People have four inexhaustible things, all of which are destroyed.

People have four inexhaustible things, all of which are destroyed.

0 1 "What is impossible"

We often say, "Be a man. See you later." In fact, whether it is a good thing or a bad thing, don't go too far, and learn to leave room for yourself.

They all say that "people who have lost their way can't help." If you do everything, you will lose in the end.

Xiang Yu is such an example. Although he is brave and invincible, he has an obvious shortcoming, that is, he is too ruthless.

After he conquered Xiangcheng, he killed all the soldiers and civilians guarding the city. Later, he imprisoned more than 200,000 prisoners in Qin Jun, burned Xianyang City, dug the tomb of Qin Shihuang and so on. What Xiang Yu did laid the groundwork for his downfall in the future.

Therefore, a really smart person should know how to forgive others, rather than doing everything.

02 "endless words"

As the saying goes, "illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth." If a person talks too much and doesn't use his head, it's easy to get into trouble for himself.

When we associate with others, we often know people but don't know their faces. It is difficult to ensure that there are no villains among the people we know. Sometimes an unintentional word is heard by people with a heart, and others will spread it with embellishment, which may lead to very serious consequences.

Therefore, when we associate with others, it is best to be "unspeakable". This is not only for self-protection, but also for stupidity.

03 "Never rely on anything"

Each of us has his ups and downs. When he is in power or rich, don't be too arrogant or show off, otherwise it will be easy to turn Gan Kun around.

Hua Fei, who lived as a concubine in the palace, used her brother's power to boss around in the harem, sometimes even looked down on the emperor, offended many people and finally hit a wall. For example, Han Xin was brave, resourceful and proud, and finally let Liu Bang design the murder.

These people all died because their strength reached its limit rather than convergence.

Therefore, we should be modest and low-key in life.

04 "You can't enjoy all the blessings"

As the saying goes, "misfortune comes from the mouth, and happiness comes from the mouth." This sentence means relying on happiness and misfortune. Too much happiness is a disaster, and disaster is finally a blessing.

Zeng Guofan once said: "If you want to marry a daughter-in-law, the flowers are not full and the blessings are not exhausted." This is the secret of the prosperity of the Zeng family.

When people are lucky and enjoy happiness, they might as well give some to others, help others within their own power, and do more good deeds to accumulate virtue. Only in this way can happiness last.

"Things can't be done, things can't be said, things can't be relied on, and blessings can't be enjoyed." If a person achieves this "four inexhaustible", that is the real great wisdom.