What is the psychology of girls' WeChat blackening boys? How is it different from deleting?

1. In the past, a boy added me to WeChat to chat with me. At first, the chat was ok. Later, he said that he liked me, often sent me messages to invite me to dinner, or said that he would support me, and so on. I didn't like him. He said these things and only disgusted me. Gradually, he ignored him and didn't reply to his messages. I thought that he wouldn't bother me by chatting with me. I didn't expect that he still often sends some words that miss me, and finally I deleted him. It was because this person made me hate it that I deleted it.

2. When quarreling and breaking up with my boyfriend, I will initially put him in a dark room for a few days in anger, and then remove him from the blacklist, because I want to receive his information and hope for reconciliation, but I will not take the initiative to contact him. I myself think that women are so capricious and indecisive that they will suffer if they are constantly interrupted.

In short, you can't bear to delete people you still like and care about. If you are blacklisted, there is still hope of seeing the light of day.

If they are lovers, for example, many people don't understand: Why do some girls choose to blacken their partners after breaking up, instead of deleting WeChat friends?

In fact, if a person is blacked out on WeChat, this person will quietly lie on his own WeChat blacklist, but anyone who goes back on his word can still get the other person back. This shows that this girl still wants to keep the memory between you. It also shows that even if she finally chooses to break up, this girl still loves you so much.

But once deleted, all the WeChat records are gone, and there is no way to add the other party back.

mainly to test the sense of security. Even though you have been together for a long time, she still doesn't trust men's feelings for her. After a little quarrel, I want to delete the other party's WeChat and refuse to communicate. In fact, her starting point is just to want a man to coax her. If a man is willing to coax her, it shows that this man still loves her very much, and she will feel safe again. The original intention of deleting your WeChat may just be to test each other's feelings for themselves.

To put it simply, in the eyes of these girls, blackening may just be a sign of the cold war. And completely deleting friends is the sign of starting over.

1 is it an appointment for some people whether they know or not? Beauty, beauty date? Beauty, send a photo ... what, is the beauty your mother or something, it's up to you?

2. Ignorant, pretending to be confused with understanding. When my sister has clearly indicated that she wants to sleep and wants to stop this chat, you still keep saying that it's no wonder that people have blacked you out. In fact, I advise you not to be too enthusiastic when chatting with girls, which will really arouse girls' disgust, and try not to ask sensitive topics when you are not familiar with girls, especially how big your breasts are. Things like that are really vulgar!

3. Every day is the same as the census. How many people are there in the family after turning their circle of friends upside down? Are you engaged in pyramid schemes or checking accounts? How many people in my family are none of your business? Psycho.

4. What does the circle of friends do for purchasing and selling insurance? Every day, the circle of friends swipes the screen, and also chases the girl to ask her to buy insurance, so that her circle of friends likes comments. Are we familiar with each other? You want me to do this for you? I'm your errand boy?

5. Obviously, it's different. You don't say whether we are right or wrong. You still have to impose your theory on me. Let's put it in that bad sentence. It's like saying that the sea is beautiful, but you say that many people have died. Who are you ruining?

6. It's really bad to pretend that rich people go out to eat and have aa system when they obviously have no money!

7. There is also the kind that you have to pretend that you know only two points. I don't have any ink in my stomach, so I have to come out and show off. Really, it's really low to teach an axe in front of my sister without her high level!

8. I usually like to watch some dirty jokes that are not offline, and I also call it adjusting the chat atmosphere to adjust your head! Do I need you to tell dirty jokes to make me laugh? Sorry, it only makes me feel queasy.

1. I'm simply not interested in you

2. In fact, in a nutshell, I have to talk with others when I'm not that familiar, which is similar to asking people how many men they have had when chatting with their families for the first time, and why things are sad ...

3. The disadvantages of criticizing girls at random. Suppress people when they don't attract each other, but also hit the most painful place. Don't be proud, be careful to be deleted.

