natural for a man to spoil his wife. You don't have to care what others say, just smile when you hear it.

However, you should master the degree and pamper your wife appropriately. If you spoil your wife too much, it will make you look timid. Therefore, at the right time, communicate with your wife in the right way, especially when your wife is too headstrong. Of course, don't let your wife think that you don't love her.

In addition, you should be more assertive, change from passive to active, start with some details and slowly find your own voice. For example, you can suggest which skirt and shoes your wife should wear, and strongly say that they look good together. Your wife will think, "Hey?" When did my husband become so independent and understand aesthetics? "...", so I will like to ask your opinion when I get dressed in the future.

Or about eating, where to eat, you can tell her mysteriously, I will take you to a good place today, and then run over with your girlfriend's little hand. Your girlfriend will definitely think, "Huh? This smelly boy, such a man, usually asks me everything ... "He is sure to be secretly pleased, and he also thinks that you have become romantic.

You can start with this detail and express your thoughts and opinions as much as possible, which can not only reflect your stubbornness and taste, but also create romance, so that your girlfriend will unconsciously become an innocent girl and like to ask you everything. ...

In addition, when your girlfriend gives you a hard time, you can have the cheek to say something like "My baby is fine, …" with a smile. Don't be too disgusting, this is very useful. The word "baby" will make your girlfriend feel that you love her very much. The word "good" will make her feel that you love her very much, but she likes her to listen to you and make you look like a big brother. ), and she is a little girl, she should listen to you ... She really listens to you, try it if you don't believe me!

Remember, you should slowly regain your man's right to speak, and you should outsmart him. You can't win it with bad temper, cold war and violence, so your wife may lose it.

Don't stick to these methods I said, and make appropriate changes. First, you should relax yourself. Don't pay attention to friends' jokes, which are actually not derogatory. Your girlfriend's willfulness may be due to her extreme trust in you, and you don't have to regard it as unreasonable. And myself, in fact, is the kind of man who is not very good at expressing his wishes, especially in front of his wife. This is no big deal. Like I said above, take your time!

Oh, occasionally learn to talk to your girlfriend in a more imperative tone, such as "Good girl, put on more clothes for me, it's cold outside today!" Then he threw her a thick coat, or remember to pat her on the shoulder or touch her head.

Imperative sentences, you know? The general sentence pattern is "Why don't you give it to me ...". Your girlfriend will listen and like it. ...

If you say you care about her! Compulsory care for her will make her think you are a man. Once she thinks you are a man, it will automatically melt into water and become more and more gentle, so it will not be too capricious. Your goal will be achieved, and the feeling of the man you want will be achieved. Haha, simple ...

Do it slowly, think clearly for yourself, don't be too rigid ~

Bless you ~