What's it like to have a foreign boyfriend and girlfriend in college?

? University is an all-encompassing place, with students from all corners of the country, and even foreigners often see it. Although it is a pity that there is no foreign boyfriend in college, my friend once had such a perfect foreign boyfriend. I often ask her how she feels. To sum up, I would like to make the following points:

? 1, novelty. After all, he is a different race from us. When you are alone with him and close to him, you will find, wow, his body hair is golden, too! Wow, his eyes are so beautiful blue! Wow, he is so white! Well, why are his pores so thick! It's just that new discoveries are made all the time. We are all new to each other, because it is very novel to meet too many yellow people like us and occasionally meet a white person.

? 2. vanity is satisfied. Although there are foreigners in universities, there are not many. In China's universities, China people still account for a relatively large proportion. Therefore, following a foreign boyfriend on the road often attracts many people's attention, and the rate of turning around is 90%, if not 100%. After all, as we all know, people in China like to watch the novelty and enjoy the fun. Therefore, at this time, holding the hand of a foreign boyfriend in everyone's eyes is estimated to be similar to walking the red carpet in Cannes. In short, it is particularly satisfying.

3. A sense of collision. Yes, it is a sense of collision, a sense of collision of thoughts. As we all know, every country's culture and customs are different, and the gap between East and West is still very huge. So when people from two different countries get together, they will have many different views on discussing things and three views, and then we will constantly collide with each other's ideas, constantly absorb other people's excellent ideas, and innovate our past imperfections. My friend told me that she learned a lot of new things and became more tolerant and receptive to new things because of her foreign boyfriend.

? 4. No sense of security. There are two kinds of insecurity here: 1, because of the opposite sex. As we all know, foreigners are more strict with friends of the opposite sex than we in China, because China people are more conservative. In addition, many girls want to get close to my friend's foreign boyfriend because of curiosity and competitiveness, and want everyone to see that she also knows foreign handsome guys. Beautiful girls who have been rushing forward and backward are really insecure. 2. Because of the future. Although her boyfriend said that she would stay in China in the near future, remember that this is the near future. Outsiders don't have a strong sense of region or clan, and they prefer to leave when they say they leave. But girls in China can't. Girls in China like stability. So for the future, it's really erratic and has no landing.

I have a foreign boyfriend who has a lot of experience, but he is also very sad when he finally has to break up.