After my husband cheated on me, I chose to only separate and not divorce. Some people say that I am transparent, and some people laugh at me for being stupid.

Because the husband's career is booming after marriage, while earning money, he is no longer satisfied with supporting his family and guarding me, but often wanders outside, so the husband cheated in the eighth year of marriage.

I am a traditional woman. At first, when I got conclusive evidence of my husband's infidelity, I found it hard to accept. I cried and teased him, and tried everything I could with my dissatisfied wife, but it was useless. On the contrary, he even intensified, even chatting with those women outside in front of me.

During that time, I often held my child Lacrimosa in my arms, and my best friend advised me to leave her, so why bother myself. But looking at the children, I can't make up my mind. What would I do without them? I don't trust to stay, take it away and let him suffer with me?

So day after day, until one day, I suddenly thought to myself, why should I care so much about him? Since I care about what he did and don't want to face him, let's part with him. Anyway, the room at home is big, so I choose another bedroom. There is no need to think about it all day and make yourself a miserable dissatisfied housewife.

When I changed my mind, I found it was a good thing that I didn't go all the way with an angry obsession, otherwise I would really ruin myself. Since my husband is rich and doesn't intend to send us flowers, it seems that I haven't lost anything except him at night, and my material level is still stable. It's just that I have to learn to let go of this man slowly.

In order to get rid of my unwillingness and resentment, I forced myself to cultivate some personal interests, learn Chinese painting and practice calligraphy. Because I like writing, I pay more attention to this aspect. Besides taking care of the children, I concentrate on doing what I like. Gradually, he really faded out of my subject world.

No resentment, only peace of mind, plus regular maintenance at the beauty salon. Sometimes looking at yourself in the mirror is really like a different person. If I used to turn myself into a yellow-faced woman, then now I am my own queen, calm and calm, and it seems that every move is really temperament. I secretly said to myself that although there is no man's love, my choice is right.

Looking back now, why didn't you choose divorce? I'm afraid it's not just for the children, but also for myself, because I'm used to the days of economic superiority. Finding a job after divorce is a problem. I can't do it with a high salary, and I can't stand manual labor with a low salary.

Even if I find another man to marry, both sides will take the children. After a long time, there will definitely be contradictions due to eccentricity. Even if he has no children, let me have a child with him. How can I regenerate and ignore this darling? If this man is not as good as the one he left in economy and appearance, then I can't accept it even more.

What's more, divorced women don't even have a home, and their husband's family is no longer a home. It is even more inconvenient to take the children back to her house for a long time. Isn't it more sad to toss and turn?

Therefore, once her husband cheats, a woman doesn't want a divorce. As long as she can figure it out and doesn't complain all day, she won't be a dissatisfied wife. As for others, it doesn't matter whether they laugh at you for being stupid or praise you for living transparently. The key depends on how you choose.

Now my relationship with my husband is a little better than that of strangers and a little worse than that of relatives. Maybe it's because I've had enough fun outside, or I can't stand him hanging out day after day. My husband's attitude towards me is much better than when I first cheated on him. He will buy me flowers and spend our wedding anniversary with me. I don't know if this is a harbinger of his intention to return to his family or a whim.

I really let it go. When I faced him, my eyes were calm. I won't be sad because he treats me badly, nor will I be happy because he treats me well. It feels good to be as calm as water.

If you insist on being specific, what my husband means now is that he is the father of my child and my ATM, that's all.

(Narrator: Zou Min)

Conclusion:

Who doesn't want her husband to spoil and live a good life? If not, it can't be forced.

After her husband's infidelity, whether she chooses divorce or insists on marriage, it may be her best choice as long as she can not be an dissatisfied wife.