"Hard work is the least worth showing off."

Text | WeChat official account She Xiaoxian

When I went to sell garbage last night, the uncle who collected garbage chatted and complained that his son's college entrance examination was not ideal and he was worried about going to college.

"I reviewed for a year, but I still did so badly in the exam and didn't work hard at all."

"Where do you see that I don't work hard? The child who is helping to sort out the garbage next to him retorted with a little grievance and embarrassment. "

Uncle, study, sometimes it may be technical work. Sometimes hard work doesn't necessarily have a particularly good effect, I comforted. I also told the child next to me that I hope he won't be too sad because the college entrance examination didn't go well.

Parents are also very sure that the child is heartbroken, and the child did not do well in the exam, but wanted to go to the undergraduate course. It is not uncommon for parents to find people to trust, give gifts and spend money to ask for help.

At this time, looking at these tortured parents is both helpless and distressed.

It also reminds me of my college entrance examination. Although my college entrance examination was not ideal, my parents didn't run around. But because I am a technical major, the tuition is more expensive. In those four years, all the food expenses at home were quietly saved by my mother, for fear that I would not pay enough.

My dad always joked that when I made money, I would pay them back. I said in anger that I would definitely pay them back. And now the truth is: I don't have to spend their money.

Oh, back to trying.

In my senior year, I tried to motivate myself. I bought myself a book, Waiting for You in Tsinghua. In fact, I know very well that this is beyond my power. I just want to see the difference between the students admitted to Tsinghua and our ordinary students.

The content of this book is mainly about the personal experiences of students in Tsinghua, especially the college entrance examination. I still found what they have in common: the hardest-working people may not be admitted to Tsinghua, but those admitted to Tsinghua must be hard-working people, and they also have their own learning methods.

At that time, I was envious and felt useless. At that time, every Sunday, most students would not be idle, and they would brush the questions. I was no exception, and I honestly made the test papers issued by the teachers.

When I went back to school at the weekend, the supervisor asked me if you had done your homework.

"I did part of it, but I didn't finish it. I answered casually. "

"I haven't done it at all. I feel that time flies when I get home! "

I don't study well and don't want to spend time and energy. I didn't mean to say this.

She said, yes, who can work harder than you?

Well, she thought I was showing off my efforts in front of her. Maybe it is.

Students with poor grades will have such questions. Without looking at how he studies, how can he learn so easily and how can his grades be so good?

Sometimes I can't help asking him, and others just say it faintly.

If you believe it, you are really cheated. Everyone who gets good grades can't do without their own efforts, and they all work silently behind their backs, especially in their studies.

If someone asks you the method and secret of success, you say you may be lucky or talented. Do others think you are better?

It's not that they don't want to tell the truth, but that everyone is more willing to admit that others have achieved good results, not because of hard work but because of luck.

Therefore, efforts are the least worth showing off. You say that others don't necessarily believe you, so it's better to make yourself better in silence.

Besides, I worked so hard to get this result. And there are always people who easily have thousands of times my wealth, saying that their efforts will only make them look "stupid."

And blame everything on luck!

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* About the author: A skinny girl born in 1990s, a northern girl, writes with her left hand and lives with her right hand. She is a freelance creator of the legendary "Buddhism". I am the official account of WeChat, and she is Xiaoxian. Thank you for your attention!