Haiqing and Xiao Taohong in "Little Joy" are best friends. What are the bottom lines that a best friend cannot touch?

Even as close best friends, best friends still cannot touch each other's bottom line. I think the most important bottom line is that if you know that some of your actions may hurt her, you can't ignore it. If you know that your behavior will hurt your best friend and you still do it, it is often difficult for the two of you to be best friends anymore.

Some girlfriends will speak unabashedly. For example, in front of your colleagues, classmates, or friends, in short in front of the opposite sex, they will laugh at your embarrassing things, even those things that happen in your boudoir. , she will tell it as a joke, making you feel ashamed. Although she may apologize vigorously later and say that she really didn't mean it, I feel that such words and actions will definitely make others feel uncomfortable and violate their bottom line.

There are also some best friends who like to have contact with their best friend’s boyfriend. I think this is very excessive. I think my best friend's boyfriend is a minefield of friends, and if I'm not careful, I and the other person will be blown up. Some best friends try their best to express themselves in front of other people's boyfriends, and even slander their own best friends. In the questioning eyes of my best friend, she would immediately say that I was so outspoken that I didn’t pay attention, or that she would test her boyfriend on my best friend’s behalf... This kind of behavior would also step on the other person’s bottom line.

Of course, there are those who think they are your best friend. They may use your salary to dress themselves up but never pay them back. At the same time, they go around telling others that you are old-fashioned and don’t know how to dress up. You always pay for meals, coffee, and entertainment, but you tell others that if she hadn't taken you with you, you wouldn't know how to drink coffee... This is also a behavior that steps on other people's bottom lines.