An example of a bad habit, about 100 words.

From the day people are born, all kinds of habits begin to be in people's brains sooner or later. Children don't eat seasoned vegetables, such as onions, ginger and garlic, from eating with adults until she grows into a big girl. This can be said to have become a habit. Others like to sleep on their stomachs since childhood, and everyone has been to "several sheets" or this sleeping position. These two habits are all aspects of life, not good or bad, and have no too bad influence on others and themselves. Some habits can't work, let alone have any influence on others. What they can't stand is that it has been a long time-it not only hinders their progress, but also makes their life path encounter waterloo. According to my observation, I list these habits below. Do you think it makes sense to see if this habit will affect your life, study and work?

First, procrastination. Tell him to come at ten o'clock, and he will definitely come at half past ten. Three days' work always takes four and a half days to finish. I don't know if it's the ability to work or the weak sense of time. Most of such people have no goals in life. They wandered day after day, and unconsciously swayed to the western hills at sunset.

Second, act like a freak. I don't know much, but I always like to show myself. Once, a man boasted in a quiet car that there was no difference between British English and American English. Hearing this, half the people in the car laughed, because there were many people in English class in the car. Isn't this ridiculous and generous? Actually, making people laugh is a trivial matter. The problem is that people who have this hobby are definitely unwilling to learn and just want to show. He is most afraid of being told that he has no knowledge, so what does he want?

Third, I don't want to listen. Life and work are inseparable from communication. Communication is nothing more than you saying people listen or people saying you listen. But some people have a habit that they can only let others listen to themselves, but he seldom listens to others. Once someone says something contrary to him, he immediately answers "I know". It can be said that there is no way to communicate After a long time, this habit must make you self-righteous. The result of self-righteousness is stagnation and eventually defeat yourself.

Fourth, lazy to change. Some people always like to take the old road, showing that they let their temper go and do things the same. In fact, when he was calm, he also knew that he should change, but in details, he surrendered to his habits, such as changing his habit of not loving learning. When it comes to this question, he will have a lot of reasons waiting for you, saying that he can't do it for a while, he will be bored for a while, and he can't keep his feet on the ground now-there is no good time anyway. In a word, my muscles will shrink into a ball after a long time. Beijing people's speech, "take care of your hamstring", means to make you change. There is an advertising slogan "Change is always good". People who don't want to change, I'm afraid there is no way out.

Fifth, it is irreplaceable. Some people always think that their role is extremely great. At home, "kissing" yourself means "what will happen without me in this family" Your family dotes on you, but no one in society dotes on you. There is a saying that he may not have heard of, that is, "whoever leaves the earth will turn back." People with this habit usually lack a sense of crisis. Once the crisis comes, it's too late to cry for territory.

Sixth, please others. I don't know if you have noticed that no matter where you go, there will be such a person. If you don't ask. A mouth is a "New Year greeting". However, people who have this habit have a characteristic, that is, the words of the New Year are all said in front of you without exception-who are you talking about behind your back? As for what's on his mind, no one knows. Not long ago, I saw a report in China Youth Daily. However, I am afraid it is impossible to satisfy everyone. Satisfying everyone means that some people are satisfied and some people are dissatisfied. A versatile person can succeed for a while, but he can't gain power for a lifetime. Once an invulnerable man has mastered his own destiny, failure is his only ending. Be a man or have some principles!

Seventh, whitewash mistakes. It seems impossible for a person not to make mistakes all his life. It is not terrible to make mistakes and have problems. As long as people exist, they can make up for it. However, there is a premise that we should be brave enough to admit our mistakes. I know such a person who has been engaged in speculative business for more than ten years, and he has been planted again and again. Others have reminded him countless times, but I just don't know that it is a common trick to admit mistakes and make excuses. There is really nothing to say, so I made a fuss about people's attitudes. Even if you enlighten him with hard facts, he is a lot of prevarication. You say he doesn't fail and who fails! After more than ten years of hard work, I finally returned to the original point-no, it's better than the original point. Don't forget to owe a debt!

