What if the boyfriend has no money?

Poverty is not the problem, poverty is.

He doesn't like your rich life because he is poor. You share your daily life with him, and he thinks you are showing off and hurting his self-esteem.

In fact, two people in love can tolerate each other's shortcomings, big or small, but not poverty.

Because poor people always become sensitive because of money problems, even for the purpose of hurting their loved ones.

Such feelings make you cautious and always take care of his feelings, which makes people feel tired and disappointed and loses the sweetness of love.

02

There is a school sister Jingjing, who has been in love with her boyfriend Liu Hao for two years.

After graduation, although her boyfriend was poor, Jingjing didn't care. She must believe that as long as two people work together, life will always be beautiful.

They live together.

If falling in love can let you know a person, then an intimate life will let you know whether he is suitable or not.

Jingjing loves beauty and often buys some beautiful clothes and cosmetics. Her boyfriend thinks she is a loser.

On the issue of getting married and having children, my boyfriend thinks it's better to go back to his hometown and get married. Parents can help with the children without being crowded in a big city, which can save a lot of money.

Jingjing wants a nest of her own. Even though she has no money now, she works hard and is bitter, and she is full of hope for her future life.

In the face of high housing prices and prices in big cities, her boyfriend blames others and feels that she can't afford it, but she doesn't want to entangle, and she is bent on persuading Jingjing to return to her hometown to get married.

Jingjing, no matter how hard she tries, can't save a person who is "poor in heart" and doesn't make progress.

Poverty can be changed. When a person is poor to the bone, he doesn't want to change in the face of an unsatisfactory life. He would rather return to a poor and stable life than try to embrace a better future.

And a person with a rich heart, like a powerful magnetic field, attracts others. All wealth, fame and honor have become insignificant.

03

Wang Xiaobo and Li Yinhe are famous lovers in the literary world. Their love has always been talked about, and the sentence "Hello, Li Yinhe" has become a touching love story.

In fact, at the beginning of their relationship, they did not belong to that kind of optimistic love.

When we first met, Wang Xiaobo pursued Li Yinhe.

But Wang Xiaobo is only a factory worker with a junior high school diploma, while Li Yinhe is a college student and an idol editor of Guangming Daily.

It is this gap that failed to stop Wang Xiaobo's love for Li Yinhe.

After understanding, Li Yinhe often receives letters from Wang Xiaobo:

"Your name is very beautiful. Really, your name alone is enough for me to love for a lifetime. "

Even without a matching diploma and status, facing Wang Xiaobo's naked burning love and confession is enough to move Li Yinhe.

Later, Li Yinhe ignored him because he was ugly. He kept writing to her:

"You should go to the reptile house in the zoo to see if I'm uglier than them ..."

Li Yinhe was finally amused by his humor and the two made up.

Wang Xiaobo didn't give up pursuing Li Yinhe because of the disparity with her identity. On the contrary, Li Yinhe was deeply attracted by his confidence, humor, boldness and talent.

You see, even if you don't have a high face value, a strong background and too much wealth, as long as you don't become empty because of external lack, you can win your beloved person with interesting soul and unique charm.

04

I have heard a saying that love is never humble because of poverty. Humble people are those who are easily changed by poverty and even abandon their love and dreams.

In love, poverty seems to break up many couples, but the problem lies in ourselves.

What if the boyfriend is poor?

If poverty spreads to the heart, penetrates into the bones and becomes a person's nature, then, to a great extent, the concept and attitude of life brought by poverty will accompany you all your life.

Therefore, poverty is not the key, but his heart.