What if someone slanders me?

In life, we often hear all kinds of rumors. However, some rumors are just hearsay, and some rumors are deliberately created by good people. For example, girls have repeatedly banned and created yellow rumors. Don't always think that a straight body is not afraid of crooked shadows. In fact, rumors are very harmful. So how should we fight back when colleagues make rumors in order to protect ourselves from harm?

First of all, we should keep calm.

In the face of rumors, we may feel uneasy, angry and even panic, which is normal. However, when rumors happen to us, we should be more calm, and we panic. In fact, the more you like to watch rumors, the more they may hide in a dark corner and watch our jokes. Therefore, it is important to remain calm in the face of rumors.

Second, follow the trail and find out rumors.

After the rumor occurs, it is necessary to analyze and observe it according to the existing conditions, comprehensively deal with it, try to find out the behind-the-scenes hand of the rumor maker, grasp the evidence, wait for an opportunity to turn the enemy into a friend, and arrest the rumor maker.

Third, don't explain too much.

Some people think this explanation is a cover-up At this time, the more you try to clarify yourself, the worse the result will be. Rumors can only make rumors dissipate over time. If your colleagues believe in rumors, it means that your colleagues are too low-level and have no judgment at all. Are you willing to pester such colleagues all day? If you struggle with people who don't even understand the most basic judgment, it also means that your level is too poor. It is excusable for others to slander you.

Fourth, learn to observe and talk less.

He who talks too much will lose. The more you talk, the more people you offend. The best way is to observe attentively, smile more and talk less. But it can be a "blockbuster" at a critical time.

Fifth, bravely show the cards to the rumor mongers.

When we find out the rumor monger, no matter how powerful he is, we should show our cards on the table. We should understand that it is illegal to spread rumors, and we don't need to be afraid of him. We can find the rumor monger, negotiate with righteous words and ask him to stop spreading rumors, stand up and clarify the facts and apologize. If the other party doesn't listen, we must not let go.

Sixth, deal with it by legal means.

Some rumors are hidden, and it is difficult for us to find out how to investigate them, or the other party turns a deaf ear to our reasonable demands and continues to intensify rumors. At this time, you should call the police and protect your legitimate rights and interests by legal means.

To sum up, don't compromise in the face of rumors, but bravely take up legal weapons to counter rumors. If compromise and concession can bring peace, then why are so many victims injured because of retrogression?