The birthday cake was filled with textbooks, and the Jiangsu boy broke down and cried. Which behaviors of parents hurt their children the most?

In Jiangsu, when a little boy celebrated his birthday, his parents carefully prepared a birthday cake for the little boy. But what people never expected was that the birthday cake was filled with textbooks, and the little boy After the child saw this situation, he felt very broken, so he burst into tears. In the child's mind, it seemed that the parents were concerned about their grades, and these behaviors of the parents were also very direct, affecting the child's body and mind, which would lead to The child was very uncomfortable. 1. What behaviors of parents can harm their children?

If parents take learning too seriously, it will hurt their children. In the minds of their children, they hope that their parents can focus on themselves, but many parents do not focus on themselves. Focus on children's learning. When you find that your child's academic performance is not particularly good, you will choose to blame the child or insult the child, and whenever you chat with the child, the topic of study will come up, making the child feel very angry. The editor hopes that all parents will pay attention to this situation. We hope that our children will learn well. This is understandable. But we cannot put all our attention on our children's studies. On our children's birthdays, we should make our children happier and not let them always focus on their studies. It can cause very serious harm to the child. 2. How to educate your children?

The editor hopes that all parents will pay attention to the fact that in the process of educating their children, they should give priority to their children's health. This health is not only physical health, but also psychological health. of health. Children's mental health is also very important. If parents always do not pay attention to their children's mental health, they will regret it when their children suffer from depression. In fact, parents also hope that their children can be happier and grow up healthily and happily, so we should not force our children too much at this time. 3. Oneself.

It does not mean that only children who study well can be respected and cared for by their parents. We should also pay more attention to our children, whether they study well or not. Children should be treated with a normal attitude. In this way, the children can feel more joy and reduce some quarrels between the children and their parents.