How to treat "when people are poor, it is best not to visit relatives and friends, and not to attend various weddings and banquets"?

If you are poor, you will never leave your relatives; if you are rich, you will never gamble. This is an eternal truth, especially in today's society.

When a society takes money as a symbol to measure a person's success, poverty becomes synonymous with no ambition and no ability. Shallow cognition has been deeply rooted in people's hearts. Even if you are radiant tomorrow and down and out tonight, in the eyes of others, you are just the object of disdain in others' eyes.

French writer Stendhal lived a hard life, and only three friends attended his funeral when he died. On his tombstone, there is an inscription that cannot be humble: Aligo Bell, a Milanese, wrote, loved and lived.

The pursuit of profit is the result of human nature, and snobbery is the truth behind it.

No matter the upper or lower class, when you are poor, no one will take care of your dignity and face. Laughter and sarcasm are always a kind of schadenfreude. Kong Yiji's embarrassment in the pub was just a pastime cancelled by others. The viciousness of human nature sometimes intensifies to recklessness. Worship the strong and despise the weak, which is the essence of being too poor and loving the rich.

Before you succeed, or when you are down and out, the best state of life is to stay away from your relatives and friends, learn to be lonely. Otherwise, injury will be an unspeakable shame in your life, and people's badness is often a tendency to follow suit. There is no sincerity, only the hypocrisy of icing on the cake.

When people are poor, it is best not to visit relatives or attend various weddings and banquets. I think that's quite right. Rich, you're right, some people agree, some people agree. Without money, people speak lightly and have no weight, which makes people look down on you and think you are incompetent and incompetent.

When my cousin got married, my husband didn't have a house or a car, and he still owed a school loan. At that time, menstruation's family and all relatives disagreed with their marriage, but my cousin decided to fall in love and married her husband. In the two years after their marriage, relatives will criticize their cousins and think they are incompetent. Any relative who meets his cousin will educate him and tell them what to do. They also feel inferior because they have no money, work hard and try to reduce the walking between relatives.

Later, my cousin's friend asked him to go to Inner Mongolia to develop, and he worked hard to specialize in technology. In just two years, the boss took him into the company and gave him 15% of the shares. Suddenly, my cousin became rich, too. At that time, my cousin didn't want to leave home for thousands of kilometers. Let my cousin's husband go home. Cousin said: I'm afraid I can't live without money. I have money, and people remember my last name. Without money, I am shorter than people walking among relatives. At the insistence of my cousin's husband, the three of them bought a house in Inner Mongolia and settled down.

Now that my cousin's family is back, relatives in my hometown are scrambling to invite them to dinner, and they always let my cousin sit on the table. When people are down and out, they don't visit relatives. When they want a glass of wine, the cups are all for the rich. Don't ask the poor in downtown, the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.

If you are poor, don't go to your relatives' house. The poor are worse than ghosts and tea is worse than water. When people are poor, in front of relatives and friends, no one thinks what you say is right and no one listens. When you are rich, everything you say is good advice.

When people are poor, it is best not to visit relatives or attend various weddings and banquets. I don't think we need to do this. Maybe we will meet relatives who look down on us, but we should have our own backbone. Although we are poor, we haven't reached out to them yet. Why care about other people's eyes? Moreover, people who are poor will know who is joking and who is really good to themselves. I think that in some ways, the cold reception and grievances you suffered when visiting relatives for weddings and banquets can become a better motivation for yourself instead of escaping again and again. I am a man who has been married for a long time. Sometimes when I don't drive back to my parents' house, people look at you differently from when I drive, but I won't do anything against my will because of others' eyes. After all, we live for ourselves, not like others. .