4 negative comments, interpretations and negative energy. Chatting with girls often talks about how prices have gone up again, and people are in a bad mood. When they say a word, they give a negative explanation. < P > This kind of thing will often appear in our lives.

Most of the reasons why a girl hacked your WeChat are because your words and deeds hurt her and made her angry, or because you had a quarrel, she was so angry that she wanted to calm down and didn't want you to disturb her for the time being. I also want to give you a small punishment to make you realize the seriousness of the problem.

At this time, she needs practical actions to comfort her.

The problem of deletion may be more serious. This usually happens when this girl is in a desperate attitude towards you, or at that moment, she even feels that she doesn't love you anymore. In her eyes, you have violated her bottom line, unforgivable and unforgivable.

At this time, she just needs to be really quiet. The more you coax her, the more she will dislike you. What can be done is to wait a few days for her mood to recover, and then sincerely apologize.

To sum up, blacking out is a normal rational behavior, and saving

deleting it directly is a kind of decisiveness to you after you are completely disappointed. It can be saved, but it costs more than Lahey's.

There are some differences between blacking out and deleting. Deleting may be a moment of anger, and girls lose their temper. It is also common to delete friends through WeChat. Generally, you can apply through friends soon.

Blacking out is a relatively decisive practice, and I don't want to give you a chance to add friends.

I think so. After all, I'm not a girl.

I believe everyone has encountered similar situations. Maybe you have been blacked out, blacked out by others, deleted by others, and deleted by others. But for different relationships, the psychology of blacking out or deleting the other party is different.

If someone is blacked out, they can be removed from the blacklist again, but if they are deleted, you can't find them if you want to add them, but they may apply to add you as friends and then add them back. In the worst case, they can be blacked out first and then deleted, so neither of them can add them back.

First, if the relationship is a couple, the girl may be really angry if she blacked out her boyfriend. She just wants to make the boy realize the seriousness of the problem by blacking out and temporarily not wanting to hear from him. This means that the boy can call the girl, apologize, say something mainly, or wait for the girl to get angry, and then remove you from the blacklist. Girls who pull black boys often care about boys in their hearts, leaving you room and just wanting to give boys a small punishment.

If a girl deletes a boy's WeChat, the problem will be more serious than the one that is simply blacked out, which means that the girl doesn't really like the boy, or the boy makes herself bored, so she never wants to contact again after deleting it, and even ordinary friends have nothing to do. At this time, it is more difficult for boys to call again, and it is more difficult to restore the original relationship, unless some girls are boys who are deleted on impulse, but this situation is rare, and most of the cases are deleted by girls after careful consideration.

Second, if they are ordinary friends or classmates, it is rare for girls to pull black boys, or they will be deleted. The most likely reason is that you have not contacted each other for a long time. Although you know each other, it was once known. Although both sides have WeChat, they may not contact each other for a year or two or even longer, so she deleted it. Especially when girls get married, many boys' WeChat will be deleted, and there is no need to keep a spare tire.

If you delete it, you may not have any interest in the products promoted by boys, so just delete it directly, so that the mobile phone will not be too stuck. Some people have thousands of friends on WeChat, and the mobile phone is easy to get stuck.

If you are a boy you don't know, suddenly send some harassing messages to girls, such as asking girls out for dinner alone, unhealthy news, malicious news, you know. The most likely thing for girls is blacked out and deleted.

If you have different opinions, please leave a message in the comments section!

Blacking is supposed to express a decisive attitude and vent anger.

Compared with men, women are more susceptible to emotional disturbances and emotional reactions. Lahei, compared with deleting, may be more able to express his anger. In fact, he is telling the other party silently in this way: I am very angry. Or, I can't bear it.

However, blacking out and deleting are different in function. The biggest difference is that after blacking out the other party, the other party can't send messages to himself, but he can drag the other party out of the "little black room" at any time. If the mood goes down and he wants to give the other party another step, then blacking out is obviously the appropriate method. Without knowing it, the relationship between himself and the other party on WeChat returns to the original point, as if nothing had happened.

