My daughter-in-law said bad things about me behind my back, how should I deal with it?

The first thing I want to talk about is whether you can learn to let go. His son is already married, and adults need to have their own independent thinking and abilities, so his daughter-in-law is also a member of his family. To their family, you are just an elder or a guest! Why do you want to go to your son's house? Could it be that he is worried about what his son can do? Or are you worried about your son's ability to do things? Or are you worried about your daughter-in-law? If not, then why do you often go to your son's house?

In fact, you should understand your son-in-law. They have just entered your home and don’t know you very well, so of course they like to find someone familiar to help them. The best choice is your mother, that is, your in-laws. This is understandable. If you feel that she is speaking ill of you behind your back, is this what you heard or did your son tell you unintentionally? Mainly because of your words, you can ignore them. If you were serious, you would put your son in a dilemma, wouldn't you say?

You should still be grateful to your daughter-in-law. She asked your in-laws to help take care of the children, which is also very good. You will have more time to do the things you want to do, such as traveling, learning a major, even if it is square dancing, you still have time. Otherwise, you can only bring your grandchildren to the square, don’t you think? If you think about it this way, shouldn't you feel that your daughter-in-law is feeling sorry for you? I don’t want you to be so tired, don’t you think?

When a family is together, they should be considerate of each other and live in harmony, and should not keep it in their hearts just because someone said a bad word. This is not conducive to the harmony of the family, and is not conducive to the son and his wife. Handling the relationship between daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law.