He is addicted to ambiguity, but you are distracted.

If you have a girl you like, don't make other girls laugh. Because one will be jealous and the other will be moved. I have always hated the feeling of ambiguity, but I have to admit that some ambiguity can be addictive.

It's like taking a bite of cotton candy, and it melts in your mouth. That taste is sweet and short.

Someone started a topic discussion on Weibo before. Talk about the unfairness caused by ambiguity.

The comment area was taken in half a minute. It seems that everyone is very sensitive to this topic.

Some people say: I moved my heart, but he left.

Some people say that he suddenly lost news, indulged in it for a while and then saw photos of him holding hands with others in a circle of friends.

Others said: I made many decisions to let go, but I was pulled back by those ambiguous actions. Can't let go, can't get close, and the best feelings are spent in the wandering of picking up and letting go.

Some people even say that everything he says is a joke.

What I saw made me feel bitter and sour.

What I fear most is that at the beginning, he was more serious than anyone else. He learned routines, but it's true to tease you. When you find yourself moving invisibly, he becomes someone else's hero in the blink of an eye.

So: Just because he teases you doesn't mean he likes you. Maybe he was just addicted to ambiguity, but you left.

True love is not a momentary affection, but an impulse to persist in knowing that there is no result. I know it's not easy to meet you, but it's a pity to miss it.

02, the steamed stuffed bun said that she seemed to meet true love, and it was at an activity. The two chatted well and found that their personalities and hobbies were very similar. So, I added the other person's WeChat, and planned to seriously develop the relationship.

The boy's height 182 is very handsome and attractive. The steamed stuffed bun is dull and silly, and it is also the naive appearance of a lovely girl. These two people really match each other in appearance and character. Baozi hasn't been in love for two years. He must be very happy to meet such a high-quality boy.

In the first month, the boys chatted with buns almost every day, and they were far apart, taking great pains. Good night, which is indispensable every day, seems to be a tacit love story.

Boys will also say some ambiguous words intentionally or unintentionally.

For example, steamed stuffed bun coquetry said: Alas, these girlfriends show love every day. When can I find a boyfriend to compare Xiu Xiu with them?

Boys will answer: Come on, rent me. It's free.

The steamed stuffed bun said: It's too hot. I want to watch a movie and eat ice cream.

Boys will say: Come to my house and I will accompany you.

The steamed stuffed bun said: I'm so bored and in a bad mood tonight. I want to hear a cold joke.

Boys will tell cold jokes on the phone all night.

I have played with all kinds of ambiguity, but I have never seriously said: I like you and want to be with you.

But the steamed stuffed bun told me. She is sure that she likes boys. She remembers all his kindness to her.

She told me that she thought the boy liked her, but she kept her mouth shut for fear of rejection.

She also told me that the boy was very kind to her, and she hadn't realized that a boy had been so kind to her for a long time.

She said: Xiaobei, do you think I should confess?

I thought about it and asked her: Is there a time when he didn't want to talk to you? Is there a time when you can't find it?

Have you ever left you when you were frustrated? Think it over.

The steamed stuffed bun was silent. In fact, I know that she has always been very clear.

He doesn't have to be with you all the time. As time goes by, you find that he seems to be less enthusiastic and active than before, but he will still reply to your messages, but the number of teasing you seems to be reduced. You also find that he can be caring and attentive to you in private, but when he has acquaintances, he is more calm and self-controlled than anyone else.

03. Whether a person deserves your life's love is not how good he can be to you when he is free, but how bad he can be to you when he is in a bad mood.

If a person loves you, he will not let you go easily.

I wouldn't have time for you.

I won't back down because I don't want to be with you.

Yes, he may have capital, he has a handsome appearance, and he will put sugar from time to time, but it doesn't matter whether it hurts or not.

Even more often, you will find that he is the same for everyone. For you, for her and even for them.

A person who is addicted to ambiguity must be a person who can easily show that he does not ask for anything in return.

But often this unprovoked flirting doesn't last long until his novelty wears off.

Or he will be indifferent to you when he meets a new goal.

What you need to do is not to make yourself tempted easily, but to remind yourself at all times that his ambiguity is not a drug, and you can't quit if you get it. You can still live well without him. You don't have to go to great lengths to find a topic, and you don't have to accommodate anyone all the time.

I don't know what's wrong with him, and there's no need to pay attention to it. Don't let his insincerity easily involve your emotions.

You should always stay awake, and your world will be fine. You should love yourself. Meet someone who really loves you unconditionally.

04. There's a very popular sentence on the Internet, and I'd like to take this opportunity to give it to you:

Some people appear in your life just to tell you that you are gullible.

Who says women chase men unless they have a crush on you? Otherwise it's basically barbed wire.

Maybe it's just that he is addicted to ambiguity and you are distracted. Kindness is useless. You must be beautiful.

The way you never let go is actually ugly. People who like you didn't reply to your message. I suggest you turn it off. He won't come back anyway, which saves electricity.

Sometimes what you need is not a bowl of chicken soup, but a slap.

Don't memorize routines for too long. Don't worry that those who tease you are just addicted to ambiguity. Don't lose your mind easily.

A broken love story: Maybe he is just addicted to ambiguity, and you have lost your mind.

1, life sometimes needs to be brave, brave enough to love, be brave to hate, then be brave to forget and go forward.

No matter how deeply you are hurt, there will always be someone who forgives all the difficulties brought by your previous life.

No matter how much pain you have experienced, you will eventually forget it. Because nothing can beat time.

Maybe he is just addicted to ambiguity, but you are distracted.

5, love is two people forever, not one person's wishful thinking.

6, love must be the premise of marriage, and cherish, is a necessary obsession.

