How to make fun of others?

1. The content should be elegant

The content of the joke depends on the ideological taste and cultural accomplishment of the joker. Jokes with healthy content and elegant style not only provide enlightenment and spiritual enjoyment to the other party, but also powerfully shape one's own beautiful image. When the pianist Poch was playing once, he found that half of the seats in the audience were empty. He said to the audience: "Friends, I found that people in this city are very rich. I saw that each of you bought two or three seats." Tickets." Then half the audience burst into laughter. Porky's harmless jokes turn the tables on him.

2． Be friendly

Being kind to others is a principle of joking. The process of joking is a process of mutual communication and transmission of emotions. If you use joking to ridicule others and vent your inner feelings of disgust and dissatisfaction, then unless you are a fool Talent cannot tell. Maybe some people are not as articulate and compassionate as you. On the surface, you have the upper hand, but others will think that you cannot respect others and will not want to associate with you.

3. Behave appropriately

Besides joking, you can also use your actions to make others laugh. There was a young couple who had a very good relationship and made endless jokes all day long. One day, the husband was playing with the shotgun, pointed it at his wife and said, "Don't move, I'll kill you if you do!" Then he pulled the trigger. As a result, the wife was accidentally beaten and seriously injured. It can be seen that the joke must not be excessive.

4． The objects should be distinguished

The same joke may be played on person A but not on person B. People have different identities, personalities, and moods, and their ability to tolerate jokes is also different.

Generally speaking, juniors should not joke with seniors; subordinates should not joke with superiors; men should not joke with women. To make jokes among peers, you need to understand each other's personality traits and emotional information.

The other person is outgoing, tolerant and tolerant, and can be forgiven for making jokes that are a little too big. The other person is introverted and likes to ponder the meaning behind his words, so be careful when joking. Even though the other person is usually cheerful by nature, if something unpleasant or sad happens to happen, you should not joke with him casually. On the contrary, if the other person is introverted, but a happy event is coming, a joke with him at this time will have unexpectedly good results.

5. The occasion must be distinguished

President Ronald Reagan once said before a congressional meeting, in order to test whether the microphone worked well: "Gentlemen, please pay attention, in five minutes, I will bomb the Soviet Union." Everyone was in an uproar when he was outstanding. Reagan made an extremely absurd joke on the wrong occasion and at the wrong time. For this reason, the Soviet government lodged a strong protest. In general, it is not appropriate to joke in serious situations.

In short, you can’t go too far when joking, especially you must distinguish between the occasion and the target. The taboos on joking mainly include the following points

1. Avoid being frivolous and unrestrained when joking with elders and juniors, especially talking about love affairs between men and women. Jokes between several generations should be elegant, witty, humorous, entertaining, and enjoyable. On such occasions, it is taboo to talk about romantic affairs between men and women. When peers make jokes in this regard, and you are present as an elder or junior, it is best not to comment and just listen as if nothing has happened.

2． Avoid joking when alone with people of the opposite sex who are not related by blood (except for couples, of course). Even serious jokes will often arouse the other person's disgust, or cause others to speculate and criticize. Be careful to keep an appropriate distance. Of course, you can’t be formal or awkward.

3. Be careful not to joke around with people with disabilities. Everyone is afraid of others making fun of their shortcomings, especially people with disabilities. As the saying goes, don't scold a bald man in front of a monk, and don't talk about light bulbs in front of a lunatic.

4. Avoid joking with friends when they are accompanying guests.