Can people who are reluctant to eat and drink all their lives be happy? Why?

I don't think I will be happy if I don't want to eat or drink all my life.

It happened that I was reluctant to eat or drink around me. They belong to a friend's family and do house decoration, which belongs to the family business, because all five people in the family do decoration. I mentioned it when I was drinking and chatting with a friend. He complained to me about the stupidity of his parents and brothers and sisters.

Why is this? House decoration, it is estimated that most people have seen that kind of environment, not only dirty, but also very smelly. Because they have better resources and considerable income, they should exceed the well-off level. Because he drank a lot, he kept talking. He just went on working and put the money in the bank. He knows nothing about travel enjoyment. Sometimes they rent a house far away, because eating out is more expensive. Every time you rent a house, it's the worse kind; For example, once in Guangzhou, I rented a room without sunshine, and the rent was 100 yuan. I happened to have been there at that time, and the environment was really unbearable.

Life is short, eat, drink and be merry, and don't waste a lot of good time.

It is understandable that parents' generation was reluctant to eat and drink, because the social situation at that time made them turn the habit of saving into nature. For health, we should eat and drink.

But in modern times, I don't think it is necessary to be reluctant to eat and drink. Eating and drinking well will make you more motivated to earn money.

Happiness cannot be constant by eating and drinking.

My mother is an old woman in the countryside, and she is unwilling to eat or wear. She was born before liberation, and her grandfather died of illness when she was ten years old. My mother raised five brothers and sisters by herself, so it goes without saying how hard life is. Later, my mother married my father and gave birth to four brothers and sisters. Our family was poor. My mother can only continue to scrimp and save. Although my mother is reluctant to eat and drink, she is not vague about the cost of our four brothers and sisters going to school. At that time, most girls in rural areas were not allowed to go to school. We all spend money to go to school, and there is no labor force at home to earn work points, and the family is even poorer. Others laughed at my mother: boys only need to recognize two words when they go to school, so poor girls deserve to be poor when they study. As long as their children can read and write at school, they won't complain that she won't let them go to school again, and her mother is willing and doesn't care what others say. Our poor mother doesn't eat or drink by herself, but she will try her best to make our brother and sister eat better. When relatives, friends or neighbors come home, her mother always takes out the best hospitality at home.

Now that the conditions are good, my brothers and sisters have their own companies and do wholesale business in the provincial capital. My brothers and sisters give our parents thousands of dollars every month, but my mother is still reluctant to eat and drink, and the rest of the money is spent on her grandson. When we talked about her, my mother always said happily, "Look at you all, your grandchildren have a future, and I am happy without eating or drinking."

Years ago, my brother added his grandson's mother as his great-grandmother, and our family lived under the same roof for four generations. My mother was so happy that she kept smiling all day. Although my mother is reluctant to eat or drink, I think my mother is very happy.

Happiness varies from person to person. Some people live a long life cautiously because their family income is not high and they don't eat or drink. As the saying goes, "you can't eat or wear, and you can't count as a generation of poverty."

There is a family in our village. Husband's decoration income is higher than that of ordinary families. Daughter-in-law is delicious and ugly, and only buys expensive clothes to wear. Almost all the clothes of a family are disposable. The word penniless is the most appropriate word in the family now. In rural areas, automobile construction is no longer common. Quite a few families bought houses in Licheng. The old house they built fifty years ago collapsed a few years ago, and now the family lives in the old house next door.

Some families have low incomes, while others have a good life.

Some people have a high income and know how to cherish happiness. Fu Bao is like a deposit in a bank. If you can't save it, the money will be spent slowly. Enjoy the blessings slowly and happiness will come to you.

My mother-in-law is a typical rural woman. When her husband went to college, she left her hometown to work in Shanghai. Now he is less than 50 years old and earns more than six or seven thousand yuan a month. In my husband's words, my mother-in-law saved 500,000 yuan on her monthly income and bought her an auction house in Nanjing before the house price soared. My mother-in-law is a person who stays in Shanghai and wants to live a decent life. She also wants to have what others have, but she is still worried about the price, and always "form is more important than quality", but she finally lived the "decent" she wanted. I still can't bear to eat or drink when I go home for the New Year every year, and the leftovers of the New Year can be eaten until the sixth day of the Lunar New Year. The water heater at home is reluctant to use hot water, and it also uses cold water to wash vegetables and dishes in winter. I really don't agree with some living habits, but I never dare to instill my ideas into her. Different living environments have created everyone's living habits. At least her mother-in-law's annual savings make her feel confident. And those of us who are fed up by women every day, don't be wronged by their chicken soup, take out loans, swipe credit cards, and sometimes want to change but are unable to change because of terrible habits, or continue to live under pressure. Happiness? Maybe we are used to our own life and everyone is happy.