7. Companionship is the longest confession. Save time for the people you love. Your company is the best gift.

8. Choose people who are in step with you. If not, go alone.

9. There are people in this world who think too much but can't, and love but can't. Therefore, it's very valuable that all shall be well that ends well.

10 Someone once said that when you stop to think about whether you love someone, it means that you no longer love him.

1 1. If someone is kind to you, remember not to lose that person.

12, if love is destined to wait, then, because of true love; Because it's hopeless; Because the poisoning is deep. So I will wait, no matter how long it takes, no matter how it ends.

13, there are many reasons not to love in the world, busy, tired, inappropriate, for your own good, and there is only one reason to love, that is, to be with you.

14, don't help others, hurt yourself, learn to reject others and respect their rejection.

15, in the face of love, it doesn't matter. But after all, you just won your self-esteem and lost your love. The arrival of love is always unexpected, and the story between you, the beginning and the end, has never been his call. If we can't let go of the past and the present, everyone will get old, and time will not stay for anyone or any reason.

Very thoughtful WeChat inspirational talk: Maybe he is just addicted to ambiguity, but you are distracted.

1, maybe he is just addicted to ambiguity, but you are distracted.

Someone once said that when you stop to think about whether you love someone, it means that you no longer love him.

3. In the face of love, it doesn't matter. But after all, you just won your self-esteem and lost your love. The arrival of love is always unexpected, and the story between you, the beginning and the end, has never been his call. If we can't let go of the past and the present, everyone will get old, and time will not stay for anyone or any reason.

No matter how much pain you have experienced, you will eventually forget it. Because nothing can beat time.

5, if love is destined to wait, then, because of true love; Because it's hopeless; Because the poisoning is deep. So I will wait, no matter how long it takes, no matter how it ends.

6. Life sometimes requires courage, courage to love, courage to hate, then courage to forget and courage to move on.

7, love must be the premise of marriage, and cherish, is a necessary obsession.

8. Love is the eternal life of two people, not one's wishful thinking.

9. Choose people who are in step with you. If not, go alone.

10, if someone is kind to you, remember never to lose that person.

1 1. No matter how deeply you are hurt, there will always be someone who will make you forgive all the difficulties caused by life before.

12, don't help others, hurt yourself, learn to reject others and respect their rejection.

13, there are many reasons not to love in the world, busy, tired, inappropriate, for your own good, and there is only one reason to love, that is, to be with you.

14, there are too many people in this world who want but can't, but love can't. Therefore, it's very valuable that all shall be well that ends well.

15, companionship is the longest confession. Leave time to the person you love, and your company is the best gift.

Are you happy after you left me? You are addicted to ambiguity, and I am distracted by my kidney.

The terrible thing is that you are distracted carelessly, and the other party is afraid when they see you distracted. Always remind yourself to protect yourself and don't let yourself be distracted.

Most women are like this. They didn't pay attention to it at first, but gradually they got involved. At this time, men always pull away mercilessly. There are too many such stories.

I met a man who took good care of me. I can't live without him. Without him, I feel that life is meaningless, but I am not the only one who is warm-hearted and ambiguous to all girls, and I am also obsessed with my ex. I forgave him again and again, gave him opportunities again and again, and finally failed to change him.

Almost! I am even worse! Didn't buy me anything. We did this for three or four months. Later, I became the initiative. At first, it was just a game, and I left my heart.

The person you don't know is definitely not true to you. Make a clean break and break up early.

In fact, the relationship between this lady and this man can be seen at a glance. As we all know, men actually think with their lower bodies. After the man tasted it, he felt that it was not his favorite taste, or that it was a disgusting taste. Then he ran away.

Don't take the so-called ambiguity as your love pastime. If you love, please love deeply. If you don't like to leave. . Stay away from love rat. The purpose of a non-engagement party is to play hooligans.

People who really love you won't hurt you. Stay away from scum.

Let go, it is true that he no longer loves you, but he has a new love.

There are many love rat in the world, and I have seen them. Forget it, there's no need to shed tears for such people. Live a good life by yourself.

Like me, we have been together for more than a year, but I didn't expect him to leave without saying anything. After all I've done for him, I finally didn't even get a chance to meet and say goodbye. Today, we have been apart for a month 18 days, and there is no contact. He left without saying a word. He came to provoke me at first, but it's not a pity that an irresponsible person left.

How can there be so many such people? Girls are still too easily moved, but the one I met is ok. I may think I am too simple and kind to hurt, so I will stop in time to avoid getting into trouble.

Like is one person's business, love is two people's business. Love is deep love, but as long as he is good, I am good.

I know such a love rat, and our feelings are suspicious. I always spoil him, love him and think of him everywhere. I seem to be his, but he shows love to others in front of me and insults and hurts me by various means. It is obvious that he provoked me first, but I can't leave me alone. Let's leave decisively.

I met him. He played dumb and asked me what everything meant. I really fell in love with him and gave me good memories, but now I have kept my distance. Thanks to his indifference, I woke up.

From the moment he spoke, he had already lost. He was having an affair, but he was distracted.

Probably many mushrooms will meet one or two such men, and I will meet more than one, and it may be really stupid, so I will have the same problem and muddle along. Fortunately, I still have the ability to love others. After searching, I will eventually meet the right person.

It's just about picking up girls, and once I get it, I'm not interested in you. So the girls polished their eyes.

People who really love you won't hurt you unless everything is hypocritical.

I also tried to change him, and as a result, I was hurt all over and broke up with him! I'm not in a bad mood

Some people can't keep their hearts, so don't worry. It doesn't matter whether they are or not.

In love, the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear, which is quite right. Time will tell us what is true and what is false.