Talking skills of suspecting her husband's infidelity

Talking Skills of Doubting Husband's Cheating Many women doubt whether her husband will have a big fight with her husband after cheating, or how to follow him. Actually, it's not necessary Sometimes we can find out whether the other party is really cheating through some conversations. In the process of chatting, you can observe his behavior or eyes, because everyone's eyes will not lie. At this time, when you mention the knowledge of having an affair, it depends on whether his eyes are erratic or his expression is rich, and whether he is embarrassed. I'm talking about the possibility of cheating on these questions. How to talk about suspecting that my husband is cheating 1? When two people are in conflict, if you want to see if he is cheating at this time, you can try to provoke him, because a person is unprepared when he is angry. At this time, he is also easy to tell some truth. At the moment of excitement, his brain thinking is relatively simple. At this time, she may say what she really thinks. 2. When chatting, two people can talk about the topic of mistress. When it comes to mistress, you can look at his expression. If he is having an affair, you will see some embarrassment or nervous eyes on his face, and he will be erratic. If there is no affair, then he may follow you and say some bad things about mistress. Chatting can also be done in a joking way. Is there a woman on her face? At this time, you must see his expression. If you look serious or nervous, there must be something wrong. If he is calm, how do you know that clothes don't care? Then the explanation is gone. How to find a breakthrough point for a person suspected of having an affair with her husband? 1. Talking about facts often leads to unnecessary arguments. Now that you see something that makes you unhappy or suspicious, what you have to say is not whether you should do it or not, but tell him your feelings and thoughts. Example: "I don't blame you, maybe I am too sensitive. I remember when we first got married ... "At first, men were more receptive. Maybe the reason for your crisis is not the seduction of other women, but that you haven't had an intimate communication for a long time. I was critical and complaining from the beginning, and I lost seven points if I was reasonable. He is the culprit of your injury at the moment. Yes, you are completely innocent? In love and marriage, no one has the obligation to take full responsibility for the emotional crisis. As long as you haven't made up your mind to break up or divorce, look for reasons from yourself first. 3. "I am a woman with no interest, and you have put up with it for a long time over the years. If you have any ideas or better choices, don't tell me last. What do you say? " When you feel the crisis of his affair, most of the facts already exist, and the dialogue to solve the crisis should be based on this premise, and we must bypass the tangled fact authentication stage before we can start the dialogue to really solve the problem. What should I do if my husband cheats? 1. Men and women get along for a long time, and it is inevitable that they are a little ambiguous, especially under your nose. So don't make a fuss when you find ambiguity, and immediately conclude that the emotional crisis is coming. Talk to your best friend about your unfortunate discovery and ask her to help you analyze whether you are nervous or not, and whether it is necessary to talk to him seriously about such a "trivial matter". Even if the sky falls, at least give yourself a day to calm down. Speaking for the first time, of course, is impulsive. Impulsive words are often subjective and unreasonable, and it is difficult to convince people with kindness. No matter how much you trust your sixth sense, please talk to him after you find the "problem" three times. In this way, he will not be wronged, but also give himself some time to digest the problem and think calmly. Unless you find the fatal link from the beginning, such as kissing in the street, or even catching him in bed. On the other hand, if we find such a problem, we have nothing to talk about. Talking skills of suspecting your husband's infidelity 2 methods/steps You should participate in your husband's social circle activities in time, so that his friends, colleagues and business partners can understand you and agree with you, so that your husband will not bring your mistress to attend, because all the activities your husband participates in have your presence, squeezing and closing most of your mistress's activity space. If your husband is a face-saving person, he won't let relatives and friends know the existence of mistress. Xiaosan's sense of existence in his circle has been greatly reduced, and his living space has become smaller, creating an atmosphere of family harmony. Knowing that her husband is cheating, an unwise woman will only be noisy, sad and hurt her feelings. You know your man is excellent, of course others will like him. If you react too violently or overbearing, you will only push your husband into the arms of mistress. Therefore, you should strive to create a harmonious family atmosphere, learn to be patient and forgive, and let your husband immerse himself in your gentle hometown. At this time, when your husband spends more time on you and your family, and mistress is left out in the cold, will she still do nothing? As you are in charge of the family economy, you should take the time to regularly check the family's financial situation, especially the husband's monthly salary income and expenditure, carefully calculate and fully control the husband's salary income, and fully control the specific destination and use of each expenditure. You must learn how to manage money, and you must try your best to make him spend money irregularly. Of course, this is about skills and methods, so we must master that degree. Method/Step 2 1. Because the existence of doubt often leads to the emotional estrangement between us, and finally develops to the point of irretrievability, when we feel uneasy, we can use the method of cheating trace test to determine whether a man has betrayed us. At this time, the man has the following performance. He began to pay attention to diet or lose weight. He began to buy new clothes; From boxers to crotch guards, I don't even like it; The material of clothes changed from cotton to silk. He gets nervous when the phone rings. When answering the phone, he will try to speak in a low voice. He often makes excuses to work overtime, especially on weekends. He began to look for reasons to stay out of it. He is on a business trip and doesn't tell you the itinerary, flight and hotel information. When you ask him where he is going and when he will come back, he will yell at you, and he will say, you can't contact him at all. He will go out alone on weekends for some bad reasons. When you ask him when to go home, or where to go, he will be very unhappy and angry. He began to hide credit card receipts and phone bills. He kept his mouth shut about his travels and the people he met. When you show some interest in his private affairs, even if it is only normal interest, he will think it is an invasion of his privacy. Talking skills of suspecting her husband's infidelity 3. How to talk about suspecting that her husband is cheating? When two people are chatting, they can talk about the topic of mistress. When it comes to mistress, you can look at his expression. If he is having an affair, you will see some embarrassment or nervous eyes on his face, and he will be erratic. If there is no affair, then he may follow you and say some bad things about mistress. If you suspect that your husband is cheating in your life, you can know it through some chat at this time. If you want to know more about this knowledge, you can click on the free consultation below, and Mingjun's emotional tutor will analyze emotional problems one-on-one for free. If you suspect that your husband is cheating between husband and wife, then at this time, you can see whether he is really cheating through the dialogue between two people. What are the conversation skills for suspecting her husband's cheating? A word can irritate each other. Sometimes, if you irritate each other, they may tell the truth. When a person knows anger, then his brain circuit is relatively simple, and it is possible to tell the truth. Of course, you can also look at each other's expressions through some words. For example, when it comes to having a mistress, you just need to look at the other person's expression. Under normal circumstances, if there is a mistress, then he will be nervous or embarrassed. Knowing these expressions on his face means that he must have someone outside.