Mr. Lu Xun once said: "The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected", so you should never think about things from your own perspective. Standing in different positions in life will have different feelings, let alone happiness. I don't think being reluctant to eat and drink has much to do with being happy or unhappy, but just having different values ~ People who are reluctant to eat and drink are happy because of their spiritual wealth ~ I believe everyone will have their own set of standards for "happiness", which varies from person to person. Everyone's satisfaction is very different ~ when I was a child, I didn't eat hot pot and didn't eat too many snacks. I remember when I came back from home, my parents would always buy me candied fruits and crisp candy. I didn't realize until now that in fact, the most precious things in the world may always be free ~ I don't expect anything in return, such as the love I brought back from the market, and now I travel far away, and I can see my parents' expectant eyes and waiting at the gate every time I go home ~ I think this is my happiness ~

My classmates and I got married in a village. Her husband and mine are classmates. As long as her husband is not at home, her two sons have hardly bought meat. She said she didn't like it, but I felt sorry for the children. Father is not at home, so he can't even eat meat. The eldest son is eleven years old, and he is reluctant to buy a pair of shoes with more than sixty yuan. The point is that she hasn't gone out to work to earn money. In fact, the two sons are under great pressure in the countryside. And her mother is young and willing to take care of the children. In this way, she is still willing to stay at home, relying on her husband to earn five or six thousand a month and work less than ten months a year. I really can't figure out whether she can't bear to eat or wear. Is this life stressful?

The phrase' people who are reluctant to eat and drink all their lives' mostly refers to the older generation. In their minds, happiness means not worrying about food and clothing, family harmony and children and grandchildren. In their time, frugality was the most basic happiness. Nowadays, many young people say that we should eat, drink and be merry in time, because we never know which comes first, tomorrow or accident. Therefore, we think that the greatest happiness of people is to enjoy life to the fullest within a limited time, eat whatever they want, wear whatever they want, don't worry too much about the future life, and just live the present. However, there are still many people who don't like this lifestyle. They scrimped and saved all their lives, so we have been thinking, will they really be happy like this? Reluctance to eat and drink is nothing more than saving more money for the younger generation, so don't worry about the days when there is no money. Therefore, happiness has different definitions in everyone's mind. In short, scrimp and save, enjoy yourself and don't forget who you are. Because each of us is unique, fortunately, happiness is only known to ourselves and cannot be understood by others. Finally, I want to say that there are thousands of ways to be happy. No one stipulates what to do to be happy. Just do what you like. But we still have to grasp the present and live every day carefully, so that we won't regret this happiness when we are old.

People of the older generation were afraid of poverty in that era when economic and material supplies were scarce! I come from a hard life. I am responsible and thrifty for my family and children. Manage the good days, don't borrow or pay back, and maintain dignity. That is happiness! Happiness is that simple!

Now some young people, moonlight clan, pursue personal enjoyment and spend money like water. Staying up late, drinking too much, overeating, being in debt, and being desperate for waste, I don't know how happy this attitude and way of life is.

If you are poor, you will not be old, and you should leave room for your limited income. Any accident can happen. You won't be in a hurry if you have savings. Everyone has an emergency. It doesn't need money to support the elderly, raise children and build a family. Responsibility makes us disciplined and rigorous. White tea and rice, thick clothes and thick cloth make people calm, healthy and healthy.

Life doesn't need to be vigorous, and a dull life can also get happiness. Family safety and health is the greatest happiness. Just like jasmine, the small color is light, but its fragrance is endless! '

Can people who are reluctant to eat and drink all their lives be happy? Of course not, otherwise happiness will be halved!

The composition of people's happiness in life comes from spiritual life and material life, and eating and drinking is the main content of material life. How can life be happy without this piece?

To put it bluntly, people who are reluctant to eat and drink all their lives are the "stupidest people" in this world! Hard-earned money, reluctant to spend, even reluctant to eat and drink, what is the point of making money? Only by spending money can we realize the value of money and bring enjoyment to people. The endless money is just a piece of paper marked with money. Once you don't use it, it is completely "waste paper", which means nothing to you. There are many such examples. Some people have worked hard all their lives, not eating or drinking, and are reluctant to spend money. In the end, people lost (old or left because of illness or disaster) but left a lot of money. Isn't this a kind of sorrow for them? People are lost and money is gone, which should be the "saddest" thing in this world!

Of course, there is another situation where eating and drinking is not good, but it is not reluctant to eat and drink, but lack of money. Money is a hard commodity. Without it, there is no way. "If you don't have a penny, you will be stumped by the hero."

Therefore, if you have no money, you can't eat or drink well, and you can only be helpless. But being rich and reluctant to eat and drink will only be a kind of stupidity!

People! Life is only a few short decades, so it must be better. Never "save" money, what to earn and what to spend! Be the master of money, never be the slave of money! Always think: earn if you don't have money, spend if you have money, and the value of money should be reflected in the improvement of life, not: save, save! The result is that the number on the certificate of deposit is getting bigger and bigger, but it doesn't mean anything to you. In the end, once you don't use it, it is just a piece of "waste paper" with numbers written on it. What a sad thing! What a pity!

People! Still have to wake up early, wake up early! Don't paint the lake to the end!

People who are reluctant to eat and drink all their lives prove that they are thrifty and do not feel happy when they eat and drink ideologically. In ancient times, Eddie Peng Yuyan of Hengshan, Hunan Province was an official in the DPRK, and his simple life alarmed the emperor. The emperor gave him fields, Maggie and a courtyard. He resolutely refused and said: not too much land, enough to maintain life; Delicacies and delicacies are not envied, but eating enough is enough; A delicate and beautiful wife doesn't want to be virtuous; Carving beams and painting buildings is not greedy, and it is enough to cover the wind; Son need not be clever, filial piety is enough! So don't eat and drink, eat and drink, eat and drink, delicacies, beer and skittles is happiness. Happiness is an idea. Ordinary people are not greedy, which proves that they are moral, kind, thoughtful and have a good reputation. Not greedy, family life is also harmonious, filial piety to Sun Xian, all virtuous circle, great happiness in it!