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Why do some old couples now have a supportive relationship, but their relationship is not as good as that of a stranger?

The same house, different rooms, the same room, different beds, the same bed, different quilts, the same quilt back to back. These are all used to describe a bad relationship between a couple.

An emotional expert once concluded that in the process of helping each other and supporting each other through life. The couple wanted to strangle each other at least 200 times. Because we have lived together for a long time, the strengths and weaknesses of each other are clear to each other. In the process of interpersonal communication, due to insufficient communication, we often think that the other party will act and handle problems according to our own ideas. If we talk too much, quarrels will occur. , when there is a quarrel, you will not take into account the other party's emotions, and say some words to attack the other party. When the relationship is broken, you have to live together, and enter the cold war. ?

It takes ten years to cross the same boat, and a hundred years to sleep on the same pillow. This describes the fate of a couple. But in the old society, many couples got married first and fell in love later. Marriages were arranged by parents and introduced by matchmakers. Many of them only met once when they got married, so there were many personality differences. However, there were also many couples who grew old together. , harmonious. The most important thing is the attitude of two people towards marriage.

Just like a sentence circulating on the Internet recently, it is very true. There are many couples nowadays. They are husband and wife during the day, colleagues at home, and brothers at night. Although it is a joke, it also shows that many couples have problems. , just because of children, family, and friends.

Husbands and wives help each other when they are together, not two people who are competitive. Who knows that this is no longer the old society where the woman takes the lead inside and the man takes over the outside, but the couple should also divide the labor reasonably, and the children's Educational issues, parents’ lives! My own family expenses! etc! Just do it and cherish it! Being together is really a kind of fate, but you have to wait until the fate is gone before you regret it.

Finally, I would like to borrow a line from Xing Ye’s movie for everyone: There was once a true love in front of me, but I didn’t cherish it. I only regretted it when I lost it. It’s the most painful thing in the world. Nothing could be further from this. If God gives me a chance again, I will say to that girl "I love you". If I had to add a time limit to this love, I hope it would be ten thousand years.

I wish all couples to live in harmony and grow old together.