Eighth, haggle over every ounce. Haggle over every ounce with things, not only care about how much compensation, but also care about the attitude of others, and even forget that others have to blame themselves for the year of the donkey. I have met such people. There was a junior high school reunion, which I haven't seen for more than 30 years. It should be very emotional. Who would have thought that words were lovers? Just after the three flavors, I recalled that I was sorry for him. As soon as I heard this, I stopped playing. No wonder this guy doesn't get along. Can he forget his old scores all day?

Ninth, don't use your head. Some people speak and do things without thinking. The newspaper reported many cases of selling fake gold ingots in the street, and the deceived people lacked a string in their minds. Warren Buffett talked about playing the stock market, and one sentence impressed me deeply. He doesn't believe what the newspaper says, only believes in common sense. Some people like to listen to what others say and never use their brains. Just like Song Like Xiao Fei in a TV series, the opening words are "what my mother said" and "what my mother told me" and so on. People who don't think do save a lot of trouble, but with things, the habit of not thinking may cost you dearly.

Tenth, insufficient preparation. Some people are always used to cramming. I have to take an English exam, so I have to stay up late. When he was invited to speak at the meeting, he stood up and stammered out what to say. If you want to evaluate the professional title, please ask for someone else's signature when publishing the article (this is fraud! )。 What did you do in the early days? Isn't there a saying that "opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared"? Usually there is no preparation, especially in terms of talent and psychological quality. How can you succeed when the critical moment comes?

Eleventh, full of fantasy. Some people usually don't practice the skill of "killing the enemy", but when it comes to the last moment, they are full of fantasies. I know a person who doesn't read books or newspapers at ordinary times, and has poor analytical ability and low judgment level, but always wants to show off when doing things. Since you have no strength and want to succeed, the only way is to pin your hopes on unrealistic places, such as "I will succeed if I say success". You know, self-confidence has become a fantasy without foundation, and a fantasy without foundation is unreliable. Others have illusions about their abilities and people, as if people around them, especially leaders, appreciate him very much. However, when unexpected things happen, people who love fantasy often feel caught off guard.

Twelfth, fear of conflict. At work, most people want to do a good job. There is one thing you can't avoid at work, that is, interacting with people. Clothes are divided into five colors, and people are divided into five grades. Once someone is "sorry" to you, fear of things and conflicts often backfires. I have a friend who is so cautious. Although he is the leader of a unit, he still dares not say this or do that. What was the result? The number of people who "bully" him has not decreased because of his "gentleman" demeanor, but has intensified. At noon today, a friend in college told me that she used her summer vacation as an intern in a company, and someone was not very friendly to her. I told her not to take the initiative to provoke, and then do things in a low profile. If you really can't escape, you must face it bravely, otherwise there will be no good life.

Thirteenth, it is easy to be depressed. Some people are always depressed when they encounter difficulties, as if the world is sorry for them. In the unit, you can't blame the leaders for not appreciating, poor academic performance, poor teachers, low income and no prospects for work. These things have accumulated a lot of bad emotions, and it is strange not to be depressed. You know, the world will not change because of you. In other words, when you can't change the world, you should actively adapt to it. Only in this way can you achieve your goal in life.

Fourteenth, dumping garbage. When I say garbage, I mean things that are in a bad mood and have a bad influence on people. Some people like to talk to others as soon as they have something. This kind of conversation is necessary and beneficial. However, once the bad mood becomes normal, you can't adjust yourself without talking, which is a problem. You feel comfortable after saying it, but have you ever thought about others? If you pour out all your complaints or resentment, it will be tantamount to junk mood for others. If you dump garbage on others, your existing friends will leave you and others will stay away from you. What will happen without friends? It's not hard to imagine

Fifth, lack of perseverance. Nothing is easy to do, it takes time and sweat. Edison once said that his success is one percent genius and ninety-nine percent perspiration. However, some people lack this persistent will quality. I have several friends who want to improve their English and ask me for advice. Seeing their sincerity, I told them what to do. In view of past experience, I especially warned them that if they want to succeed, they must persist, but they still didn't persist.