However, deletion is different. Once deleted, not only will all the chat records disappear, but if you regret it afterwards and want to add it back to the other party, you need to apply again through the other party's friends. For many girls who are just showing off their emotions, this is too "shameful".

therefore, in comparison, blacking out has more room for manoeuvre than deleting.

However, all kinds of small thoughts mentioned above are based on girls who know the difference between blacking out and deleting. Maybe some girls don't have so many complicated thoughts, but just think blacking out is more Japanese and thorough, so they will choose blacking out ~

It's hard to guess girls' thoughts, but it's also easy to guess. To sum up, these are the points. As for the difference between blacking out and deleting, I will also analyze it in the article.

The representative of Lahei's friends still has boys in his heart, so leave a way out for himself. Some men think that a girl who blackens herself means that she doesn't love herself at all, and in her heart, she will think that she is very rude and thinks about the problem with thick lines. In fact, boys don't understand that girls blacking out actually means there are boys in their hearts, because blacking out is still on WeChat. If you regret it one day, or if two people make up, you can still get it back.

But deleting is different. If a girl deletes a boy, it means something serious. Girls may be really angry, or really determined to break up, because if they are deleted, they will never get back, including those sweet words in previous chat records and intimate photos of two people. Unless you find a girl to scan the code face to face or find other friends to recommend you, it is useless if the girl really decides not to look back.

Some boys may be old hands and know how to tell whether the other party blacked out or deleted themselves. However, some boys are experiencing it for the first time, and they are scared and want to judge. In fact, it is very simple. If you find that the message sent to a girl is unsuccessful, and there is a red exclamation point, you can also add friends, which means that the girl has deleted you. At this time, adding her again will not pay attention to you.

However, if you find that the message was not sent successfully and there is no way to add the other person as a friend, you can breathe a little sigh of relief at this time, because the girl may only temporarily pull you closer to the blacklist. At this time, we should think carefully about where we have not done well recently, or try to make girls happy, otherwise we will definitely miss this marriage.

The above analysis is aimed at boys and girls who are close to each other, and there are also cases where girls delete boys. The common reasons are as follows: First, they ask girls for photos and want to watch videos when they come up. Second, they don't take care of girls' feelings. Girls still keep sending messages when they are busy or want to rest. Third, I have been questioning girls' information, including the eighteen generations of ancestors who want to ask a clear question, which is very offensive to girls. The fourth is the boys who advertise indiscriminately, and the circle of friends sells products every day. Fifth, men who don't know how to pretend to understand, show off their little knowledge and often make mistakes. Sixth, I often talk about things that women dislike.

The above are some reasons why girls delete or blacken boys. What other boys do you think are easy to be blacked out by girls?

there must be a difference between blacking out and deleting. Lahei shows that I am obsessed with it, but there are always some reasons why it is inconvenient. And deleting means you don't want anything to do with it! You can experience it yourself!

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That's a good question. I want to answer it.

I think blacking out is much more serious than deleting it

What about deleting it? Generally speaking, I think he made me angry, and I don't know what I did wrong, or I don't want to apologize if I knew it was wrong at all, so I am very angry (of course, this is mainly because we have a good relationship at ordinary times) and I can only delete it! Normally, I won't talk to him, and if he wants to talk to me, he will know that I have deleted him, and he will definitely ask why, so he can add me to ask why, and if he apologizes reasonably, he can be friends again. Of course, this is the reason for the usual good relationship.

La Hei's words are so angry that he doesn't even want to give an explanation. After reading the biography of Zhen Huan, it's the sentence: Never see each other again after death.

Don't bother me anymore.

I don't want to read the messages you sent.

I don't even want to read the verification you want to add to me.

As long as it is blacked out, people who refuse to communicate are generally selfish. Such people will definitely have a bad life in their later life, and they can not accept it. What's the difference with the dead?