What kind of experience is it to love someone in the name of a friend?

Loving a person in the name of a friend is an experience of being abused, and being loved silently should be an experience of being targeted by a pervert. It is irresponsible for me to delay loving or being loved. I want to do it in a "silent" way.

Earlier, we always said that a certain star and a certain star wanted to know each other when they were young. It took almost twenty years to get together again, which was caused by fate and pride. Of course, there are also many people who love each other silently in the name of friends, such as Li's and Na Ying's. Although it's hard to say how long ago they met, and how they struck a spark of love, at least it took them a long time to learn to love someone, and then they were lucky enough to catch the most suitable love train.

But for us ordinary people, this wandering love is undoubtedly a waste of time, because if we watch each other postpone from the beginning, then we are not friends. Even if we have been in love for a long time, there will be sparks in the process of being friends. I'm afraid of people who have nothing to do, come to your house like a hostess, make eyes at you and treat you as a friend. I think if I were you, I would be considered a pervert. About unrequited love, I think unrequited love can't last long and unrequited love can't be expressed. No one will secretly love sadness in the name of a friend, because you have no ability to make it clear that you love him/her and don't want to leave him/her. I think this is really abusive and abnormal.

So, finally, advise a friend who "loves a person in the name of a friend" to try to let go! If you disappear and the other person desperately looks for you, maybe it is love. If you disappear, you disappear, then this is not your destiny. Let go ~