After marrying a foreigner, he regarded me as a fertility tool.

After marrying a foreigner, he regarded me as a fertility tool.

I read a report yesterday: An Israeli woman in her forties has been out of control since she gave birth to her first child at the age of 2 1. In the past 2 1 year, she gave birth to 18 children, which is called "the highest biological mother in Israel". According to statistics, in the past 2 1 year, this woman spent 14 years in pregnancy. Surprisingly, although there are enough children at home to form two baseball teams, the fertile woman and her husband even plan to have the 19 th child.

After reading this report, I suddenly felt speechless. As the mother of the child, I don't know whether to show my admiration for the great mother with a thumbs-up or extend my warm hand to show my sympathy. Do they have so many children just to prove that they have superhuman fertility? Does this mother take giving birth as a career that she is proud of all her life? It's unimaginable! Without going into the social background and family reality of this news for the time being, can't we say that women are just fertility tools just for the sake of giving birth to 2 1 8 children?

If the above examples are only unique wonders of underdeveloped countries, what are the similar cases in China, where China's economy is developing steadily, family planning work is becoming more standardized and gender equality is pursued? Right beside me, there is such a poor woman. Her name is Fang. She was only 26 when she first came to our construction site. She has been married for seven years, but she is already the mother of two children. The eldest daughter is seven years old and lives in her sister's primary school. The youngest daughter is only ten days old. She followed Fang to the construction site with bad living environment.

In the eyes of our post-80s girls, women should be the most delicate and happiest during pregnancy and confinement. Usually a few people wait on them and enjoy meticulous care, because I just had such a wonderful time not long ago.

But how did we spend Fang's month? Ten days after giving birth, we took the bag with our husband and ran away from home. Although her biological parents and husband were around, she did not enjoy any treatment that should be exclusive to maternity. There is no taboo in the month, and blowing a wind and cold water outside is no different from ordinary people, that's all. I am young and healthy, and I don't understand. I think I can do it, but I have to help my parents and husband cook and wash clothes every day. The only thing my dear mother does for her is to take her home to eat when she buys food for the canteen every morning. My parents took a bath early after work and went out for a walk. My husband lost his job after work and went to the poker table, which was crowded. Lonely mother-in-law never calls to say hello, let alone take care of her. The baby-sitting, changing diapers, taking a bath and other things are all thrown to Fang. If the child is hungry and crying, don't let her husband hear it, so as not to get another batch: "It's so annoying, hold it open!"

Mom and several other old people looked at Fang's pitiful appearance or gave her a hand. After getting familiar with her and frequent communication, we realized that her birth history was not that simple. The newborn is actually her fifth child, and the second child is also a daughter. A few days after her birth, she gave it to a distant relative, and she didn't take any money, just paid the nutrition fee during pregnancy. The third and fourth child grew up in the belly for seven months, and found an acquaintance to do a B-ultrasound and said it was a daughter, so he gave up and continued to give birth. It took hundreds of dollars to induce labor, and they were distressed for a long time. The fifth daughter was born at home and didn't cost a penny. It is said that it was because the B-ultrasound doctor misjudged that it was a boy that she left this seedling and let her walk on Yangguan Road. I heard that Fang left us with a big belly and gave birth to a daughter, which was given to a bigger family, and also received thousands of dollars in maternity compensation, which was profitable; Now I'm preparing for my next baby.

Alas, I estimate that if God doesn't give Fang a boy in time, her birth record in this life is likely to exceed that of the most prolific Israeli mother. If I hadn't seen it with my own eyes and heard it with my own ears, I would definitely think it was just a tear-jerker trick on TV. It's outrageous to meet people. At the same time, I feel sorry for A Fang, and I feel wronged for her, and for the mothers who are suffering like this in China. How sad! Just for a boy, a woman will suffer such extraordinary crimes and unconsciously become a fertility tool without any emotional color!

After thousands of years of feudal thought, I thought I was truly liberated, liberated, and born the same boy and girl. But I didn't expect that in the eyes of my elders, as a modern civilized person who advocates new ideas and concepts, I was still stuck in the quagmire of having a boy. How many mothers are blessed, and their sons will be honored when they give birth to their first child, and enjoy the kindness of their families and husbands because of their precious children; How many fathers, grandparents who are happy to have your son and great-grandchildren, sigh in a tone of standing and talking? In fact, they think that men and women are the same, but they never know that their duplicity is shattered glass; How many women wander at the door of the abortion room, making life and death choices for whether to pay for the baby girl in the womb; How many women who have been left out by the bedside have just given birth to their daughters; How many death squads like Fang who don't stop giving birth to boys are hiding in some corner of the world?

Poor woman, you don't know how great you are, so great that one person can continue the incense; How capable you are, you can lose all the students in science; How tolerant are you, tolerant enough to bear all the responsibility for not having a boy, although this is not your will. Because you can't have a boy, you must look at the cold face of your elders, endure the unreasonable indifference of your husband, and accept the sharp sympathy of a third party.

I really don't understand. Is it really that important to have a boy? Is it true that only boys can inherit and carry forward the great achievements of the family? It is understandable that rich people are afraid of being laughed at, but how can a poor family like A Fang survive even if it gives birth to a boy? Isn't there so many glamorous women in the world who are also starting their brilliant careers and holding up half the sky of that woman hand in hand?

I am glad that I live in an enlightened family and married an equally enlightened husband. Although I only gave birth to one daughter, I didn't encounter visions or be forced to have another son. We can care for our little princess with all our love and live a noble life like those little boys. Unlike those little boys, we don't have the pressure to inherit the family business. We can have our own ideals and grow up carefree in our own way.

My husband also regards me as a fertility tool. He forced me to have three children, fortunately, it was abroad, otherwise it was super life. Well, I've never liked being a lively nanny. I really regret marrying abroad. Decomposition is that my husband still wants me to have children, saying that he has economic conditions, and even said that he wants me to have more than a dozen children to form an intensive class.

I don't know how many years it will take to get rid of the deep-rooted pedantic thoughts in parents' thoughts, and women can really walk side by side with men on the same track of life, not just fertility tools, but consumer goods attached to men. I hope this time is as short as possible.